522. Teach you to talk to the opposite sex

"I can't do it, Bian Shishi is so good, I can't catch up at all. ”

Wang Zibo has no confidence in himself, because Bian Shishi's own conditions are indeed good, his education and appearance are relatively good, and his personality is also very cute.

Chen Hansheng looked disdainful: "You're too cowardly, aren't you a good girl?"

"No, I'm not worthy. ”

Wang Zibo shook his head lonely: "When a person like me is looking for a girlfriend, he can't just look at his face, in fact, it is enough to be kind-hearted, so that he will not quarrel and get angry." ”

"This is the view of what the old yellow calendar is. ”

Chen Hansheng said with a smile: "You can find a beautiful face, and it will be comfortable to quarrel and be angry." ”

"The key people look down on me. ”

Wang Zibo couldn't help it, so he took out PHS and handed it to Chen Hansheng: "Look at our text messages, there is nothing to say at all." ”

Chen Hansheng flipped through the records, and the two did have very little chat.

26 November 2004

Wang Zibo: Have you arrived at the dormitory?

Bian Shishi: Well, what about you.

Wang Zibo: I arrived early.

Bian Shishi: I'm very tired today, rest early.

Wang Zibo: Okay, so are you.

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6 December 2004

Bian Shishi: Xiaoyuer lets you bring some food at noon, for two girls.

Wang Zibo: Roger.

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11 December 2004

Wang Zibo: Today at the law firm, I accidentally brought your "The Fifteenth Year of Wanli" back to the dormitory.

Bian Shishi: It's okay, return it to me after reading it, you also like history.

Wang Zibo: Yes, I'll read the book first, so that I can return it to you tomorrow.

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16 December 2004

Bian Shishi: Please bring two meals.

Wang Zibo: Roger.

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These are the only four dialogues, and both sides are polite and relatively polite.

"I think it's okay, you can't just look at the content in a chat, you have to learn to dig into the details. ”

Chen Hansheng returned PHS: "Bian Shishi has not used any 'closed' reply, first of all, it shows that her basic quality is very high, and the other also shows that she doesn't hate you very much, and there are still opportunities." ”

"What is a 'closed' reply. ”

Wang Zibo didn't understand.

"That's what Huang Hui often tells you. ”

Chen Hansheng gave an example: "Those individual modal words 'um, oh, good' and so on, after this kind of word is thrown out, it basically indicates that there is no follow-up in the chat, and if you force yourself to find a topic, maybe others will get bored, which is called a closed reply." ”

Wang Zibo's swarthy face turned red, and he remembered that he had chatted with Huang Hui like this.

Like what:

Wang Zibo: Sister Xiaohui, I'm XXX······ today

Huang Hui: yes.

Wang Zibo: Not only that, but I'm also XXX······

Huang Hui: Oh.

Seeing these two tone particles, I must have felt uncomfortable at the time, but people are sometimes very strange, and they know in their minds that they should end this conversation, but they are emotionally reluctant.

In the end, emotion is greater than reason, and if you continue to send messages, the other party may still reply in a closed manner, or simply not answer.

"Xiao Chen, what are you talking about, come over quickly. ”

At this time, Xiao Rongyu, who was walking in front, beckoned them to keep up with the team.

"Got it, you order first, let's smoke a cigarette. ”

Chen Hansheng waved his hand and asked them to go into the box first, and he and Wang Zibo stood outside for a while.

"In the text message just now, Bian Shishi asked, 'You also like history'. ”

Chen Hansheng continued to preach: "This is a typical open-ended reply, which shows that there is room for discussion, and you didn't take the opportunity at that time, if this is what I talked about that night. ”

"I see. ”

Wang Zibo suddenly realized that it was the first time he knew that there were such professional terms as "open reply and closed reply" in chat.

"Bian Shishi is very good, there is no pretentious side, her personality is very down-to-earth, she is a person in our circle. ”

Chen Hansheng reminded: "If you think it's good, then you should start early, otherwise you will regret it." ”

Wang Zibo was stunned for a moment: "Why do you regret it?"

"There are coincidences everywhere in this world. ”

Chen Hansheng explained: "A girl has been single for three years, and you think that she has no one to pursue, so you are tempted. ”

"But Zibo, believe it or not, at the moment when you were tempted, there was a boy in a corner of the world who was attacking her at the same time, but you didn't know it. ”

Chen Hansheng sighed: "You just kept holding back and didn't express it, and when you finally reacted, others had already taken the lead in hugging the beauty, leaving you to send your blessings against your will." ”

"Holy shit, it looks like that's the case. ”

Wang Zibo suddenly felt a little flustered.

"Don't be in such a hurry. ”

Chen Hansheng pouted: "One day friends and two sisters, three days to become a baby, this model is not suitable for Bian Shishi, you have to express your good feelings implicitly and reasonably, and create a kind of inadvertent surprise." ”

"How to express it implicitly, you teach me quickly!"

Wang Zibo was taken aback, he could imagine that if Bian Shishi was chased by other boys, at the party between friends in the future, Bian Shishi would bring her boyfriend over.

At that time, I should be sitting in the corner of the table, holding up a glass and smiling.

"This is simple, simple to give an example. ”

Chen Hansheng looked at Xiao Rongyu and said: "Xiao Yu'er and Bian Shishi both like sweets, you can buy two desserts next time, one for Xiao Yu'er, and one for her to bring to Bian Shishi, so that she not only expresses her good feelings, but also in a more tactful way, and she doesn't have to come forward." ”

"I see. ”

Wang Zibo muttered: "There are more and more favors like this, and if you ask her to watch a movie and talk about history, there will be more topics." ”

"That's right. ”

Chen Hansheng nodded: "The main thing is that the first step is more important, let's go eat first, Xiaoyu'er has called." ”

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After eating at noon, Chen Hansheng and Liang Meijuan stayed in the law firm for another afternoon, until Xiao Yuer reluctantly followed Professor Sun back to Tokyo University for intensive training, and Chen Hansheng drove Empress Dowager Liang back to Jiangling University Town.

After learning about all the activities of Chen Hansheng, Liang Meijuan is also ready to return to Hong Kong City.

At around 8 o'clock in the evening, Wang Zibo bought two boxes of strawberry cakes at the sweets shop and sneaked downstairs to the women's dormitory of Tokyo University.

He thought about it, Xiao Chen's method is indeed very good, at least he can't think of it, others have taught him his experience, and he must cherish it.

"Just ask Xiao Yu'er to send it, I don't have to come forward myself, it is worthy of Xiao Chen. ”

Wang Zibo thought beautifully in his heart.

Not long after, Xiao Rongyu came back from Professor Sun's house to make up the class, Wang Zibo just saw the tall figure, he hurriedly greeted him: "Xiao Yu'er, I bought dessert for you······"

But halfway through speaking, Wang Zibo was suddenly stunned, because Bian Shishi was holding Xiao Rongyu's arm, and her four bright eyes were blinking at her.

"You, you're all there too. ”

Wang Zibo didn't know what to say all of a sudden, and Xiao Chen didn't teach me, if the person concerned was also present, how to deal with it.

"Wow, is this for me?"

Instead, Xiao Rongyu took the cake and asked with a smile.

"Well, uh······ Oh, yes. ”

Bian Shishi was next to him, Wang Zibo didn't have the courage to tell the truth, and he held back for a long time before saying: "One piece was bought by Xiao Chen, and one piece was bought by me, I'll go back, goodbye." ”

"Okay, thank you Zibo. ”

Xiao Rongyu didn't think much about it, and pulled Bian Shishi upstairs.

Before Bian Shishi went upstairs, she also glanced at Wang Zibo's pretended to be calm back a few times, and her face was curious.

As for Wang Zibo, he didn't want to regret it, he really wanted to slap himself a few times along the way, which is equivalent to Chen Hansheng telling himself the answer, but he didn't answer it yet.

Wang Zibo returned to the dormitory, he didn't want to take a bath, he just lay on the bed and regretted it over and over again, why didn't he dare to tell the truth?!

"Ding~"

PHS suddenly came with a message.

After Wang Zibo unlocked it with his head stuffy, he was actually a poet.

Bian Shishi: The cake is very sweet, thank you.

"Damn, what's going on?"

Wang Zibo was stunned for a moment, and hurriedly replied, "You have eaten." ”

"Ding~"

Here's another piece of information.

Bian Shishi: Xiaoyuer ate Chen Hansheng's share, and the one you bought gave me to me.

"Ho-ho, ho-ho. ”

Wang Zibo suddenly smirked, he originally wanted to reply "I was originally bought for you", but later he felt that it was inappropriate and deleted it, so he changed it again.

Wang Zibo: It's good to be sweet.

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