Yesterday I wrote an article about vaccination, a lot of things are the same, when you encounter something, the people around you are always giving you a vaccination every time, telling you the pros and cons in advance, but you are finding such pros and cons, as if you are discouragement, every time you always hope that the people around you can support you to do everything.

In fact, this mood is very good, everyone in the encounter with what ideas and want to do things, is to hope that the people around them can support themselves, and I myself also encounter a lot of things, every time I always want the people around me to support themselves, but I have experienced a lot of things around me to find that in fact, the people around me do not support themselves is still very good, especially sometimes, some ideas that have happened recently, I found that the people around me are for their own good, and what they say is a reference for themselves, and I now also find that when I opened a bookstore before, I also did not make money every time, because my family did not support me when I opened it before, I don't think I can make money like this, but it's also my own will.

When I really lost money, I found that the people around me were right, and I was wrong, every time I did this according to my own ideas, if I did it correctly, it was still okay, but I did it wrong, only to find that I really shouldn't have it, and I found that I had lost so much money.

I also have a similar experience around me, there is a person, he is also with us, at the beginning, he also wanted to do his own thing, but later found out that he couldn't do it at all, he did what he wanted to do according to his own ideas, wanted to open a store, but the people around him did not support it, because he had a strong idea, he did it himself, but later found out that it still didn't work, when he lost a lot of money, he found out that it was better to forget it, so it can be regarded as a kind of abandonment of his own.

People are like this many times, when others let you give up, you still haven't given up, then try it, sometimes, to try it will be dead, will know whether to make money or not to make money, will know the taste, will know whether it is success or failure, people are like this, they all hope that they can experience it personally, and we are the same, every time we try like this, we will know the pros and cons of the gains and losses, and we will know the results after trying.

Some of them are also unacceptable to us, because when we face the reality, we find that the loss is so heavy, and we are so sad every time.

When I go to the supermarket to buy something, my husband every time he gives himself a vaccination, in fact, it should be a good phenomenon, although he doesn't like to listen to it every time, just like a child every time he goes to the hospital for a vaccination, he goes to the vaccination when he is not sick, and prevents it in advance, and these children are also like us, every time they are sad, they don't want their parents to do this, we have also seen a lot of children, they are sad when they get vaccinated, crying like a tearful person, but they know that this is really for their good, and some diseases are prevented in advance is still very good, at least it can reduce a lot of pain and injury, and if you don't get vaccinated, there will still be consequences that you can't bear when something goes wrong, so you still have to comply with these regulations, for example, vaccinations are like this, and when you really get sick and cause losses, it turns out that the gains outweigh the losses.

My husband is the same, every time I give myself a vaccination, I always don't like to listen, every time I buy something or say something, I don't like to listen to it every time, for example, I don't like to listen to that person's advice, although they don't think what you say is good, only to find out later that we just do what we should do, and many times in life are loyal to the ear.

And we all like to listen to those nice words, but what kind of benefits do they have for themselves, and will those bad words still cause us some fundamental harm?

In fact, there is no need to think like this, you should change yourself, instead of always thinking that it is someone else's fault, at the beginning, I thought that the people around me were wrong, or I was wrong, but later I found out that many times it is also very good to get vaccinated in advance, although it is only a very small thing, although it is just a very simple truth, but whether it is anything, simple things or not simple things, the truth is the same, it is easy to understand, but we are so unclear that we do not understand thoroughly, so in many cases, we can't get a correct choice, no matter what the problem is to find the essence of the problemEinstein once said that finding a problem is more important than solving it, and it is true.

Only when you find a problem, you will gradually look for a solution to the problem, and you have not found the existence of the problem at all, what do you use to solve it?

This is a very serious question at all. All problems are like this, and the solution can only be solved better when you realize the root of the problem.

It's good to find the crux of the problem, so we still have to find a solution to the problem.

When I wrote yesterday's article, I also thought of such a thing as vaccination, only to find that my thoughts and practices are incorrect, or to abide by the will of others, sometimes others are for their own good, but they are ignorant of it, when they suffer a loss, they find that they are so disobedient, only to cause their own losses, although it is only a very simple thing, but it is still necessary to recognize the existence of the problem in ordinary times, and develop good habits.

After writing so much, I gradually realized that this problem was not my fault at all, and when I said this, I also told the person who opened the online bookstore from the bottom of my heart, the most real side, when he really did it, he would also find out with deep understanding, whether what I said was true or false, and there was no need for me to say what I should have said and regret it, maybe I was a nosy person, but he would also find out that what I said was true at some point, only to find out my good intentions, only to find out that I was not to lie to him at all, maybe it should be like this。