When I ran 100 meters home, I heard crying, Ye Jingbei thought that was all there was to it, he thought my voice was good,

That's it, alas, and I'll say that we're going to span many years, and then I'm worried.

This kid couldn't get into college, but he was admitted to college.

Alas, I want you to go back to Shijiazhuang to work, and find a job for you in Shijiazhuang, but the child wants to go to Guangdong.

So you think that this parent will grow up in the future, for example, your daughter, see if you find a husband or son, see you find a girlfriend or something.

Ye Jingbei told you that this old couple is definitely not good, this is not good, how did you find one.

In this way, alas, you go to think about the heart for Leng Shuiyue, and you say how much suffering you have experienced, and you will do the opposite.

Ye Jingbei is also serious about my parents now, I don't think that parents, sometimes when they get older.

Leng Shuiyue can turn back like a child, there are some things, some things are said, alas, I said uh, then I can't I can't I can't discipline a child.

So now it's the turn of the cold water moon to endure.

Ye Jingbei doesn't know if you have spoken, you have a psychologist to speak.

In fact, you have to deal with me all your life is the part of your mother's child.

Because there's a school of psychology.,That is, personality.,Basically, there's no adult part and there's a child's part.

Your parents are also human beings, and they also have the part of their children.

In fact, he is not only getting older and more like a child, don't forget, he used to be a child when he grew up,

So Wen Tao just said that you will drive your parents' imagination, how to endure hardship, raise you, and then you go back to your imagination and imagine how your parents were pampered when they were young.

Maybe you know better why your parents became the people they were.

For example, Ye Jingbei, my father is very unfortunate, he is 15 years old and his mother became an orphan when he was 86 years old, the real Jiahui's father didn't say 15 little yellows, no car and no house, that's the back is the point.

Then I'll go to work alone.

That's why I wanted to, I later said that I wanted to write a manuscript, so I could do anything.

Then when he was a child, his father disciplined him very strictly, and his mother spoiled her very much, which is equivalent to spoiling you and loving her, and she never died suddenly.

Others taught him, others took care of him, collected his gambling money, and spent all the money left in the family.

This is how he came over, and so is his mother, his grandfather is very rich, but his father is very rich, and then he gambles and goes bankrupt, and then the family is in chaos.

And that's how it grew.

Then my grandmother was said to be quite irresponsible and gave birth to eight or nine children and piled them up at home, playing mahjong all day long, and having dinner with friends, and he had their children's part.

Then I remember that I used to be like this, and when my father was older, I felt that he was thinking about the conflict with his parents before.

I'll let myself think that they've had a great time growing up.

And then I was able to understand that, so I was more able to distrust him and be considerate of what you said.

Good to know and understand, I am grateful to him, what kind of life is he he?

It's you, like we have a sense of individuality now, which means uh, even if you have children,

You're also, uh, a big part of your personal career, your personal life.

Right, slowly grind that part out of that time when you were like our parents.

I think it's been a long time to be used to giving to children, that's uh, in fact, it's also a kind of sadness, that is, he puts all his attention on children, you know this to old age.

Uh, compared to this mind, there is some dispute at this time, so I actually should ask the parents for the child.

In other words, your son is not as good as your daughter in this regard, and I found out that it is that, and we really don't know what to say to our parents, do you know?

But then I remembered that you see my mom and I don't have any common language.

I was going to Beijing to study at a university, and I filled in all the information I wanted to teach in Beijing, and I was the only one in the school who was going to go to another place.

Okay, after finishing the study, because the people in Shanghai don't want to come out, you know, and then after finishing the study, I want to stay in Beijing to work, and I know that they are very unhappy, okay, it's work.

Later, I'm going to go to the Middle East, whatever.

Of course, they didn't know it at first, but then they found out, and I think the best thing they did was not to force me, you don't do it, I really had a classmate who said at the time that we were going to study in Beijing together.

But the family just won't agree.

They have endured a lot of things for me all their lives, and I saw an animation later.

Uh, there's one that's uh hand-drawn book, which later became that animated movie, and I grew up in Iran.

There's a very extreme day in it, and he's the one he has.

The example is this, he talked about a lot of family relationships in big history, the heroine, uh, at that time, he and a revolutionary young man, the two of them were married in a flash.

Later, he flashed away, and he said that he was very sad after that.

Then his father came and told him, "Actually, I have long seen that you two are not worthy."

You can't be happy, he said, "Dad, why didn't you tell me earlier?"

His father said that you have to direct this matter yourself, and I may not be able to do it.

Said that if my daughter finds someone I don't like it, can I hold back and say because.

At that time, my father said that at that time, I persuaded Leng Shuiyue that he would not turn back, and even he had to go to such a thing as enduring hardships himself.

You know, it's our age.

Alas, I have learned that it means to bring this thinking into a person, and I sometimes take my parents to feel it, and I think it is alas, how can he hold back that you don't believe anything.

You're not Leng Shuiyue, since you were a child, this family is poor.

Alas, raising children and a little delicious is all stuffed children, this mouth you like you, for example, and you think all I can think of is bitterness.

He must be happy, but if you say that this child has a good child today, he can't get a nanny and has to accompany that family.

Later I remember my mom telling me that my mom was still at work after giving birth to this baby.

If you want to have a baby, you didn't even tell your father a word, and I didn't have a mobile phone at that time, so I ran to the hospital, and then the obstetrics and gynecology hospital said as soon as I saw it.

Alas, before you gave birth, you waited at the entrance of the medical hospital and sat on the steps and said that a pregnant woman had been waiting for more than ten hours.

In the end, I didn't feel shocked and ran inside, and within a few days of birth, you had to go to work.

Then he said, "Oh, do you want to, no", my mother said that you can do this business, maybe you also had this training when you were a child.

There was no kindergarten babysitter, and my parents were at work 8 hours a day, so they took a bunch of pillows and piled me in the middle.

Ah, you see 4 hours in the morning, and 4 hours in the afternoon, you still have to feed.

That's what my mom said would be when I got off work at noon, and I would run to my home.

They didn't look at the round table, uh looked at the round table, and he looked like someone else oh he's here next time.

I think I'm not the same as my brother and brother in his eyes, just together every day, he thinks I haven't been with them for many years, go back once or twice a year.

When I go back again, I will remember his gaze.

Even he didn't know what to say to me.

But, he just looked at it, and then he wanted to take a picture with you, and then he went and saw you, and asked if you want to eat this, do you want to eat that, I just know that at that time, it was two bags.

Including whether you use it or not, you are determined to be time, what you can give is time, in fact, time is one step further.

I think it's just that what you can give is life, that's what I really understand, that's what I said I was with my parents, and I think a lot of times now we're sitting together.

I just really know what you say and understand me.

It's just listening to their nagging or whatever, no matter what they talk about, you can spend the most time with him, and then for my children, I think you give them any way to play.

It's useless, they want your time, they want something very important in your life.

If you are not prepared for this and say that I am going to give them a piece of my life, then you should not have children.

Then I'm curious if Leng Shuiyue's love is right for you, you can love as much as you want, and I'm so entangled.

I'm also in a lot of disputes, so that's significant.

You see that I didn't grow up with my father, not because the rivers and lakes are at a loss, and the rivers and lakes on the rivers and lakes are all very filial, and they have been right to a group of women in the family for a long time.

Then you have to talk about knowledge, philosophy and books, then do you talk to your mother about Kant, do you talk about human language?

Of course I didn't want to, and because I couldn't talk to my mom or my family in very rational language.

It's that I knew it when I was very young, and I told myself, I have to uh how to talk about this person, I had a very strange student when I was a child, about the third or fourth grade, and I found that there was no one in front of me.

Some people don't know what it means, that is, because about three or four times in the cold water month is awakening, what does this awakening mean?

It's because I found out about our family, because our family's environment is very complicated, we just like you, I probably said that my grandfather is from Hebei, from Hebei.

Then my grandmother is Taiyuan, Shanxi, my grandmother is Shaoxing, Zhejiang, and my grandfather is Shunde, Guangdong.

The four of them are burdened with a lot of insight behind them, the blood feud is not not 100 years, there are many things in Chinese history, in fact, when I was a child, it was average.

That's why the so-called earthy flavor of the dish we advocate is duck head, and I often remember it.

When I was a child, I used to hear that you don't forget something, you have to remember what the future will be, and then the reason why I want to remember and not forget is for example.

How about the time of the anti-Japanese war.

Then when the Qing Dynasty was gone.

How generally my gosh that's, and then uh-huh.

So, it was a family background that made me feel very tired, and I found such a heavy historical memory, and a complicated family background that was running around in the chaos.

It will make a lot of emotional things appear in the family that you can't figure out, and there are some psychological shadows there.

But since I was a kid I've told myself that I have to be reasonable, and what it means to be reasonable.

It is to re-examine all things with a rational eye, all the emotions and burdens left over from history.

I'm going to reinterpret it with my own rational eye.