Sometimes we find that when grandparents are at home with their children, they have too much love for their children, and even have a feeling that makes everyone feel doted.

At this time, we felt that the proverb in real life is the next generation. Such a sentence is really not a little wrong in real life, it is really such a reality, especially when grandparents love their children, we really have nothing to say, and even pampered, so that the child becomes a flawed person, or a dependent person.

Why did I suddenly have such thoughts and feelings? That was yesterday's Drama on Campus event!

Because it was an event, although the weather was a little hot, everyone was sitting on such a campus, and the actors at that time didn't have much sun protection, they were also very hot, and I found that within such an hour, many parents have begun to buy water and yogurt for their children, and send it to their children, in fact, I don't think there is any need for this at all, it's just that when it's hot, I sit on the playground for an hour, and is this kind of weather really hot?

In fact, I was also standing on the playground on a very hot day, and sometimes I realized that at such a moment, I really shouldn't spoil children like this, in fact, I saw the care that parents give to their children, because when there are activities in the school, the door of the school is generally open.

There are a lot of parents who have entered the campus, if you enter the school because you watch the show, I think it's okay, but some parents enter the school to buy water for their children, food and drink, I think it's really too much.

Your grandson just came to see a show, and the people who performed the show, they didn't eat anything, why is your grandson so pampered?

Yesterday, when they delivered water and yogurt, they also found that they were all sending those things that had been frozen in the refrigerator, which should have been very cold after drinking, and they were really desperate to cool off the heat.

Later, I found out that this kind of thing is really unpleasant, what is it like, people work hard to perform above, and eat and drink below.

I don't want to talk about whether you respect people or not, but I don't think it's really bad at all. After eating and drinking, I found that the whole campus was like a garbage dump, but the teachers of each class did not interfere too much with their practices.

Those who work hard and work hard can endure the heat and heat of the weather, but why don't such grandparents let their grandchildren endure such heat and heat?

In fact, we also found that they really love their grandchildren too much, the love makes us unbearable, so that we can't accept it, for example, in class, I also think that some parents will send some food and drink to their children, but I think that when going to class, there should be no eating and drinking actions and habits, and some parents put some snacks in their children's school bags, and such children do not understand the rules, and they will still steal some during class, and sometimes, he does not have the heart to listen to the class at all, but eats a bite of the snacks in his book pocket for a while, and this habit will be denied by me hereEspecially when they eat snacks in class, I will definitely let them throw their snacks in the trash, although sometimes they feel very sorry, but after one or two times like this, there is really no one to eat and drink in class.

Nowadays, many young people are working outside the home, and they don't care if they leave their children to their grandparents. The parents of young people who perform better will still often call their children, or often give their parents some money, so that parents can buy snacks for their children, or support their parents, and some young people are really excessive, sometimes they don't even want to give their children's living expenses, and all their hopes are in their parents, when grandparents take their children, there are really a lot of drawbacks, some are different in thinking, sometimes they are different in other aspects, and the final result of their children is only the last word, that is, they love their grandchildren too much。

It was also yesterday, when the school held an event, I discovered such a phenomenon, originally I also wanted to send water to my little nephew like other parents, because I usually give her water to drink, and then I thought of such a truth, that is, don't love her too much, some children sit there and don't eat anything, nothing drinks, and they just watched an hour of performance in the summer, so I didn't buy her water to drink, on such a hot afternoon, I think I did the right thing, in fact, when she came back later, she was also fine, and she didn't think she was hot。

At that time, I had the impulse to buy her water to drink, but I thought that their homeroom teacher was also working as hard as them, standing in a hot place, and no one drank water, and what qualifications did their primary school students have to enjoy more than the teacher.

That's why in such a situation, I found that many parents, especially grandparents, buy water for their children to drink, send milk, such a situation is really too much love for her, just from such a fragment and epitome of life, you can see how these parents treat their children at home, how to take care of children?

Sometimes I find that I still have to be willing to let the people I love suffer, in such a situation, I think, it is also very good for them to be able to endure a little hardship, especially the current children, the younger generation, they have not suffered at all, in such a summer, in such a hot summer afternoon, I watched a show on the playground, so I can't bear it, I think it's still very unbearable, sometimes it's not that children can't endure hardship, it's not that children can't endure hardship, but because our parents are too careful, but because our parents are too doting, so it has caused the current situation。

I don't think that's necessarily the case, and parents should also know how to let them endure a little hardship, so that they can understand the hardships and difficulties of life, so I want to say to all parents, and even to all grandparents, you love her so much, and you really have to take good care of your grandchildren in the future, especially to do a good job in education.