Chapter 229 There is love in the heart, and love is not missing
"Wouldn't that kill people? If it's so dangerous to have a baby, then you don't have it. ”
Hearing the words of the little daughter-in-law, Xiao San was really scared half to death, if it was really so dangerous for a woman to have a child, then he would rather choose not to give birth.
The two of them are finally together, and they are not halfway through their lives, how can they be separated like this, so all his efforts will not be in vain?
Xiao San now chooses to develop in Dongcheng, that is, Dongcheng can make a lot of money, he plans, when he has enough money, he will go back to Nancheng to develop, and then live a peaceful life with her, if there is Dongcheng, he will also buy a few houses, and rent them all out when the time comes, they are only responsible for collecting rent.
You don't need too much money, you can let your family have a stable life, and then when you have time, you can go out as a family to travel, walk around, and enjoy the beautiful scenery of the rivers and mountains.
"Well, I'm just talking, don't take it seriously. ”
The child is so cute, how can she not want to, she is not the kind of person who likes Dink.
Luo Xiaohua grew up in a big family, with five brothers and sisters, three uncles and two aunts, and two aunts.
If she is not allowed to have children, she will definitely not be used to the cold and lonely home.
It's not that she particularly wants to give birth, but she thinks that the family with children is a little more lively, and the child is the bond between the two feelings of husband and wife.
After getting married, after experiencing firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, there will inevitably be cracks between husband and wife, so at this time, you have to need a bond, otherwise it will only be farther and farther away.
However, there are also cases where the relationship between two people is indeed broken, so even if there is a bond, it can't be recovered.
Speaking of which, Luo Xiaohua also thought of a problem, that is, in later generations, there are many couples who are divorced, it is like playing a family, you marry me, I marry you, and then divorce and marry another.
In fact, there are irretrievable marriages in this, and some can actually be salvageable, but they all feel that the next one is better. Therefore, he resolutely chose to divorce.
Divorce doesn't hurt much for children, but it actually hurts a lot, especially in. There is a lot to do with their outlook on life and values later in life.
"Shouldn't I be serious? Do you still know that there are tigers in the mountains and prefer to go to the tiger mountains?"
Xiao San really didn't expect that she knew that it was dangerous to have a child, but she still had to choose to give birth, this love was too heavy.
"You two have just gotten married, it's better to let things go with the flow, don't force it. ”
Hearing the conversation between the two of them, an old lady on the bed opposite couldn't help but say.
The old lady has gray hair, but her body is strong, and in this day's relationship, Luo Xiaohua feels that she is a kind-hearted old lady.
"What do you mean by that?"
Luo Xiaohua didn't understand a little, didn't the older generation take their heirs very seriously, could it be because they were not from their family, so they were ......
"You two have just gotten married, and the children's affairs are directly casual, otherwise you are really asking for trouble. ”
The old lady smiled kindly.
"This person, sometimes a lot of things can't be forced, if you calm down, he will come like this. ”
The old lady whispered, she thought of the first half of her life.
She is a college student, but she married a wife at the most beautiful age, and then begged for a child under the pressure of her mother-in-law.
Because she wanted to go to work at that time, but because her in-laws asked her to have a baby. Therefore, I was very nervous, I was in a bad mood when I got married, and I didn't have a child for a year and a half, and my mother-in-law thought that she wouldn't give birth, so she instigated it. The son divorced her, and at that time it was not a divorce, but a divorce.
As a highly educated person, she resolutely chose to leave, at that time, she suffered a lot of white eyes, and her mother's family thought that she was unethical and did not let her go home.
Perhaps, life is like this, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat is naturally straight to the bridge, she is not a person with a bad fate.
She used her talent to get a job at a newspaper, where she chose to live and eat because she was penniless.
A year later, she met her current wife.
"In fact, when he pursued me, I really didn't dare to agree, I felt that my life should be a lonely life. ”
What she didn't expect was that in this era, he could even have no children, counting him as the first marriage, and she was still the second marriage!
Love really came too fast, the two fell in love, however, they were not married, she felt that the first marriage had hurt her too much, she wanted love and not marriage, and he agreed.
Then, the two of them lived a sweet life of you and me.
"Grandma, you are good, you deserve to be loved!"
Hearing the old lady's story, Luo Xiaohua looked at Xiao San, and then clasped his hand tightly, she hoped that their marriage would be smooth and smooth, and there would be no ups and downs.
"It's not whether people are good or not, but that there is love in their hearts. ”
Even if she suffered so much pain, after her wife confessed, she still accepted it, and knowing that she couldn't have children, she chose to love him, even if they couldn't go to the end together, they at least loved.
Just when the sweet life of the two had not been too long, she woke up in the morning and gagged, at first she didn't pay attention, until she ate something and vomited something, she ran to the hospital, she thought it was a gastroenteritis attack, but when she checked it, she knew that she was pregnant.
Until now, she can clearly remember the picture of the two of them hugging each other and crying with excitement after knowing that they were pregnant.
Although she has never retreated from life before, but now that she is pregnant, she has the courage to face others.
She is no longer the scum in her mother-in-law's mouth. Chickens that don't lay eggs!
She is no longer afraid of facing her mother's tears, and every time she goes home, her mother will say that it was because of her sins in her previous life that she could not give birth to children.
It wasn't until later, after a chance encounter, that she learned that in fact, both of them could have children, which may be related to their physique or their state of mind at the time.
Either way, she at least got out of that unhappy life.
"Actually, I should be most grateful to my wife, if he hadn't taught me to love, maybe I would have been alone in this life. ”
Back then, she really had such a plan, that is, when she made a lot of money, she would pack her bags and travel around to appreciate the customs and customs of various places.