The sea rises and falls
All the rules of non-cuckolds, in the final analysis, follow one fundamental rule: the most violent person has the final say.
This is a
"meta-rule", the rules that determine the rules. \nThe rivers and lakes are not fighting and killing, the rivers and lakes are sophisticated, and the officialdom is even more so.
\nChen Bo strayed into an unsolvable chess game because of a favor that he couldn't help but repay. \nHe thought he was going to stay in prison for the rest of his life, but he didn't expect that in the process of breaking the game, he would go from a pawn to a player.