713 Engagement

So Xin Lan's mother agreed to the relationship between the two of you, didn't she look down on you, a poor boy from an ordinary family?

"Mom, whoever has a child who hurts, everyone wants their child to find a better condition, at least they have to be right. The conditions of our family are indeed not as good as those of the Lan Lan family, we have to admit this, if we want his parents to accept me, it will take a while. After all, the two of us really love each other, Lan Lan's parents tested me for a while, and felt that I was practical and reliable, so naturally they didn't object. Qin Hang explained lightly.

Qin Hang's mother said angrily: "You are quite good at beautifying your future mother-in-law, obviously you just hate the poor and love the rich, and it will become a test in your mouth." The test is the test, anyway, you are looking for a daughter-in-law, and you are satisfied with yourself. ”

Qin Jingzhi also said: "Don't always carry a gun and a stick when you speak, Qin Hang has finally achieved positive results, this is a good thing, we parents can't give him any help, and don't hold him back." Although Lan Lan's mother is a bit snobbish, Lan Lan is indeed a good child, and Lan Lan's father is also a very decent person, Lan Lan will be our daughter-in-law in the future, don't always grasp other people's shortcomings. ”

"My cousin's conditions should be good, but what are the conditions in my cousin's house, and even my cousin can't look down on such an excellent young man?" Cheng Yu asked curiously.

Qin Hang's mother said: "To say that the conditions in Lan Lan's family are indeed good, the conditions in our family are indeed incomparable with others. His father is a leader of the General Political Department, with a gold star on his shoulder, and even her mother's military rank is quite high, but one level worse than her father. The key is that Lan Lan's own conditions are very good, and he is from the same unit as your cousin, not only beautiful, but also has a good personality, I like it very much. ”

The two of them have only known each other for a year, and my cousin passed the test, and my cousin's mother is quite reasonable. You can't have a preconceived bad impression of others, or it will only make it more difficult for my cousin to do it in the middle. Cheng Yu persuaded.

"I just complained in front of my family, your cousin was very depressed about this matter some time ago, and of course I, a mother, feel more sorry for my son. ”

After explaining, Qin Hang's mother continued to ask her son: "Since Lan Lan's parents have agreed to the relationship between the two of you, what are your plans next? You are not young, when are you going to get married, do you have a plan?"

Qin Hang knew that his mother would urge him to get married, and said helplessly: "The two of us have only known each other for a year, and it is too early to talk about marriage now, and there is no such plan for the time being." ”

"What is early, don't you look at how old you are? Seeing that you are thirty people, you have a partner and you are not married, when do you have to wait?" Qin Hang's mother couldn't understand her son's thoughts at all.

"How can anyone get married right away as soon as the relationship is confirmed? And this year is a very critical period in my work, I don't want to be distracted at this time, so I'll wait until I get married. Qin Hang could only find a reason to push back.

"You're a boy, and it's okay to get married two years later, but Lan Lan is two years younger than you, and it's not good for a girl to get married too late. You can't just think about it from your own point of view, you have to think about it from Lan Lan's standpoint. You have to ask Lan Lan's opinion on this matter, and the man must speak first about marriage, and there is no reason for the woman to speak first and hate to marry. Qin Jingzhi didn't agree with his son's words of evasion.

"Hanghang, after the man and woman confirm the relationship, the man must take responsibility. You have to take the initiative to ask Lan Lan about her plans for marriage, listen to what she thinks, in this matter, you can't let girls take the initiative. If she is not in a hurry to get married, then it is okay for the two of you to get engaged first. Make better use of this opportunity to meet the parents of both sides, and at the same time give the girl a guarantee. Qin Hang's grandmother also said.

"Alright then, when I meet Lan Lan, I'll ask her opinion. Qin Hang is not ready to get married so early, but he has no objection to getting engaged.

"Cousin, I suggest you get engaged first. You think, when you get engaged, we definitely can't go to the event empty-handed, so why should we prepare a gift for you. We have to give gifts when you get engaged, and we have to give gifts when you get married, don't you just get an extra gift?" Cheng Yu also joined in the fun.

"Sister, what you said is really reasonable, when I have a girlfriend, I must get engaged in advance. You know I'm a perfectionist, and the last thing I can stand is to make do, and if it's not right after getting engaged, then I can't compromise. So, sister, you have to prepare a few engagement gifts for me, if you don't say it, you have to have seven or eight pieces. Qin Fen said with a wistful expression.

Cheng Yu directly had a brain meltdown, "You still have seven or eight engagement gifts, tell you, there is no door?" No matter how many times you are engaged, I will only give you one engagement gift." ”

"Sister, you are the daughter of a rich man, and you are the girlfriend of a rich man, how can you be so stingy? Isn't it just a few gifts? I'm your own brother, who else can I hurt if you don't hurt me?"

After Qin Fen's gag, the topic of Qin Hang's marriage or engagement can be regarded as a fool.

Xiao Yao, as a bystander, was just a spectator, and he didn't take this matter to heart.

Unexpectedly, a week later, Cheng Yu told him that Qin Hang was really going to get engaged.

"Is your cousin really going to get engaged?" Then think about it, what kind of gift should we give?" After all, the engagement is a happy event, and Xiao Yao is still happy to participate.

Hearing her boyfriend use the word "we", Cheng Yu's heart was full of joy, "We and my cousin are the same generation, just give a gift casually, as long as the value is not too low, we will not lose face." ”

"How can you be casual? This is a face-saving thing, and we have to choose a good gift. Xiao Yao has a good impression of Qin Hang, and for such an important thing as engagement, he must choose a gift that he can handle.

"Then what do you think is a good gift? Everyone knows that you are a big tyrant, and their expectations for you must be relatively high, why don't we give him a car?" Cheng Yu has no experience in this area, and he can't make up his mind for a while.