Chapter 313: Daughters should be self-reliant
Luo Xiaohua only went in this direction because she heard the sound of crying here.
Sure enough, I saw Liu Xiaoli when I came here, and she was really no stranger to this girl.
In this difficult era, with her hard work, she not only graduated from college in the end, but also became the first college student in Nancheng to study abroad, and finally returned to China to study for graduate and doctoral degrees, which can be described as a beautiful journey.
Her life can indeed be written as an inspirational film, since junior high school, she has relied on digging herbs and picking up garbage to provide for her tuition.
Especially when I was in high school, it was the most difficult, and her tuition and living expenses really made her feel breathless.
When she was in high school, she was one year younger than Luo Xiaohua, so Luo Xiaohua still knew her very well.
In particular, she jumped a grade, which made her admire, when she was nine years old, the village began to eliminate illiteracy, and children who did not read must read, at that time, Liu Xiaoli was only in the first grade.
If it weren't for the literacy eradication in the village, perhaps such a talent would have been wasted.
Luo Xiaohua doesn't know much about Liu Xiaoli's later affairs, and it is said that she later took root in Kyoto.
However, her efforts did not bring her a happy life, mainly because her parents were too capable.
If you don't go to school when your grades are good, and when you have money, it's like a bloodsucking worm possessing you, and you have to suck her blood dry.
seems to be her boyfriend, and she directly bought out this family affection with money, of course, Liu Laoyi's family also got a lot of money, built a small house for her three sons, and married a daughter-in-law.
It's just that Liu Xiaoli never returned to Nancheng and returned to her home.
In fact, in Luo Xiaohua's opinion, Liu Xiaoli is really very lucky, her efforts have paid off, and she also has a man who loves her.
The most important one is that her parents still stopped at the end. Although it is not as good as the kind of loving and selfless parents, it is still much better than the kind of life of the daughter in exchange for the happiness of the son.
"It's too cold, don't blow a cold, your body is your own, only if you love yourself, others will love you. ”
Luo Xiaohua stepped forward and sat side by side with her.
Xiao San's words were to stand behind them and look at his daughter-in-law.
"Sister Huahua, do you think I did something wrong today?"
After scolding her grandmother, she really regretted it, no matter how she said she was also an elder.
However, what she couldn't get angry about was the three words "losing money".
Since she can remember, she has not stopped from morning to night, feeding pigs, chickens and ducks, and cooking for the family.
Although there is an older brother and two younger brothers in the family, my mother said that boys do hard work, not housework.
Therefore, she did the work of the family, and when she was older, she washed the clothes of the whole family.
Even when she went to school later, she would start working as soon as she got home, and she would not go to school until she had finished feeding the pigs, chickens and ducks in the morning, and she would hurry home to cook as soon as school was out at noon.
When she was on vacation, she would dig herbs, wash them and dry them, and then sell them in the city for money. Occasionally dig up good things, and you can also have a lot of income!
Therefore, not only is she not a money-loser, but she is also a competent helper.
"I think you're doing the right thing, daughter should be self-reliant, if we don't love ourselves, who will love us?"
Luo Xiaohua's words were not only for Liu Xiaoli, but also for herself.
"Yes, we don't love ourselves, who will love us?"
Her grandmother shouted "losing money" all day long, but everyone didn't buy it, and she hated her very much, which is the best feedback between people.
"Actually, I really envy you, and I really want to go to college. ”
College used to be a dream of hers, and she thought that after she was reborn and came back, she could continue her college dream, but she didn't expect that she met Xiao San, then married him, and now she is pregnant again, it seems that this college dream can only be a luxury.
Xiao San, who was standing behind them, was also shocked after hearing his daughter-in-law's heart, why did this girl still think about that?
However, it is also easy to go to college now, because there is a night school, which is no worse than the university, and it is also a regular school, and she can plan to go to one after giving birth.
Since you have been reborn and come back, you have to have the consciousness of being reborn, and you must fulfill every dream, otherwise why do you come back from rebirth?
"Sister Huahua, you envy me, I still envy you? You don't know that since I was a child, I wanted a mother like my aunt, not to mention giving us a rich life, at least being able to protect us and encourage us. ”
Liu Xiaoli can't say how she feels about her mother, anyway, she thinks that her mother is similar to her grandmother.
"Silly girl!"
Liu Xiaoli's dejected appearance made Luo Xiaohua feel distressed when she saw it.
It is indeed difficult for girls in this era, especially for those like her who are not willing to be ordinary, if you want to break this shackle and escape from this cage, you have to be prepared to hit your head and bleed.
In fact, she is also very lucky, at least during the time she was studying, her parents did not deliberately prevent her from studying.
In addition, she was born in a good era, and the village began to eliminate illiteracy, and if her parents did not let her study, she could ask the village women's director to help persuade her.
As for tuition, she can pick up a little bottle, and there is also to go up the mountain to dig herbs, earn some living expenses and earn some tuition, if it is like before, women are not stepping out of the door, and they are not out of the second door, so they only do housework at home, take children and have children, and this is it for a lifetime, obscure, and some give birth to many girls and will be disliked by the family.
"I'm really stupid, why do you think I'm arguing with my grandmother about this, knowing that this matter is already ingrained in their hearts, and still arguing with her about this?"
As a college student, Liu Xiaoli must not have such a preference for sons in her thoughts.
Every time I came back and listened to it, when my grandmother scolded her, I felt very uncomfortable, so I wanted her to change her mind.
"So I said you are stupid, let's go our own way and let others say go, not to mention that it is still your grandmother, not only will you be uncomfortable after you refute her, but the people in this village will also say that you are not filial, many times things, we don't want to argue, this kind of boring thinking, let yourself use your strength to prove to them that our girls are no worse than boys. ”
For those patriarchal women in the village, Luo Xiaohua really can't understand why she dislikes women when she is a woman!