Aunt Meng asked, "How long will you stay?"

"At least the kid went to college. ”

"......" Aunt Meng was speechless, and only said after a while, "The eldest lady is really taking it for granted." ”

Aunt Zhang comforted her: "That is, when I was a child, I lived at home, and when I went to junior high school, it was almost time to go to live in school, and my home was so far away from the city, it was impossible to go back and forth for an hour or two every day." ”

Aunt Meng let out a long sigh: "When the eldest lady finds a partner, she will know that she is worried." ”

"Speaking of which, how do you feel about Mr. Du?"

Aunt Meng was stunned: "Do you think ...... I feel like it's very good, and it's a good match for the eldest lady. ”

"I don't think they don't mean that," Aunt Zhang said, "Mr. Ye is also at home, but between Mr. Ye and the eldest lady, the feeling is different from Mr. Du." ”

Aunt Meng said: "If Mr. Du and the eldest lady are together, then it will not be a problem. ”

Aunt Zhang said: "Who said no, the eldest lady should also fall in love, even if she wants to keep filial piety, these three years have passed." ”

Aunt Meng sighed, and was about to say something, but she heard footsteps and quickly changed the subject: "Do you think it's steaming rice or making some noodles?"

Aunt Zhang took it: "Mr. Ye and Meilan don't come back for dinner at night, if there are not many people, it's okay to eat dumplings, and there are still a lot of dumplings made by the eldest lady when she was at home before." ”

"Dumplings don't go with egg custard, let's get some vegetables and steam some rice." ”

"That's fine. ”

There was two knocks on the kitchen door.

Aunt Zhang hurriedly responded and went to the refrigerator to get a few bottles of mineral water: "It's Mr. Du." ”

When cooking, Du Xiao will not enter the kitchen, there is a separate Xiaoice box in his room, which is not big, only a little thing can be put in, and when the water is drunk, he will come to replenish it himself.

If it's time to cook, there will be a few knocks on the door.

Aunt Zhang went out with a small basket, sure enough, it was Du Xiao, who looked a little unenergetic, Aunt Zhang asked with concern, "Mr. Du stayed up late again?"

"Hmm......" Du Xiao answered in a low voice and asked, "What about Liu Qianqian." ”

"The eldest lady has gone to the company. ”

Du Xiao nodded, turned around and left.

The aunts were used to him too.

Du Xiao returned to the study, and met He Xuan on the way, he nodded as a greeting.

......

Liu Qianqian was called to the office by Ying Zhimin and chattered for more than half an hour.

"Xiaoyanagi, it's good to be charitable, but sometimes you have to think about follow-up issues. ”

Liu Qianqian said: "I know, I have thought about it. ”

"What do you think?"

Liu Qianqian said: "Adoption and naturalization are estimated to be impossible, or to keep the original place of origin and pay the borrowing fee when studying." ”

Ying Zhimin: "......"

"Don't say it, it's pretty reliable. Hua Qiaoran said with a smile next to her, "The borrowing fee is only a few thousand yuan." "Let's have a book

Liu Qianqian said: "But I really can't take care of Juan'er like my parents, I can only bother the aunts, Aunt Zhang and Aunt Meng have raised children and are experienced." ”

Hua Qiaoran said: "Indeed, it is also possible to hire a nanny." ”

Ying Zhimin was puzzled: "Is this really possible?"

Hua Qiaoran said: "I don't know, no one knows, but when I get to this situation, can I still drive away my ancestors and grandchildren?"

Liu Qianqian said: "It's not in the way, I don't live in my own house, and Grandma Rong and Juan'er are good people." ”

Ying Zhimin sighed: "Good for a while, not good for a lifetime, Xiaoliu, there is a sentence you must remember, Dou Mien is promoted to Mi Hatred, and you can be grateful for a lifetime by sending charcoal in the snow." ”

Liu Qianqian: "......"

"The threshold of gratitude will continue to rise, if you are for her to study, for her to go to college, you must also make it clear that it is just a charitable funding, don't treat her as your own child, unless you don't plan to have children in the future. ”

Liu Qianqian was silent for a while and nodded: "I know." ”

Ying Zhimin said: "If there is anything that is not good to deal with, just ask Mr. Hua, Mr. Hua understands everything." ”

Hua Qiaoran gave him a roll of his eyes and said to Liu Qianqian: "The child is still young now, I suggest that the focus is to let the aunts take her." ”

Ying Zhimin said: "Then give Xiaoliu more work, she is busy, everything is logical." ”

Hua Qiaoran nodded and asked Liu Qianqian: "For acting, I'll apply for a teacher for you again." ”

Liu Qianqian nodded, hesitated, and looked at Ying Zhimin, looking like she wanted to speak and stopped.

Ying Zhimin raised his eyebrows: "Xiaoliu, what are you still reserved with me, if you have something to say." ”

Liu Qianqian lowered her eyes: "I know that what Ying always said is for my good, but I really can't think badly of people first, especially Grandma Rong and Juan'er." ”

"So......" Liu Qianqian thought for a while, and couldn't think of how to say what was in her heart.

Ying Zhimin smiled bitterly and said, "You misunderstood, I believe in your vision of knowing people." ”

“...... I don't believe it myself, after all, there is Zhu Yankang in front, it's just ...... It's just that I feel that if I want to help, or trust someone, I let go of all my guard and trust, and it is only my fault that I am really betrayed. ”

"It should be like this," Hua Qiaoran said, "but people's hearts change, and the reason for the change comes from your attitude." ”

"I don't understand. Liu Qianqian shook her head.

Ying Zhimin said: "I know you want to help people, but giving is not a healthy way to help. ”

Hua Qiaoran also said: "While giving, we must also guide the other party to give, so that the other party's mentality will be healthier, but you give unilaterally, in fact, for the other party, the pressure in my heart is also very great, and I don't know how to repay you, what will happen to ordinary people at this time?"

"What will?"

"They can't bear this kind of psychological pressure, so they will subconsciously find a foothold for their behavior, for example, you are willing to fund and raise yourself, and it has nothing to do with them, so they don't reciprocate, and it's not a sin if they can't reciprocate, and they don't have to bear the guilt. ”

“......”

"Over time, people will brainwash themselves, and if they brainwash too much, they will become what you owe them, but people are not wrong. Unilateral efforts without asking for anything in return are also very heavy psychological pressure on the recipient. ”

Liu Qianqian listened suddenly: "It turns out to be ......"

"You will choose to fund Juan'er, it's not that Juan'er begged you, right, it's that you can't stand it, it's your sense of morality, and because of your sense of morality, Juan'er and Grandma Rong's lives have changed, although it seems to be a good change at present, but you have also changed the lives of others. ”

Liu Qianqian said: "I still think too little." ”

"You're a good boy," Hua Qiaoran said, "We didn't say you shouldn't donate, we just want to remind you not to give too much unilaterally, in that case you are not actually giving, but asking, asking for a sense of moral comfort from Juan'er and Grandma Rong." ”