Chapter 1222: (Two chapters in one)
I just started writing it, and I replaced it after two hours, so please forgive me. With-Dream- . lā
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After Chen Duo walked out leisurely, Han Miao followed the string and circled around Han Zihe.
Her look of wanting to speak and stopping, it is impossible for Han Zihe to ignore it.
Of course, as calm as Han Zihe, after thinking about it, he decided not to see it.
Han Miao teased Ning Ning for a while, her fingers gently scratched on the soles of her little friends' feet, and then lightly tapped Duoduo's little nose.
However, Duoduo's little pot friend's temper is obviously not as good as her brother's, no, when Han Miao was about to have another meeting with her little nose, the little guy frowned impatiently, and his little mouth opened and closed, as if there was a little more movement, and the little guy would wake up.
"She has such a big temper, I think at the beginning, Zhan Zhan was not as impatient as her!" Han Miao withdrew his hand in disbelief and smiled wryly.
Han Zihe didn't say anything about her, just smiled gently.
Han Miao scratched her head a little.
In the end, she couldn't stand it first, so she asked, "Little aunt, why don't you ask me?"
She didn't believe her little aunt wouldn't see that she wanted to speak!
Han Zihe raised his head and looked at Han Miao with an expression of "What are you saying, I don't understand", how innocent and innocent the expression is, how innocent and innocent it is!
As soon as she pretended to be stupid, Han Miao began to grab her hair: "Don't play like this!
Han Zihe saw that she couldn't hold it back, so he burst out laughing and asked her: "Okay, seeing that you have been holding back for so long, it's very hard, so I'll let you get your wish!"
"Say, you just wanted to say and stopped, wanted to say but didn't say, what's the matter?" Han Zihe almost woke up Duoduo and fell asleep again, so he asked Han Miao.
Han Miao originally wanted to "crusade" against her little aunt's ignorance, but as a result, her little aunt didn't play her cards according to common sense, saying that she was on the right track, and she was on the right track, which made her almost not react!
"What's the matter? I didn't ask you just now, you weren't satisfied, I asked you now, and you still ignored it?" Han Zihe quipped.
When Han Miao heard her say this, she reacted that she had just remembered that Chen Rui was coming!
"You shouldn't be thinking about your fiancé, right?" Han Zihe, what kind of eyesight does she have? As long as she glances at it, she knows what the other party thinks.
"How can there be!" Han Zihe thought that Han Miao would admit it, but he didn't expect that this girl would cover her instantly red cheeks with both hands, and flatly deny it!
Seeing her like this, Han Zihe didn't have any ease in his heart at this time, because Han Miao's reaction just now made Han Zihe realize that the relationship between this guy and Chen Rui may have taken another step!
After Han Miao saw that she denied it, her little aunt actually rubbed her head there, and she was a little dazed for a while, and she didn't know what she was talking about, which made her little aunt unhappy.
She pondered for a long time, but she didn't come up with a reason, and she was a little depressed, she really couldn't think of what she had done before, which would make her sister-in-law unhappy.
"Little aunt, what's wrong with you? ignore me?" Han Miao was also a little thoughtful, and didn't directly say how she made Han Zihe angry, but just said it a little more implicitly.
Han Zihe asked her to shout like this, and immediately reacted from her thoughts.
She looked at Han Miao, and after carefully examining her, she was a little hesitant to check Han Miao's pulse.
Han Zihe is not a stubborn and dull person, nor is he the kind of person who is in modern society and still has three obedience and four virtues to control the spirit.
But she is a person who pays great attention to the sense of ritual.
This sense of ritual, well, can be described as equivalent to what foreigners like to call the "spirit of contract".
In ancient times, it was said that "the one who hires is a wife, and the one who runs is a concubine". ——When this is said to many girls nowadays, they may feel disgusted from the heart, and even rebel.
What's more interesting is that many girls want to use sex freedom to demand equality between men and women.
However, the equality of men and women is so narrow?
In Han Zihe's view, the equality of men and women is more about psychological and spiritual equality, and women are self-respecting and self-reliant, unlike ancient women who pin the soil of their survival on men.
Only the great independence of the spirit is the premise for letting one of our hearts run towards freedom and a broader sky.
If you use the casualness of sex to flaunt equality and freedom...... Well, it's better to be honest and admit that you can't overcome the physiology of animals.
It is normal for men and women to be very excited about their physiological senses, but it is not appropriate to draw this irrational problem into the equality of men and women.
Han Zihe himself is also in favor of appreciating women's self-letting go of their personalities, after all, the ups and downs of hard work in society, no personality, how exciting!
However, women must admit that the physiological structure determines the great inequality between men and women in sex, and men can do whatever they want, so that they can do nothing without touching themselves;
What's more, male animals, in addition to using hormones to provoke people, are even more cheap and well-behaved.
Without a ceremony that is so solemn that they take it seriously, it is difficult for them to value each other.
In layman's terms, it is - "the easier it is to get, the less you will know how to cherish it".
Women casually have something to do with a man, whether it is out of emotion or self-physiological expression, be prepared for men to despise from the heart!
Don't try to be reasonable, it's useless to be reasonable for men to subconsciously think, many of them will be very self-conscious and arrogant, and let them go to bed casually or women who go to their bed are very frivolous.
Of course, not all men will show it, but many girls who live with their boyfriends will reflect that their boyfriends are gradually cold to them, or even half-hearted; after living together for a long time, a considerable number of couples, the willingness of men to marry will be much lower than that of women.
At this time, many girls can only settle and will not settle, and the range of partners in the future will be much narrower because of their youth and frivolity.
Girls may cry out for unfairness!
Why are they all driven by **, men can wave their sleeves without beating away a cloud, and they can start again at any time, while women have to bear everything?
Yes, it's just not fair!
However, this is the way the world is! This is the attitude of a man's heart!
It's like seeing temptation, a man may not be able to make himself unresponsive, born like this, what can you do?
Not to mention that in the face of the world, if you can't twist your arms around your thighs, you are challenging the world, can you still break back the man's genes?
Perhaps, some girls will say, it is better to have less than abundant! There will always be men who don't care about this kind of thing and tolerate them.
Of course, you can't say that there are no such men, but are you sure they don't mind at all?
Maybe it's love, maybe it's reason, and they keep them gentlemanly, but judging from human possessiveness, there will be no one who doesn't mind.
Ask yourself, if a woman puts the other person in her heart, how can she not regret that she and the other person are not the original each other?
What's more, who can guarantee that in future quarrels, the other party will not turn over old accounts?
Well, thinking so much and talking so much, Han Zihe just said, girls, you should love yourself first and know how to love yourself!
Whether it is the pursuit of pleasure or the pursuit of one's own legitimate rights and interests, you must think clearly in advance.
In life, any choice will pay a corresponding cost, it can also be said that the cost, as long as you weigh the cost of what you do, know the price you pay, and still want to do it, it is personal freedom.
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It was precisely because of thinking about these clearly that Han Zihe put aside the worries in his heart.
If this is her own daughter, she really wants to ask the other party, use a solemn ceremony as a starting point, and solemnly deliver each other to each other, so that the man subconsciously and sincerely values himself and understands the meaning of marriage, isn't it good? Why be in such a hurry?
It is precisely because Han Miao is not her daughter, but only her niece, so she can't say a lot of things, and it's not easy to say, so she can only hold it in her heart.
"Little aunt, don't stare at me like this! I can't make you feel comfortable!" Han Miao made Han Zihe a little restless, especially when she thought of the previous "crossing the line", which made her even more uneasy.
"Little aunt, Chen Rui said, the two of us will get the certificate tomorrow!" I don't know if it's because of a weak heart, Han Miao somehow, almost without thinking about it, he popped up this sentence.
"Yes, it's good!" Han Zihe nodded, "Congratulations!
Han Zihe didn't pay too much attention to the matter of obtaining a certificate.
Although she doesn't approve of girls having sex before marriage, since it happened, then ...... Let's be as open as always!
Since you don't care about it in the first place, then, keep your eyes open and choose a suitable husband for yourself!
Han Zihe doesn't want girls to want to "start from the beginning" ridiculously after they take that step out openly; she doesn't want them to focus on each other because they promise someone, regardless of the other party's character or whether the other party treats them very well.
That's ridiculous!
"That's ......," Han Miao twitched at the corners of her lips.
At this moment, she suddenly thought that maybe, her little aunt probably knew everything!
Thinking of this, Han Miao stirred his fingers in confusion and embarrassment.
Her cheeks were red and she looked overwhelmed.
"Now that I'm ready to get married, I'm mentally ready to start a family. Han Zihe said earnestly, "However, you don't need to wronged yourself, if you find that Chen Rui is not good to you, you can say 'no' to this marriage no matter before or after marriage!"
Although people should have a sense of responsibility, they should also be responsible for themselves! Responsibility in marriage should not be a reason for unilaterally suppressing or wronging oneself, as long as it does not violate morality and is worthy of one's own heart. ”
Speaking of this, Han Zihe patted his forehead: "Look at me! It's obviously a good thing, but it's like this! I'm really sorry!"
She took Han Miao's hand and advised: "They are all their own people, and they are not the right days, so all the blessings will be replaced by 'I wish you happiness'! I hope that after you usher in another beginning of your life, you can ride the wind and waves, and become happier and faster! I also wish you can always maintain your original intention and be your true self." ”
Han Zihe's words were really from the bottom of his heart, and Han Miao's eyes couldn't help but turn red when he heard it.
Of course, this sounds quite ordinary, but for her, for her who is nervous at this moment, it is really a stabilizer, so that she has been suffering from gains and losses since she got up in the morning, and her panic and anxiety are calmed down.
Han Zihe wasn't going to talk to her niece about how she felt about living as a couple, so she didn't wait for Han Miao to say anything, so she took her hand and said, "By the way, what did you want to talk to me just now?"
Han Miao: "......"
She was a little hesitant, after all, her little aunt had just said something to wish her, and if she said what she wanted to say now, wouldn't it be appropriate?
Han Zihe saw Han Miao's hesitation, but she didn't have the idea of stepping forward to be relieved.
People in love are always a little blind to themselves, even if they are relieved, what should they think or what will they think, only their lover can help them!
After a while, Han Miao finally spoke: "Little aunt, you say...... Chen Rui, he shouldn't have anything to do with that star, right?"
"Why do you think that?" Han Zihe sighed in his heart, and said in his heart—"Look, this is starting to get apprehensive"; however, she was not prepared to pass on this emotion to Han Miao, "Could it be that they have been related before?"
If it weren't for this, Han Miao shouldn't have thought about it like this.
"No! How could it be!" Seeing Han Zihe's guess, Han Miao couldn't help but quickly shake his head and wave his hand, and immediately denied it.
However, under Han Zihe's bright "Are you sure?" eyes, he hesitated a little: "They shouldn't have been in contact, after all, the entertainment company is just a subsidiary of Chen Rui's group company, no matter how big the star is, he shouldn't be able to contact Chen Rui!"
"Now that you have analyzed it clearly, what are you still worried about?" Han Zihe relieved Han Miaoyi's "inexplicable" eyes.
"But......" Han Miao lowered her eyes, a little unconfident, and said, "After all, they are from the same company, if the other party wants to contact, then ......"
"Stop!" The corners of Han Zihe's mouth twitched when she heard this, and she hurriedly made an "S" gesture, making her dare to stop guessing, "Han Miao, since the two of you are already planning to get married and live a life, please stop your baseless speculation." ”
"You must know that this distrustless mentality will greatly affect the relationship between the two of you. Han Zihe reminded, "Love may be full of water...... But marriage requires various factors and conditions to maintain, and you should save this kind of nonsensical association!"