Having a baby is a painful thing.

Seeing that Xia Yue was so painful before giving birth, Yan Hui was also very anxious.

She wanted Xia Yue to have a caesarean section.

But this was rejected by Xia Yue.

This kind of pain is still something she can bear, and besides, the doctor's advice is that it is best to have a smooth birth.

The doctor checked Xia Yue's belly, and the child was not particularly big, and it was completely possible to give birth naturally.

Yan Hui has no say in the matter of giving birth.

After all, she didn't have any experience in this area.

It was a Friday afternoon, after hours of torture.

Xia Yue finally unloaded the burden of the past ten months.

Heaven finally fulfilled the wish in Xia Yue's heart.

She gave birth to a boy.

Xia Yue was very happy, and Yan Hui was also very happy.

It's not that they're really patriarchal.

Or should there be such a backward idea that mothers are more expensive than children.

In fact, whether it is Xia Yue or Yan Hui, they are only daughters, and the number of men stronger than them in this huge Yan country is also very limited.

Xia didn't have a son, but now he has a grandson, and this grandson is still surnamed Xia, which is the most happy thing.

People are like this, like the Liu family, men are prosperous, but they want girls more.

But it's the Xia family, who is thin, so they especially want boys.

And Han Chao already has a daughter, and now Xia Yue has given birth to a child, and it happens that the children are in pairs.

Xia Yue also felt that this was the best thing.

The news that Xia Yue gave birth to a son reached the ears of Han Jiuhua and his wife.

They were also very happy.

Even if that grandson is not surnamed Han, but only surnamed Xia, they will still be happy.

It doesn't matter what his surname is, the important thing is that he is indeed his own grandson.

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Like Liu Qingyi when she gave birth to a child, Han Chao will go to the hospital to visit the child and not stay for a long time.

Xia Yue's body is also recovering well.

However, Yan Hui had to let her stay in the hospital for a few more days.

Because of this, Xia Yue, who could have been discharged from the hospital in three days, stayed in the hospital for two more days.

Yan Hui is a person who has never been a mother in the end, and she can't compare with Guan Lin in taking care of her children.

But fortunately, there are professional senior nurses in the hospital, and Yan Hui has learned them all after following her a few times.

When Xia Yue was born, although Yan Hui was also a teenager, she was still just a big child.

Later, when her sister was gone, she realized that she had lost the sister who loved her forever.

So this will watch Xia Yue's child be born, although his age is not very big, but in terms of generation, this child has to be called his aunt.

Two days before Xia Yue was discharged from the hospital, Han Chao had already transferred Liu Qingyi and her daughter to his villa.

Compared with Liu Qingyi's villa, Han Chao's villa is even larger.

So it's going to be all living together, and there's no problem at all.

On the day Xia Yue was discharged from the hospital, Han Chao personally cooked and cooked a large table of good dishes.

Liu Qingyi has been out of confinement, and now she is also free of movement.

In fact, as long as a woman has a smooth birth and her body recovers well, she can move freely after three to five days.

It's just the old tradition of Yanguo, which says that after a woman gives birth, she must be full moon before she can go out of the room or go out.

Whether there is a scientific basis for this, but after all, all of this involves a woman's life.

Therefore, most families will take the matter of a woman's confinement very seriously.

Many ordinary families will have a lot of conflicts because of their daughter-in-law's confinement.

Because women at this time are particularly sensitive, their husbands or mothers-in-law are a little unhappy with themselves, so they will think more.

And when it comes to the treatment of children, there will be a lot of differences between mothers in the new era and grandmothers in the old era.

In the old days, grandmothers mostly took newborn babies based on some past experiences and even some customs.

Some grandmothers have given birth to several children by themselves, and these children have grown up very healthy.

That's why they think they know by doing.

So when it comes to raising children, they feel that they have more say than their daughters-in-law.

But the daughter-in-law of the new era, everything is treated according to science.

Today, with the development of the Internet, various parenting experts have emerged in an endless stream on the Internet.

Mother-to-be mothers, when they are at home, nothing to do is to learn various parenting scriptures online.

Some self-media accounts will even write articles with titles such as "Do you know? It turns out that women have confinement, these are the most important, and the child's grandmother has done it wrong".

Therefore, in ordinary families, especially those whose family conditions are not particularly wealthy, conflicts are often more likely to occur because of these things.

In the new era of parenting, all science is built on the word money.

And the mother-in-law of many ordinary families is a thrifty woman, so she will feel that her daughter-in-law is overly extravagant and wasteful at this time.

There is no right or wrong in many things.

Some disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are even more so.

Therefore, the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more about the need for the mother-in-law's son and daughter-in-law's husband to mediate.

Han and North Korea are smarter.

She knew best what kind of person his mother was.

So after Hao Jinhua came to Yucheng, he said some questions to his parents.

It's nothing more than that the Liu family and the Xia family are both big families, so they will treat their children differently from those in Hanjiaba.

And he is not short of money now, as long as it is a matter of some children, it will be according to Liu Qingyi and Xia Yue's meaning.

Of course, Han Chao felt that with the abilities of Liu Xia and the others, these were not problems.

As soon as Han Jiuhua and his wife heard the child's words, they also instantly understood the meaning.

What the son said was reasonable, and they didn't think there was anything wrong with it.

They are reasonable people.

Although Han and the DPRK did bring them some troubles in the matter of marrying a daughter-in-law.

But other families are afraid that their daughter-in-law will run away and suddenly not marry, but their son has more daughters-in-law......

It is also impossible to get married, but the nature of this is completely different.

As a matter of fact, in addition to this matter, it is worth mentioning a few words from the ROK and the DPRK, and they cannot find out half of the other issues of the ROK and the DPRK.

Now Han Jiuhua or Hao Jinhua's relatives on both sides, if they are short of money, Han and the DPRK will not say a word, and only let the two of them do it themselves.

Someone in his hometown asked the two of them to find a job for their children, and if Han Chao felt that it was not suitable for his company, he would also recommend it to a friend he knew.

This made the second elder save face in front of his relatives and fellow villagers.

Therefore, today's Han Dynasty is perfect in the hearts of the Han family and his wife.

Some people say that parents are domineering, and sons have to be obedient, but in fact, whether they listen or not, the final decision depends on who has the economic power.

The son is not as good as Lao Tzu, gnawing at the old, can he still fight against the sky?

The same is true for the relationship between husband and wife.

The husband's ability to earn money is very large, no matter what the women's rights call it, can they turn the sky upside down?

It's just that with the development of society, men and women have the same ability to earn money, women can live well without relying on men, if men don't have the ability to earn money, then of course they have to be counted out a few words?

Therefore, these early communication between the Han and the DPRK, the Han family's parents did not feel any discomfort.

The two eldest ladies of the family, even if they have no name, have to follow their sons, and give birth to their sons.

His old Han family should pay more and accommodate more.

If you really do this, most of the contradictions in this world will be automatically eliminated.