I was chatting with a colleague before, and she told me that she and her husband have a bad temper, and they especially like to drop cups when they are angry.

My colleague told me that this won't work, and I'm very curious, why do you drop a lot of cups when you're angry, and the two of you seem to be angry, and it's like a game?

But then I thought about it, even if they are angry again, or even drop things, they also have weight, they also have their own reason, about why not smash the TV, washing machine, refrigerator, because these things are destroyed, it takes a lot of money to buy again, and the cup, two yuan a piece, the cheapest kind, very cheap, they don't care about its value, so they just dropped it, and these very valuable things, even if they get angry again, they still won't move, which makes me think, in fact, it's not that their temper is really bad, but a bad habit, such a habit can be completely changedIt's just a bad habit and a bad psychological misunderstanding that you have developed in the past.

If your temper is really bad, when you are angry, you don't care about anything, even if it is a valuable thing, you will still fall off, I think, your temper is really bad, I can only say this, but what?

You don't, you don't, it means that even when you're angry, you can still control yourself, and even I think, when you're angry, control yourself again, and the cup doesn't have to fall, because the cup is also bought with money, even if it's 2 yuan a piece, isn't 2 yuan money?

As for what my colleagues told me, they used to like to drop cups, and when the cups were broken, they would buy some and come back, and then fall, I would like to say, if in the future, don't fall, even if such a cup is not of much value, but you can save some, it is finally good for yourself, and it is also a manifestation of not wasting, can you change yourself, drop a few cups less, isn't it also a kind of creation and performance for yourself?

Many years later, I will also find that many people have a much better temper than before, people say that after getting older, the temper is not so bad, I think maybe it is because of the experience of more things, so the temper is not as bad as before, maybe it is the erosion of the years, let us have more experience, let us understand more things, this is life, in the continuous experience, constantly understand the truth of the matter, continue to figure out a lot of things, so it is also a lot more sophisticated to deal with, this is the final experience。

As for the cup smashing, I finally figured it out.