Chapter 562: To get married

Liu Qianqian said: "Perhaps, I also think the same way, is it right to marry Du Xiao? Or ...... Do I really have the courage to change the status quo?"

Qiu Qiming said: "You are very satisfied with the status quo?"

"Perhaps...... No," Liu Qianqian said, "it's just that now my life is very stable, and everything is fixed." But I also know that this stability will not last forever......"

Ye Zhonghai will leave one day, and so will Meilan.

No one knows what day this will be, but it must be getting closer.

Qiu Qiming said: "After you and Du Xiao get married, will there be any changes in your life now?"

Liu Qianqian said: "I don't know very well. ”

Because I don't know, I don't dare to do it.

Qiu Qiming said: "Du Xiao's hometown seems to be very powerful, even I have heard of it, Du Xiao, right?"

"But Du Xiao has no intention of inheriting the family business," this sentence was explained to her by Du Xiao, if she discussed it with someone, or when she chatted outside, she had to say this, "We should still live in the Liu family after we get married......

Qiu Qiming was just about to speak, when he heard the door being pushed open, and Bai Wenjun walked in in a hurry: "I'm sorry, it's late, oops, the children at home are really annoying." ”

"It's okay," Ms. Liu said, "and we happen to be discussing." ”

Bai Wenjun asked, "What's the matter?"

Liu Qianqian told Bai Wenjun again, but Bai Wenjun didn't answer her immediately, she thought for a while: "Do you want to get married?" ”

"That's hesitation. ”

"I mean," Bai Wenjun said, "throw away all other external influences, and just ask yourself if you want to marry Du Xiao." ”

Liu Qianqian lowered her eyes: "That's what I thought." ”

He also said: "But when Du Xiao and I are together, we don't necessarily need to get married." ”

Qiu Qiming said: "If you don't get married, you will have no name and no points, and it is not very good." ”

Liu Qianqian asked: "Why in the end, people must get married." ”

Now he stopped the two older men.

Qiu Qiming said: "Everyone wants to get married." ”

Liu Qianqian was a little puzzled: "Why?"

Qiu Qiming said: "Only when you get married can you maintain social stability." ”

Liu Qianqian was even more puzzled: "Does social stability need to be maintained by marriage?"

Bai Wenjun said: "I think marriage is mainly for the convenience of necessity, you see, the partner can sign the law on many occasions, such as being sick and hospitalized, or others." If it's just boyfriend and girlfriend, no. ”

Liu Qianqian nodded: "If you say that, it's true." ”

Ordinary people can also use parents, she has no parents, and she has no siblings, if she really needs someone else in law to sign, Liu Qianqian really can't find anyone who can sign for her.

Qiu Qiming said: "And if you want to have children, you can only have them when you are married." ”

Bai Wenjun said: "Uncle Qiu, your idea is too outdated, and now the country also recognizes it for having children out of wedlock, just go with your mother, and you can have a single child." ”

Qiu Qiming said: "But it is still not good for children to have no parents. ”

"Even if there are two parents in the family, being a father doesn't care about anything, it's not a fart!" Bai Wenjun rolled his eyes.

"I remember that your husband is not quite good......" Qiu Qiming's voice was much weaker.

"It's good, that is, what you say is very good," Bai Wenjun said, "Men, it's usually good to ignore them and occasionally accompany the children on a whim." ”

"What's wrong?" Qiu Qiming said, "I remember that Xiao Zhang took care of the children?"

"That's my good education," Bai Wenjun sneered, "Whatever men die are children, isn't it irresponsible, immature, coquettish with his mother at home, and want to be coquettish with his wife when he gets married, he is really used to him, I tell you, Xiaoliu, my husband just can't get used to it, don't think he can't do it well, don't let him do it, don't let him do it, he doesn't let him do it, he feels that this family has nothing to do with him, and he doesn't help if the oil bottle is poured!" At the beginning, I decided how to do housework, it doesn't belong to your work, I don't do it, I was cooking at the time, he brushed the dishes, said that the brush was not good, I was too lazy to do it today, so I put it there, I didn't care, the bowl stinked for a week, I won't brush it, the bowl at home is used up, I won't cook, eat outside, he loves to eat or not, don't eat hungry. ”

"Ah......" Qiu Qiming said, "Don't teach Xiao Liu badly, that is, Xiao Zhang has a good temper, change someone else, he also eats outside, and you both don't go home to eat?"

"If he doesn't have a good temper, can I marry him?" Bai Wenjun said, "A man must have some advantages, my family Xiao Zhang, to be honest, is a good temper, otherwise this life really can't go on." ”

"Of course," Bai Wenjun said again, "Du Xiao should be different, Du Xiao is at least beautiful enough." But whether it's beautiful or not, it depends on whether you can do things. ”

Liu Qianqian thought for a while: "He doesn't do things." ”

Du Xiao has almost no concept of housework, although Liu Qianqian can do it, but she rarely does it, she has an aunt in the Liu family since she was born, and it was not until she went out to study in college that she began to learn how to live by herself, but there are not many housework in her own life, she shares it with her roommates in the dormitory, she does her part of her responsibilities well, and the pace of life is fast when she interns and studying abroad, she spends almost most of her time in school and stores, and just goes back to the apartment every day to sleep, and her clothes are directly washed.

The short period of less than a month between the accident at home and the transfer to Bright Entertainment was the poorest period of Liu Qianqian's life, and of course she could only do the housework by herself at that time, but the house she rented was very small and narrow, and it was very simple to clean up.

Du Xiao has never had a time when he has no money, as long as he can solve something with money, he will definitely not solve it.

Qiu Qiming and Bai Wenjun looked at each other, and they talked for a long time, but the situation of others was fundamentally different from that of ordinary people like them.

Bai Wenjun said: "Then if you two have a child, who will take care of it?"

Liu Qianqian said: "It should be Aunt Zhang and Aunt Meng, but I think I may have to hire a new live-in confinement sister-in-law, the aunts are a little old, and it may be a bit hard to get up at night to see the children." ”

Bai Wenjun said: "Then go back to that, so that there will be no friction between the two of you in life, so it is only a matter of whether you want to marry him, or rather, there is any need to get married, right?"

Liu Qianqian nodded.

Bai Wenjun said: "Maybe my ideas are still a little traditional, but I think that only when you are married can you be considered a real family." Because you and Du Xiao are not related by blood, of course, if you have a child, you and this child must be a blood family, but with Du Xiao, the legal act of marriage will make you feel more community. ”