There is nothing wrong with a small city, but some people always feel that the big city is more comfortable, and even feel that they can lay a good foundation for their children in the big city, their idea is right, I have also thought so, but later, I found that my ideas are a lot of unrealistic, now it seems that I want to go to the big city to work hard after graduation, but then I return to the original place of life, there are many such people, abound, but we live in such a city, when you one day, wake up from the prosperity of the big city, when your heart is tired, when you find yourself living in a city that does not belong to youWhen you feel like you are floating like a fallen leaf, this heart does not touch the ground, only to feel that the place where you have lived for many years is actually quite down-to-earth.

In fact, there is no absolute standard in life, capable people create a better life for themselves, but what about those of us who are not capable?

In the end, how to deal with ourselves, we will also have our own life, will have our own way of life, so in the face of life, we find that life is often like this, without the ability to create better conditions for themselves and children, we can only do our best, and can not live in reality, everyone has to face the reality, this is necessary, but also necessary, if you have not faced the reality, what will your life be like, will be like a mystery existence, it is impossible, or to face life, down-to-earth forward。

When you can't meet better expectations, think about your current life, think about some people around you, their lives are actually still good, you can find satisfaction in your original life every day, although this satisfaction is insignificant, although this satisfaction is your own self-absorption, but it is also good to be able to entertain yourself in such a small life circle, and there will be a lot of fun after a long time.

Don't be attracted by the gorgeous aura of others, those who work hard in big cities, they also have a lot of difficulties, remember some time ago, when taking the bus, the driver said, he said it to a person he knew well, his current salary is 5000 yuan, according to the reason, he is a bus driver, or A photo, this salary is nothing at all, but he said this, he said, earn 10,000 yuan of wages, to do 10,000 yuan of work, earn 5,000 yuan of wages to do 5,000 yuan of work, life is like this, your salary is low, your labor intensity is not high, and your salary is high, the value of your labor is also corresponding.

The effort and income should be basically equal, and there is nothing wrong with it. So, these people living in small cities, we don't want to chase those high wages, don't want to see the outside world, the actual problem is that many of us, have been to the outside world, find that they don't have great ability, can't get a foothold in those competitive places, so we come back again, this time when we come back, not a lot of fantasies, but down-to-earth doing their own work, doing the work they should have, living the life they should have, this is the final reality.