I don't know what that means when it comes to these four words, sometimes people always want to have more blessings and fewer disasters, who doesn't want that?

You think, I think, everyone thinks, but is that really the case? Is it really what you want?

I don't know, there are many times when many things are not up to us, and many times, our fate is not in our own hands, but we have been living under the noses of others, for example, what happened recently.

My husband was transferred to another job that day, of course, at the beginning, I think he was not very willing, although the leader has told him, just to help, their current job position has not lived, has not been, the last half a month, etc., and then I saw the busy positions to help ah, at the beginning of my husband told me, but also said a lot of words, sounded very scared, said that this is the worst position in the company, said that there are a lot of toxicity, there are a lot of drawbacks, I also understand this truth, said that because there are a lot of drawbacks, so it is difficult to recruit workersBut when I asked about the situation, I think the situation is not as bad as he thinks, at least I know that there are still people doing such a position for a long time, what does this mean, it shows that there are really people who can still do it, but people are terrible, everyone says so, so the fear of psychology appeared in front first, but when I really investigated clearly, I said that since there are people there to do it for a long time, it means that there is nothing to do, if there is really such a big toxicity, I think no one will do this for a long time, people don't want their own bodies for money？

There are also some safety problems, which he is very worried about, but when I say this, he doesn't know what to say, because I directly told him that people can do it there for a long time, but you just go to help, why not, people can do it for a long time, why can't you go for ten days and half a month, we can also do the work that people can do, and after I tell him like this, there are still some safety issues that need to be considered, in fact, what I want to say is that there is nothing to do, but he is very afraid, but such a safety problem, the factory will also think of itIt's not just that we care about our own safety or something, but the factory doesn't care?

Must also attach great importance to safety, people would rather produce less, but also hope to be safe, hope that employees can live a safe and secure life, this is certain, are such regulations, after my persuasion, I think he is also just like this to try the attitude of going to go, who knows that after he went, he was still very happy to tell me that the current position is better than the position I have done for a long time?

He said yes, because he was going to help, and he was not familiar with other people's positions, so he didn't let us do dangerous things, for fear that when something happened, he couldn't bear it, so everything was very careful, I said, that's it, your previous worries were superfluous, and he also figured it out now, and he thought it was a bad thing when he didn't go.

So he refused again and again, but when he really found out the truth of the matter, he also smiled like this, what I want to say is, in the face of anything, when you haven't experienced it, how do you know whether it's a blessing or a curse?

It's really hard to determine, but I think it's probably because people have different attitudes towards problems, and your mentality is different, so the results are different.

A friend I knew before, he was also a person working in the field, at the beginning, he worked in a factory, he liked the work there, the environment or something, he liked, so he always wanted to do this in this factory for a lifetime, at that time when I knew him, he was so careful every day, for fear of making a little mistake, so he lived so cautiously, I really hope that after a few years, the company can sign an indefinite labor contract for him, this is his hope, but also his dream, can serve a company well, how happy it is, but his idea is good, But because of a layoff, he was laid off, it was an economic crisis, many factories are downsizing, and their factories are no exception, but there is him in this list, he is so careful, he is so dedicated, why is it still in the list of layoffs, he can't figure it out, he even wants to plead with the leader to stay, but in the end, forget it, under the persuasion of some colleagues, he decided to face the reality and look for a job again, but when he started a new position again, he really thought it was a bad start, Because he doesn't know what he is wrong about, how bad he is, but this time, he is still so careful and dedicated to do his work, who knows that it didn't take long for this company to notice that his work is doing a very good job, and it was also decided to give him a promotion and a salary increase in a short period of time, which is why he didn't expect it?

When he first started, he just hoped to serve in the first company and continue to work, and he didn't expect to be promoted or something, although he was also looking forward to such a thing, but he still hoped that he could always have a job and save some trouble, and then after being fired, he was so disheartened for a while, during this time, he thought a lot, but when he found a new job, he still had to force himself to work hard, because he had to support himself, so he faced a promotion and a salary increase, which became his unexpected surprise, and compared with the previous company, the boss was also a lot kinder, The working environment is also good, soon after, he successfully bought his own car and house, he also felt that he was fired right, because if he has been working in the first company, their company has a lot of outstanding talents, he is not the most conspicuous at all, the manager has not noticed him, and his new work in this company, soon got the manager's appreciation, just like that, promotion, salary increase, and then have everything he wants, life is getting better and better, and this is something he didn't think about before, he just wants to work hard in a good company, have his own jobBut now he finds that sometimes when he thinks about it, it seems that when disaster comes, there is actually an inexplicable blessing hidden, many times, we see the sad side of ourselves, see the bad side of things, in fact, when you really look at this matter with a different eye, you will find that it is actually good, there are still a lot of places that can make you happy, at least a certain aspect of things.