Helping others is a good thing and a good deed, and I think many people like to do it, but it is more practical to help others within your own ability.

For example, I heard before that a child was playing by the river and fell into the river, at this time, there would be other people jumping down to save him, just because one wanted to save the other, three people in a row drowned, including two grandchildren, and a grandfather's, which is not uncommon, at the beginning, it was a child who fell into the river, and his brother also jumped, and then the grandfather found that the two grandsons jumped, he also jumped down to save these two, and lost three lives at once, when the bad news came out, there were many people at the time who said this, helping others also have the ability to help, or will feel that they have to call the police, and so on these measuresBut would they have thought of it at the time?

Many people get flustered when they encounter something and don't know exactly what to do. That's why this result happened, which is unfortunate.

In terms of safety, children will always be taught that in such a situation, they must call 110 to call the police, instead of doing it brute force and burying their lives, which is really not worth it.

A few days ago, I encountered an incident, when I went to the train station, I was also walking on the road, but when I got to the area of the train station, I would be very careful, here I never talk to others, although I am also a local, when I am in the field, it is the same, when I am local, I will not talk to others, at this time, there is a girl who came up to me and asked me, do you know where the train station is?

Actually, I know the location of the train station very well, but I passed by without saying anything, because I was afraid of meeting a scammer, and if I met a scammer, I really couldn't imagine what the outcome would be, I would be deceived into a place where there was no one, and I would be stripped of my money, or would I have been drugged, and I would have said what I had to say, or would I have encountered other more terrible things, that is, I was deceived into a corner where no one was, and my organs were dug up?

In fact, I think so much, I also know that I think too much, shook my head, don't let myself think too much, but when I meet some strangers, or in the place where there are the most scammers, I can't help but think so much, I think maybe I'm too worried, but I still tell myself, in some special occasions, in some special places, or don't help others, although I have the ability to help, but once I am deceived, the consequences will be serious, and the number of times I have been deceived at the train station is not enough?

I know that there are a lot, that's why I have so many feelings and thoughts, I once wrote a text called "In those years, we used to meet liars" , It has been shown that we have encountered a lot of liars, so after being deceived a few times, we will gradually become cautious, gradually become conservative, when encountering things, we can do it most conservatively, rather than being as reckless as before, this may be what we often call maturity, not only the above two events, in the face of many things, to help others is also to do what you can, to see your own strength, rather than blindly to help, in the end you can't bear the final consequences, why bother?