Lin Zirou's summary made Liu Jianfeng speechless for a while, although it was far-fetched, it made sense.

Judging whether a woman is successful by marrying well, this is the standard from ancient times to the present, not only to marry well, but also to be the master of the house, and the husband obeys his words, which is the pursuit of modern women.

The so-called marriage love, respecting each other like a guest, raising the case together, sharing weal and woe, and sharing honor and disgrace can only be the lines of the wedding master of ceremonies, and it is a matter of saying and listening.

Lin Zirou couldn't bear Liu Jianfeng's sharp comments, so she had to change the channel again.

I used to like to watch blind date shows, but now that I have a boyfriend next to me who is holding my stinky feet, I naturally don't need to watch it anymore.

Therefore, she changed to an emotional program again, and the topic was specifically about divorce.

That is, some couples who encounter marital problems are on the show, openly saying the contradictions, letting the audience comment, let the experts make comments, and let the host adjust the show, among which there are many strange reasons, so Liu Jianfeng looked at it a few times and commented again: "Hey, this show and the blind date show just now are sisters, and they are considered sequels."

You see, when I went on a blind date just now, the woman asked for a car, a house, and money, and she didn't want to honor her in-laws, but she asked her husband to honor her parents-in-law, and even asked her children to follow their mother's surname.

Looking at this emotional show again, all kinds of barbaric demands made before marriage have become mines planted in future marriages, which will detonate anytime and anywhere. ”

Lin Zirou smiled, this Liu Jianfeng's perspective on problems is always so novel and tricky, but he is right, the truth of these two shows seems to be the first part and the follow-up, just like the cause and effect cycle that Buddhism says.

Before marriage, the woman's excessive and even greedy demand has gone beyond the scope of wedding customs, and is more like a transaction, and it is the kind of price that sits on the ground.

As the saying goes, don't talk about money, talking about money hurts feelings, not to mention asking for economic benefits for the purpose of marriage, which is a great blow to feelings, some old people commit suicide because they can't pay the high bride price of their son's daughter-in-law, how many families return to poverty overnight in order to buy a wedding house.

Just like the guest couple in the show at this time, the main contradiction in their marriage is poverty, both of them are ordinary salarymen, but they have a lot of fixed expenses every month, such as housing and car loans, plus children's education expenses, and various daily expenses of the two, almost moonlight.

The cause of this conflict was that his wife was in the unit, and several colleagues showed off the new dress, she was troubled by vanity, and she overdrew her credit card and bought a set of popular models, but her husband found that it caused family conflicts, and the two even fought against each other for a time.

Now that I'm going to get a divorce, I'm on the show to tell my grievances, please comment.

Some people complain that the salary is too low, some people say that the expenses are too big, some people say that men don't work hard, some people say that women are too losers, and the husband complains that the parents-in-law opened their mouths and asked for a huge bride price, and there was no return gift at all, so they all went to fund the brother-in-law, resulting in the young couple having no savings, and the wife complained that the husband didn't know how to feel sorry for herself.

Lin Zirou glanced at Liu Jianfeng and asked, "Yuan Fang, what do you think?"

Liu Jianfeng immediately stopped massaging and changed to stroking, and before Lin Zirou noticed, he said, "My lord, it's good for me to sit and watch." ”

Lin Zirou glared at him and said, "Let me ask, what would you do if it were you?"

"Replace me?" Liu Jianfeng said with a smile: "Of course I support you, spend money, buy and buy, not to mention that you are worth hundreds of millions, even if you want me to buy it for you, even if I have no money, I will buy it for you if I borrow money." ”

Liu Jianfeng is telling the truth, today's yellow dress was bought with borrowed money, of course, if this is said, it will definitely be cleared out of the male team by everyone.

Lin Zirou also glanced at her mouth disdainfully, indeed, with her current net worth, she has already achieved financial freedom, that is, she has already reached the point where she can make money lying down, and she took 10,000 steps back and said, even if the company goes bankrupt and goes bankrupt, her personal assets are enough for her to have food and clothing for three lifetimes.

In this case, there is naturally no trouble caused by money, so Liu Jianfeng naturally dares to say beautiful things, she thought about it and asked again: "I mean, if I am not the president, we are both men and women in the show, what will you do in the face of such a problem?"

"You are a typical mentality of being fed and supported, and after you have money, you dream of living a few days of hardship and sin, right?" Liu Jianfeng said helplessly: "Everyone has their own life, why put yourself in other people's lives and increase your troubles?"

"Fun, I just like to know what you would do if it were you?" Lin Zirou was more serious: "The so-called adversity sees the truth, and the poor and lowly husband and wife mourn everything, so that they can see the truest side of a person." ”

"There's a lot of fun, or let's play something else, I'll introduce you to a new game, imported from abroad, especially in Japan, a very popular game, the scene is simple, two people can have a lot of fun. Liu Jianfeng touched her leg and said.

Lin Zirou seemed to be burned, and immediately retracted her beautiful legs, and said: "Don't come to this set, you hooligan, I just want to ask you what you will do if you are a person in the play, and if you don't want to play, you will pull it down." ”

"Good, good, play. Liu Jianfeng thought for a while and said: "In fact, if you want to solve a problem, you must first find the crux of the problem, cause and effect, there is a cause to have an effect, so we must solve it from the root." ”

"The root cause of the problem of these two people is poverty, how can this be solved?" Lin Zirou asked.

"Not true. Liu Jianfeng shook his head and said: "According to the man's description, he was not poor before, and the reason why he was poor after marriage was that before marriage, the parents-in-law opened their mouths and asked for a huge bride price to support their brother-in-law.

Therefore, if the bride price is only paid according to the normal standard, or the mother's family gives back some gift money, they will have a certain amount of savings, as the saying goes, the family has surplus food, the heart is not panicked, there is a certain amount of continued and moonshine, the mentality when consumption is completely different, even if it is occasionally overspent, there will be no such a big contradiction.

So the crux of their problem lies in the huge bride price that sucked the man dry and took it clean, and if they want to solve it, they have to find a way from this point.

If it were me, and my parents-in-law asked for such a huge bride price, and I couldn't give it, then I would choose to pay in installments.

The bride price of 100,000 yuan is divided into ten years, or even twenty years, and is paid for about a few hundred and 1,000 yuan per month, so that you can not only ensure that you have savings in your hands, but also repay the loan every month without affecting the quality of life, and the most important thing is the daughter-in-law!

If you have to spend part of it to your parents-in-law, I believe that the daughter-in-law will have to be anxious for a few months, and may even take the initiative to go home and quarrel with her parents, and refuse to pay it in the future, you know, after getting married, the little couple is a family!"

"Count you as a loss!" After listening, Lin Zirou gave a heartfelt thumbs up: "You can figure it out!"

Lin Zirou is also a business elite, and after thinking about it carefully, she knows that Liu Jianfeng's method is extremely feasible, and the woman asks for a bride price, one is for money, and the other is for face, but no one wants to be poked in the backbone and said that she sells her daughter.

So this installment payment is very good, it can be said frankly to the outside world, the uncle promised to give a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and give a part every month, and it seems that every month is filial piety, as if the elderly are fed, for a long time, for example, the daughter-in-law wants to buy something, and needs to spend extra money, but the mortgage and car loan cannot be repaid, so you can only use your brains on the money of your parents.

This is not a method before death, but also a method to sow discord, divide the intimacy between the daughter-in-law and her mother's family, and completely draw the daughter-in-law into her own camp, and the fact should be that way, if you get married, this small family is your home.

"Alright, are you still satisfied with my solution? Liu Jianfeng said with a smile: "You are completely watching the Three Kingdoms shed tears, worrying about the ancients, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, let's just live our own life, you don't let your father ask me for a huge bride price." ”

"Hmph, this is not accurate, my dad loves face the most, and he is even more afraid that I will be cheated by bad people, if he knows, it will inevitably make it difficult for you. Lin Zirou said.

"It doesn't matter, although we haven't met, we have similar interests, and we will definitely hit it off at first sight in the future. Liu Jianfeng said with a smile: "Actually, when will his old man appear, I have prepared a meeting gift for him." ”

"What greeting gift?" Lin Zirou asked.

Liu Jianfeng opened the mobile shopping software and said to Lin Zirou: "It will be delivered tomorrow." ”

Lin Zirou leaned over to take a look, and immediately blushed, the gift was a book, called "The Treasure Book of Science for the Elderly"!

Lin Zirou blushed but didn't scold the street, which surprised Liu Jianfeng, and hurriedly asked, "How about it, is the gift I chose also to your liking!?"

"Stinky hooligan!" Lin Zirou scolded angrily, and then said helplessly: "I'm worried about the old man's body, he is a little too sassy, if you can help me persuade him, it's not bad." ”

"By the way, let's talk about family life, it's much better than this meaningless show. Liu Jianfeng turned off the TV casually, and couldn't wait to ask: "Tell me about the old man, your only blood relative, let me know more about it, and I can honor him with you in the future." ”

"Hmph, you want to hear about his glorious deeds. Lin Zirou snorted: "It's okay to talk to you, it's also a warning to you." ”

Lin Zirou said helplessly: "The book you bought is really useful to her father, this old man is now in the name of the chairman of the Lin Group, with a net worth of hundreds of millions, and he lives a fairy-like free life every day, which is a little bad, too lustful."

This value and status, there are too many temptations in society, and there are countless women who throw themselves into their arms, but fortunately, the old man is not a refusal to come, and he also knows that he needs moderation when he is older, so he only chooses what he can do. ”

Speaking of this, Liu Jianfeng nodded frantically, from the acacia chair and dragon and phoenix bed in the villa before, it can be seen how much these two people are in love, and it is not easy to find a woman who can accept this scale.

"Actually, I can't blame my dad for this, he is not such a person by nature, and he has lived a peaceful life with my mother for many years. Lin Zirou has to cover up his father's shame: "It's just that this society is too complicated, and in the past, he always said that first-class men have homes outside their homes, second-class men have flowers outside their homes, third-class men look for homes among flowers, fourth-class men come home from work, fifth-class men's wives are not at home, and sixth-class men have no wives and no homes."

In particular, the old man heard a story before, saying that there was a boss who kept a little lover, bought a suite at a price of 800,000 yuan to house his lover, and paid his lover 10,000 yuan a month for maintenance, and five years later the two broke up and went their separate ways, and the boss sold the property, worth 2 million, counting the maintenance fee and the purchase price, the boss played the lover for five years in vain, and made a net profit of 600,000 yuan.

After listening to this story, Lao Lin Tou immediately became energetic and inspired to be a special man, according to his statement, the special man takes the country as his home Now, he has bought houses in 32 cities and counties in 613 provinces in the south and north, and has settled down.

And he always said to me, 'Daddy went out and made money for you!'"

Puff ...... Steel-blooded real man, domineering pure man Liu Jianfeng, kneeling!