"That's the problem. When Ms. Chen said the answer, her expression was serious, and there was a difference that is characteristic of her profession.

I...

Unbelief.

At this time, Principal Wang deliberately took a half step back and said, "You talk first, if you need anything, look for me in the office next door." ”

"Okay, thanks. ”

After Mr. Chen got up to see him off, he came back and sat down in front of me.

Because of his rationality, he advised me: "In society, it is very common for adults and children to have psychological problems. ”

"My daughter is fine. I snapped.

Lingling is innocent and childlike, even if she is against me and Mi Lu's love, and Mi Fei takes care of her, she is always in happiness.

Psychological problems?

No way!!

I denied it in my heart, and I didn't want to face it.

And Teacher Chen didn't speak, just watched silently, and the look on her face... That kind of doctor-like, habitual look.

That's right!

A counselor is also a doctor.

I am not tired of her and her profession, but I am resistant... In a professional tone, tell me about my daughter's current situation.

After a while, Mr. Chen spoke: "Mr. Ye, you are very emotional, please calm down." ”

"Yes. ”

I didn't have a good face, so I lit a cigarette and took two puffs to ease my mood.

Now, it is even more important to be calm.

Sitting aside with his head down, he said in a dull voice: "I'm sorry, I just had some gaffes... Can you tell me about my daughter?"

"Taciturn in kindergarten, low self-esteem, slight autistic tendencies. ”

"Ahh

The smell of burning, permeating the air.

Holding the cigarette butt with my thumb, I tried to use pain to relieve my inner anxiety, autism, is that kind of stereotyped and sluggish?:

It made me terrified: "No, it's not... Lingling is usually normal, no, no..."

His lips trembled, and his words stumbled.

And Mr. Chen, who saw it in his eyes, gave me a reassuring pill with a responsible attitude: "Don't be afraid, it's just the early symptoms." ”

“......”

"When Miffy found me, she said that Ye Ling was squatting in the corner at night and calling for her father and mother. ”

“......”

The scene in my mind: my daughter's expression was helpless and panicked, and tears kept falling, calling for me and Milou.

It was like a sharp knife that stabbed me in the heart.

also understood why Miffy wanted to take away Ye Ling's custody.

In the midst of suffering and pleading, I looked at Teacher Chen and asked, "What is the reason, have you analyzed this?"

"Children are sensitive. ”

"Huh?"

"For example, you just said that you and your wife pretend to be harmonious in front of your children, but the world of children is not so easy to deceive. ”

“......”

It seems that he understands or not, Miffy has said something similar

Mi Lu and I are both living in a scam, how can we hide it from our daughter? What can she perceive when she is less than six years old?

Teacher Chen explained: "There are many things that you are not aware of. ”

"For example?"

"Emotions. ”

"Oh?"

"Emotions can be contagious, such as... I guess you've been indecisive lately and you've been extremely decisive, right?"

"How do you know?" I asked, admitting.

In the morning, I was decisive at the meeting, and I did whatever it took to make a bold move.

But when I talked to Xiaolan about women at noon, my thinking and words were confused, which was a topic I provoked, but I subconsciously avoided it.

"From Miffina, I know about you. Teacher Chen responded.

"It's true that I'm studying psychology. ”

"No, the person in question is confused, your current emotions are easy for onlookers to detect. ”

"Huh?"

"Psychologically speaking, complex and changeable emotions will infect the people around you, especially relatives, adults are fine, children are..."

Say. ”

"The world of children is simple and easy to be irradiated. Teacher Chen gave the answer.

Words, understood!

It's not just me, it's Milou.

I'm changeable, she's paranoid, and under the premise of acting in front of my daughter... Maybe it's just us, self-righteous good.

Not to mention, beside Ye Ling, there is also a mother-in-law who likes to chew her tongue.

Children are sensitive and more vulnerable.

Other words...

I have no reason to make a fool of myself.

In the midst of strong self-blame, I asked Mr. Chen, "What should I do?"

"True. ”

"No way. ”

Refuse immediately, although I don't understand psychology, but now if I let Ye Ling know, the real relationship between me and her mother.

The consequences are unimaginable.

However, Teacher Chen, she explained: "It's good to have real emotions, don't use care as an excuse to deceive her world." ”

...... ......

Psychology?

For more than an hour, I chatted a lot with Mr. Chen.

When it comes to children, be cautious.

But Teacher Chen said that it should be as natural and moderate as possible, and as for where the boundary is, Mi Lu and I need to perceive it.

When leaving, she left the phone.

Don't forget to advise: "Don't let the child miss it too much, take her to see her mother!"

I...

Be natural and measured.

In front of our daughter, can Milou and I do it?

With uneasiness, when I came to KFC on the west side of the kindergarten, Xiaolan was coaxing Ye Ling to eat French fries, but the effect was not good.

Sullen, crawling on the table in a daze.

"Ugh. ”

There is a cramp in the heart, in case the daughter is autistic...

Bah!

In an instant, I put that thought out of my mind, even if I died, it wouldn't hurt her heart in the slightest.

With this determination, walk over.

"Dad. ”

Seeing me, Ye Ling rushed again, and immediately burst into tears, hugged me and said, "Grandma said, you don't want Lingling and Mom anymore." ”

“......”

For a moment, I wanted to pull my mother-in-law's tongue out.

Poisonous tongue woman!

For personal gain, use my daughter as a pawn, she is your granddaughter... To be real, to have a degree, and think of this sentence.

Difficult!

I don't know how to be emotional.

Fortunately, Xiaolan came over and helped me out: "Your father loves Lingling the most, why doesn't he want you?"

"Yes. ”

"That's... Lingling, you must hug your father, you can't let him run away, there are a lot of bad people, you have to eat your father. ”

"Huh?"

"I don't lie to you, there are really gray wolves in this world. Xiaolan squatted down and depicted it vividly.

So smart!

She didn't force a rebuttal, but followed the guide.

The effect is good, Ye Ling, who hugged me even tighter, asked innocently: "The gray wolf likes to eat lazy sheep and sheep, and my father is a human." ”

"Yikes!"

"Huh?"

"Don't you know? Your father is a big fat sheep, and when Lingling sleeps, he becomes a beautiful sheep. ”

"Really?"

Ye Ling was suspicious, dragged me to squat, pouted and asked, "Dad, I'm really a beautiful sheep... Why are you crying?"

“......”

I didn't even know that I was crying.

What to say?

Which sheep did Mei Yang come from?

"Because the gray wolf has a new invention, crying and crying, your father is crying... Lingling, hurry up and take your dad home!"

In my ears, I heard a soft explanation.

But the voice came from behind, not Xiaolan.

Seeing her daughter in distress, she asked nervously: "Mom, are you crying too, have you also been caught by the crying bomb of the gray wolf?"

Her mom...

Turning around, I saw Milu.

"Click, click..."

Bean-sized tears slid down her cheeks and fell to the floor.

And crying, on her beautiful goose egg face, she asked softly with a motherly smile: "That Lingling, will you protect your mother?"