Volume 2: Urban Legend Chapter 207: Cognitive Biases (3rd Update)
"Big brother! God can be clear, I have not deceived you in anything! Although I didn't say my last name when I first met, I told you later! Or did I say that my eldest brother didn't believe that you were the second person to rub me in the bath? Heaven and earth conscience, my parents have never rubbed me! My fiancée once pestered me to give me a bath, so I agreed, and then I felt quite good, so I often asked her to help me rub. Sima Qingyun explained aggrievedly, not realizing the point of the problem at all.
Zhao Feng was silent, he was observing Sima Qingyun's expression, judging from the latter's expression and tone, it didn't seem like he was lying.
"Are you sure you're a man?"
"Ahh Sima Qingyun jumped up from the bed and responded to Zhao Feng with an affirmative gaze.
“...... In your perception, what is the difference between men and women?" Zhao Feng continued to ask.
Sima Qingyun was stunned for a moment, then squinted his eyes, grabbed his chest with one hand, and said, "Of course it's the chest!"
"Sure enough......" Zhao Feng can basically be sure now, Sima Qingyun didn't lie to him.
"Don't you have any doubts? your looks, your voice, and even your physiology, you've never doubted...... Didn't your fiancée, your mother, and anyone else around you tell you?" Zhao Feng still couldn't understand why such a misunderstanding had occurred.
"Big brother, there's no need to discuss this issue, believe me! I am undoubtedly a man! You must know that I have a fiancée! I belong to a family marriage with her, if I am a woman, even if my parents agree, my fiancée's family will not agree!" Sima Qingyun was anxious, she couldn't understand why Zhao Feng still doubted her gender.
Zhao Feng was silent, he got up and walked to Sima Qingyun, and said solemnly: "Maybe your family has shaped a certain environment for some reason, making you believe that you are a man, but I can tell you with certainty: you are a woman." ”
Sima Qingyun was stunned.
"Maybe I'm nosy, but you have the right to know your gender correctly, and you shouldn't be wrongly defined because of other people's intentions, you can not believe what I say, but you should know this matter, I am not suitable to continue to stay......" Zhao Feng said, turned around and was about to leave.
"Don't go, big brother!"
Sima Qingyun jumped out of bed directly and threw himself on Zhao Feng's back......
Half an hour later, Sima Qingyun, who had calmed down again, learned about the distinction between men and women through the Internet under the guidance of Zhao Feng, but he still couldn't fully accept it for a while.
This is a cognitive bias, because since childhood, under the influence of the external environment, in the process of growing up, accepting, believing and gradually fixing the view that he is a boy, at the beginning, it may be possible to explain and supplement the doubts of the person concerned about the point of view, so that the whole point of view is more full and true, and later, the person begins to make a reasonable explanation for the opposite point of view, and takes the initiative to "rationalize" the implanted point of view.
After a long time, Sima Qingyun's situation appeared.
"Big brother, I believe what you say, but I can also understand my parents' thoughts, my parents are just one of my children, my mother gave birth to me when it didn't go well, resulting in infertility after giving birth to me, and she kept telling me that it was because of the accident during childbirth that I was shorter than my peers. ”
"My parents love each other very much! Although the family is not short of money, my mother is still an English teacher in primary school, and my father will pick her up from school every day, rain or shine!"
"However, my grandfather always likes to do things! What kind of family is scarce, I want my parents to divorce, let my father find a new woman to add heirs to the family, and from time to time bring some women dressed up to my father, but that's it, my parents' feelings are not affected!"
"According to the eldest brother, my gender is female, but for my parents, if I am not a man, the family bloodline cannot be inherited, and my grandfather cannot be explained, they must have no choice, so they decided to make me a man, so I don't hate them. Sima Qingyun knelt on the bed and said with a smile.
Zhao Feng nodded after hearing this, he had no intention of getting involved in other people's housework, since Sima Qingyun could figure it out by himself, it was naturally the best.
"Well, now that I know I'm a woman, I won't continue to insist on being a man!"
Sima Qingyun suddenly changed his tone, resumed his daily ghostly spirit, and snickered again: "Haha! I laughed to death! My mother also told me that men are powerful creatures that bleed a little every month, and pain is a test of God for men, but fortunately, my blood has not hurt anymore since it turned black, hehe...... And Yuna's little girl, who dared to cheat as a husband! She must know that I am also a woman! And tease me like that, I must divorce her!"
“...... Then what about your grandfather?" Zhao Feng was a little worried, after all, this matter had something to do with him more or less.
"What should I do? It's still the same! It's impossible for my parents to divorce, at most they will be expelled from the house by my grandfather, they have their own company and business, and they don't have to be attached to the family name, so I'm not afraid of my grandfather! Although the marriage with Yuna was set by my grandfather, I just didn't want my parents to be difficult to accept, and now I have a legitimate reason to refuse the marriage, and my grandfather will give up after knowing my gender!" Sima Qingyun waved his hand and said indifferently.
"It's good that you know in your heart, it's late, there's a game tomorrow, I'll go first. Zhao Feng nodded and got up.
"Big brother, anyway, we've already slept, one more time is not too much, less one time is not too much, stay!" Sima Qingyun hurriedly said.
"Don't talk nonsense, I was confused by your gender before, but now that I know that you are a woman, there is a difference between men and women, I am really not suitable to stay, don't jump over again. Zhao Feng stopped Sima Qingyun's intention to repeat the old trick.
"Then big brother, don't treat me as a woman! Or do you say that big brother likes men?" Sima Qingyun was anxious, even if he was aggressive.
Zhao Feng didn't answer, and walked straight to the door.
"Big brother, I've let you see all my body! You have to be responsible for me!"
Bang!
Zhao Feng slammed the door as if fleeing for his life......
"Alas, my eldest brother is too shy, I don't mind...... But well...... Hehe......" Sima Qingyun took out his mobile phone and called his fiancée.
"Hey, is it Brother Yun?" a soft female voice came from the other end of the phone.
"Ahem...... Well...... It's for the husband!ah, Yuna, the husband has a question for you. Sima Qingyun suppressed his throat and said majestically.
"Brother Yun, just ask, Nana will tell you what she knows!"
"Well, that's the case, if one day, your husband ignores you, how will you keep your husband?" asked Sima Qingyun as he walked to the table, picked up a pen and paper, and prepared to take notes......
"Hmm...... Oh oh! I see! Uh-huh...... I understand...... Oh, and this trick, it's very good, and what? Uh-huh...... You're such a clever little ghost!
Sima Qingyun looked at the full notes on the table and showed a triumphant smile.