Chapter 1949: Countermeasures are needed
Chu Zheng felt that when his daughter-in-law said this, his heartstrings were about to be flicked to his conscience.
"How could I have such a conscienceless thought!"
Sitting cross-legged in front of Han Zihe, Chu Zheng almost raised his two feet to ensure it.
"Yes, I admit that I don't approve of you chasing you thousands of miles away, but in good conscience, I didn't even think of the child at that time, I was just worried about you! I'm afraid you're not safe!"
Chu Zheng said very seriously, and even, for fear that his daughter-in-law would not believe it, he specially explained: "For children, I am not responsible enough, and there are even some fathers who are not responsible, but I can really swear to you, daughter-in-law, my heart, I will not deviate at all!"
He was talking and scratching his head as hard as he could, as if he couldn't find strong evidence right away.
"Don't worry, I can think of whatever you want to say. Han Zihe patted him on the shoulder, signaling that he could relax.
His daughter-in-law's hand seemed to have a soothing effect on him, as long as he gently patted him, he could immediately calm down and relax.
"As for the children, I want to know your hard work, of course I don't understand it, we can't force it, but if you want to say that you owe, you definitely don't owe them!"
In the end, in fact, Chu Zheng was also a little weak-hearted.
He really can't think that because he gave birth to them, they have been derelict in companionship, and they owe nothing to the child.
But if he wants to say that he owes, he can count this debt on himself, and he doesn't want his daughter-in-law to take care of the loss.
"To be realistic, isn't the most unfortunate thing that there are Han Pin Zhanzhan and Lao Yi who can be shaped? Besides, even if the children don't want to see you and me, don't we still have a dry rest house as a way back?"
Han Zihe: "......"
She thought that she was thinking long-term, but she didn't expect Chu Zheng to be farther than she thought! Seriously, the words that seemed to be self-analysis with Chu Zheng just now were actually some performance elements. Of course, this is not to say that it is not her heart at all. How to say it, the reason why she said so much is that she wants to say ugly things ahead.
She didn't want to wait for a long time, because some children had grown crooked, and they used this experience as an excuse to resist her education of them, and they didn't want Chu Zheng to use this as a reason to anger her if there were children who couldn't educate them.
Of course, even if Chu Zheng dared to anger her because of this, she was not afraid! The big deal was to break up neatly after the fight, who was afraid of whom?!
Although Han Zihe doesn't know the specific situation of the two children in China, she is ready to find an opportunity to clean up the bear children after returning to China.
The process of turning a child into a bear seems to be very easy, but if you want to correct the bear child, the bitterness in this is not something that can be said in a word.
If you want to say that she doesn't regret it, Han Zihe can't be sure, but if the child is really hard to manage, she thinks she won't wronged herself, what to do when the time comes, let's watch it!
In fact, I am not afraid that the child will release his emotions, but I am afraid that the child will hold it all in his heart, and when he grows up, he will completely let go of himself.
Han Zihe thought, the two children in China shouldn't be like this, right?
If this is the case, then when the child grows up, it will be ...... What a headache!
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"He He, why do I think you are so sensible?" When Chu Zheng went out to order a drink for his daughter-in-law, Zhan Yu jumped out again and whispered to Han Zihe, "Why aren't you embarrassed?"
"Then if I'm embarrassed, the two children in China...... Can you not be affected by Chu Zheng's father?"
Zhan Yu: "...... That's unlikely!"
"Then if I'm embarrassed, I can go back to them right now?"
Zhan Yu: "...... It's not realistic at all!"
"Then if I sigh, Chu Zheng's father and his wife and daughter behind him, can I not pry it?"
Zhan Yu: "...... What's the difference between this and hoping that the other party will find out in conscience?"
"Then if I sigh, the two children in China will be able to understand my painstaking efforts and consider the problem from my point of view?"
Zhan Yu: "...... In other words, as far as your two children are concerned, it seems that they are not yet able to empathize...... Right?"
"Then if I sigh, since I left them and rushed to Chu Zheng's side, all the significant or insignificant effects on them will immediately dissipate?"
Zhan Yu: "...... Can this be a good deed?"
"That's right, what you said is my answer to you, why don't I have little mood swings, thank you!" Han Zihe patted his wings, "Also, you can go back now! Chu Zheng is about to come in!"
"He came in and he came in, could it be ...... I'm still afraid of him!" spread his wings, making himself look stronger, as if he could make himself appear fearless of Chu Zheng.
"Okay, it's good if you're happy!" Han Zihe shrugged his shoulders and let Zhan Yu feel free.
Zhan Yu: "......"
Well, what Han Zihe said is also very right, it can be regarded as a strategic transfer, yes! It is the wisdom to preserve its strength, it is not afraid of Chu Zheng!
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"Why do I seem to see Zhan Yu's shadow?" Chu Zheng just walked in with a dinner plate, looked at the window, and asked.
"Well, Zhan Yu gave me advice just now, let me think about it, how to get angry with you is better. The tone of Han Zihe's words made anyone hear that it was a joke.
So Chu Zheng thought that this was his daughter-in-law's unangry damage to him.
So I don't think about it.
"Daughter-in-law, when I just ordered wine, I thought about it carefully, and I still felt that I couldn't let those two children go, so I had to think of a way!" Chu Zheng was unwilling to let his children be spoiled by others.
If you don't know, forget it, this is not told in advance, so can you still be passive?
Obviously, Han Zihe also thought like this: "You still have brains!"
Don't look at it, it's not a good thing, but when he heard it in Chu Zheng's ears, it really made him feel excited!
So he looked at Han Zihe with bright eyes, and even couldn't wait to lean forward to his daughter-in-law: "Daughter-in-law, do you already have a plan?"
"Of course it's impossible to let them mess around, although I don't know how far they can go. ”
"Then I'll ask Lao Zheng! He must know!" Chu Zheng said this, and he was about to call Zheng Yuan.
Han Zihe dragged him over, patted him several times speechlessly, and then asked him: "Didn't you say that Lao Zheng is resting? Why are you embarrassed to toss others?"
"How can you say that it is also the child's default godfather, why can't you be tossed? It's not for others, isn't it about your own children!" Chu Zheng said of course, and Han Zihe didn't know how he should reason with him.
"Then what do you think you can ask?" Han Zihe let go of him and asked, "Do you think that Zheng Yuan usually has nothing else to do, just pay attention to your son and daughter!"
"Even if he doesn't always keep an eye on the child, then he should know more than the two of us!"
"How many do you think it can be? What's more, as a person with online emotional intelligence, do you think that Lao Zheng Zhen will really make all the bad things about your son and daughter?"
After Chu Zheng pursed his lips, he was silent.
Seeing that he didn't speak, Han Zihe continued to say to him: "How is it possible! Isn't it! If you can't understand it, let yourself change positions, think about you and Lao Zheng changing positions with each other, if his son is so bearish that people hate to directly resort to force, you know that he doesn't know anything, will you tell him everything as it is?"
"If Zheng Yuan's children don't listen to discipline at all, and they are still crazy about the boundary line of law or morality, I think I will make it clear to Zheng Yuan!" Chu Zheng really pondered his daughter-in-law's suggestion, and then said very seriously.
Han Zihe: "......"
Well, he has no problem doing that either.
Just talking like this, she wanted him to take into account that Lao Zheng was not easy, and it was not easy.
"I don't think those two children have grown up to that point, so if you think about it again, little boy bear, but not particularly excessively, but it seems that they have grown up faintly in a way that is not very pleasant.
Although you are also an insider, there are many things that you have either heard or speculated about, and you have witnessed the situation with your own eyes, and the child's parents have not been in contact with the child during this time.
As your best friend, the couple has all the knowledge of the child in ...... Keep it obedient and cute before they and the child are separated. So, at this time, are you sure that you will tell your best friends without reservation?"
Chu Zheng: "......"
He thought, if he really did that, what difference would it be from being a fool?
Although you should be honest with your friends, honesty does not mean speaking up without wisdom.
I can't say all the time, but I have to say that most of the time, direct advice is not very popular.
Otherwise, there would be no such advice in the world as "good advice is good for deeds", wouldn't it?
It can be seen that most people still don't like to listen to contrary advice, even if the other party knows very well that the person who is speaking has good intentions.
Thinking of this, Chu Zheng paused slightly for a moment, and couldn't help but sigh: "It seems that the matter of disciplining children can only be done by the two of us." ”
"You and I should have done it ourselves!" Regarding the matter of educating children, Han Zihe never intended to pretend to entrust others.
When she left the child in China before, she was ready to pull the child after she returned.
"Daughter-in-law, you better tell me what you want to do, I'll listen to you!" let his daughter-in-law analyze it so well, even if Chu Zheng, who had any ideas before, didn't have any ideas at this time.
Since I don't have a daughter-in-law who is transparent, I still have to listen to my daughter-in-law!
Chu Zheng thought very openly, and he also trusted Han Zihe!
"I think so, you contact your comrades-in-arms in the country to see if you can put the children here in the kindergarten in the compound, as long as you can put them in, at least your father can not reach the children, so that the two children can't find a backer first. It can keep them from making progress on the side of the bear child. ”
"It's not difficult. Chu Zheng thought for a while and said, "I remember that there is really a place to arrange, but it's not a ...... of our military compound."
"It doesn't matter!" Han Zihe waved his hand and told Chu Zheng that he didn't mind this little problem.
"It's just that the key question is whether it's too far away? You know, if it's very far, there may be resistance. Han Zihe reminded Chu Zheng and said, "Those two babies are not only the daughters of the two of us, they are also the grandsons of your father-in-law!"
"Don't worry, let the two children study in the capital!" Chu Zheng talked to Han Zihe in detail for a long time, and finally said, "It happens to be a militarized kindergarten, and it can go directly to a key primary school, which is a very good place!"
"Listen to your description...... Looks like you've been there before, haven't you?"
Chu Zheng: "...... I just look at the orphans left behind by my former comrades. ”
Hearing this, Han Zihe reacted: "No......! It can't be a place to take care of the orphans of the soldiers, right?"
As soon as he finished speaking, Han Zihe didn't wait for Chu Zheng to speak, he waved his hand first: "That's not good! I'll tell you, you can't let the child go there!"
"Daughter-in-law, if you think about it carefully, in fact, there is really nothing wrong with studying there temporarily! Besides, this is only temporary, and when we go back, even if you want your child to continue studying, they won't agree! That doesn't take up resources! When the time comes, how easy will it be for you to transfer your child to a major or a primary school through the relationship of your university?"
Han Zihe still shook his head and said, "You and I are both living well, if you let the children study there, won't you occupy other people's resources?"
"I'm looking for help from the leaders, they will allocate resources for me to make up for it first, and when we go back, we will naturally deduct it from the remuneration and benefits, and we must not owe it there!"
"You know very well that I said that this is not what you want to explain for a long time!" Han Zihe made Chu Zheng tangled and annoyed, "You said that it is okay for the two children to suddenly change the environment, and their relatives are not around, so you must let the environment and atmosphere keep up, but where is the good place you arranged? No matter how good the people there are, the environment inside will also tell the children that being there means that they only have each other! This is a big lie for the children! And what kind of pain such a lie will bring to them, have you ever thought about it?!"
If it weren't for the fact that Chu Zheng would meet Zheng Yuan and Shen Lianghe in the future, Han Zihe would have the heart to beat him at this time.
Chu Zheng: "......"
Well, he admits that his daughter-in-law persuaded him.
"But if you don't go there, I can tell you very clearly that there won't be a place where you can behave children like you say. ”
"Huh~~" Han Zihe just argued with him for a long time, and he happened to hold his stomach, at this time, it was quite effective, and Han Zihe was in a much better mood, "You don't know a word, it says, 'There are conditions that need to be on, and if there are no conditions, create conditions, you have to go up'!"
"You, do you mean ......" After Chu Zheng heard this, he couldn't help but move in his heart.