At more than 6 o'clock in the morning, the downstairs of our house began to "pop papa" sound, see these three words do you want to be crooked, as if you think of the *** sound between men and women? Professional terms, but I still really want to use such phonetic words, the eldest sister downstairs is playing the top, or the big one, whipped with a whip, the sound is very loud, I began to fall asleep, it was a very early look, but I was angry, I just listened to what my husband said, I still don't believe it, or I don't think so, but now listening to such a sound really makes people feel annoying. But it used to be at nine o'clock in the evening, there was such a sound, but now it's actually more than six o'clock in the morning to start to have a sound, it really affects sleep, so I went to call a 110 according to my own thinking habits, the police was a lesbian, I told her the detailed address, she promised to find someone to see after a while, so I also have a little comfort in my heart, at least the problem will be solved soon. My husband leaned on the window and watched, in fact, it was not an old man who played the spinning top, I really thought it was an old man who had nothing to do, but it was not, it was an old lady, I was even more surprised, an old lady could actually play the spinning top, and play such a masculine game.

But we didn't want to offend people, so we didn't go downstairs to talk about her, but I don't know what the reason was, did you hear us call the police? So it didn't take a few minutes to leave, and I never looked back, I thought about it this time, if the police came, how to say it? That's it, the police came after a while, and when they came, they called me and said that I called the police, and I said yes, in fact, at that time, I had already gotten up and walked to work, and they said where I told them, where was it? I said, she's gone, it's fine. The police said that when they met her again in the future, they would go downstairs and tell her to let her go, and she shouldn't blame her, after all, people were unintentional, I don't know. I listened to the policeman's tone was still very gentle, and the attitude was good, so I applauded and agreed. After that, we set off and nothing happened.

But, last night, after I went to sleep, it was 10:30, because it was summer, there were still a lot of people who didn't sleep at this time, besides, it was very cool outside, so such a voice came again, I didn't know what to do, so I ignored her, and simply slept like this, but it was really like this, I just pretended to sleep, and then fell asleep, and then gradually I couldn't hear the sound, did she play enough and walked away by herself? It should be. Woke up in the morning and slept ok. Then I thought of forbearance, let her be, as long as my heart is not chaotic and not disturbed, why should I care about external factors? I didn't get dressed to talk about her as the police said, and I didn't have such a kung fu, nor did I have such a mood.

For example, a school I used to be in, a school near us is next door to us, their bedtime after evening self-study is often 9:00 in the evening, but it should be 12 o'clock when you go to sleep, in this way, students don't rest well, how can they have better energy to study during the day, they go to morning self-study at 5 o'clock in the morning, is 5 hours a night enough to sleep? But the most terrible thing is that our dormitory is next door, and from time to time I hear their frolicking sounds, sometimes they are still very exciting, and I don't know if they are performing in the dormitory or what's going on, but I think that those students who sleep must have fallen asleep early, only those who study poorly are tossing blindly, otherwise if they are like this every day, how can they get good grades? This is a kind of psychological effect, when the external environment you can't change, then don't change, no matter how noisy the outside world is, at least you are quiet, as long as you want to, you will be able to be quiet, not affected by the outside world, continue to do what you want to do.

And what about us? I also know such a situation, you go to the principal of the house to say, bitterly say a lot to others, but there is still no improvement, only a few teachers on duty, bedtime is surprisingly quiet, this is also very teacher-related, but a lot of the time is messy, maybe it is mismanagement, but we as a next door, what can we do? I can only listen to the sounds and noises outside this window, fall asleep little by little, and quiet myself little by little. We don't feel very noisy like this for a long time, because this is a habit, a habit that has been developed over time.

I still remember that I was working for a while, the factory was next to the track of the train track, at the beginning, I didn't feel anything, because it was daytime, but at night, everything was quiet and it didn't work, as long as the train passed, the dormitory shook badly, even the bed was shaking, like an earthquake, it was really a train to wake up once, and then fall asleep, this feeling was really uncomfortable, I was woken up again and again, I fell asleep again and again, because I was too tired during the day, so I fell asleep like this, at the beginning, it was really difficult to adapt, but after a few daysI think that when the train passes, it doesn't shake very much, why is that, is it an adaptation? For work, or for other things, we force ourselves to adapt to such an environment. This is perhaps the biggest change for ourselves.

Later, I slowly found out that in fact, the external environment is one thing, can you really change the environment? Can you really change others? These problems exist, but how we adapt is really a problem, there is no need to change the outside world with a mood to change others, sometimes we can change the outside world, but sometimes, we can't change, we can only adapt, this is the reality, so I slowly learned, as long as I close my eyes, I can avoid the existence of problems. Everything has become so indifferent, it has become nothing, and the problem has become less acute.