Liu Jianfeng was admiring the beauty's peerless figure, and suddenly heard Ji Yuxuan say: "Zi said: A gentleman does not lose his footing in others, does not lose his color in others, and does not lose his mouth in others. It is the old gentleman who looks fearful, lustful and fearful, and believes in his words.

So you stare at the woman like this, descriptively described, with a dirty demeanor, indecent manners, and not dignified appearance, how can you have the attitude of a gentleman, how can you make others be in awe and convinced?"

Liu Jianfeng's head suddenly grew for a while, and he hurriedly raised his eyes, staring at the other party's eyes politely and respectfully, and then remembered that the other party was a retro girl, who came out of the real women's training class, and he opened his mouth to quote the scriptures, who can stand it, and when communicating with her, he has to carry a book of Analects with him and translate it at any time.

It was quite normal in the clinic just now, and it was a very natural conversation, I guess it was for the convenience of work, and now I took off my white coat, as if I had changed my person all of a sudden, and I had a feeling of crossing over.

Liu Jianfeng could only bite the bullet and say: "My fair lady, the gentleman is good." ”

Ji Yuxuan said: "A gentleman loves beauty, and he should be courteous." ”

Liu Jianfeng was really speechless, clenched his fists and arched his hands: "Xiaosheng Meng Lang, there is something abrupt and offensive, please forgive the girl." ”

It's too hard to say, and I almost bit my tongue after saying a simple sentence, and I couldn't help but say, "Girl, aren't we tired of talking like this?"

Ji Yuxuan smiled slightly and said: "I don't like to talk like this, of course it's okay to speak in the vernacular, I just demand myself with traditional etiquette, and I also hope that the people I associate with can be polite." ”

Liu Jianfeng nodded, he said a long time ago, a girl is the same, so a man's routine must also be flexible and changeable, you can't always go shopping, eat and watch movies, of course, if a man has the ability, he can change this woman, if he doesn't have the ability, he can only be obedient and catering.

Liu Jianfeng didn't think he had such an ability, so he was willing to be pushed back by Yang Fan and honestly be Lin Zirou's housekeeper, because he really didn't want to, and he didn't have the energy to create any romance and warmth to please women, so he simply catered to the end.

"A gentleman is jealous of fornication, and choosing a friend is like seeking a teacher. Thank you girl for mentioning, so shall we go now?" Liu Jianfeng stood up and stiffened himself in only a few sentences.

Standing in front of Ji Yuxuan, he was tall, athletic, with sword eyebrows and starry eyes, and his whole body was full of fierce masculinity, even if he tried to speak, he couldn't see that he was angry.

So he feels like Xiucai meets a soldier.

And Ji Yuxuan feels like everyone has met a heroic general.

Ji Yuxuan looked at him, blushing inexplicably, turned her eyes away, turned to the side slightly, and said, "Okay, I'll invite you to dinner, thank you for helping me last time." ”

"Hehe, then I will be as good as the host, and it is better to be respectful. Liu Jianfeng chewed the words and said.

Ji Yuxuan made a gesture of please elegantly, and then took the lead, Liu Jianfeng stepped side by side with him, but kept a distance of about one meter, he didn't know any ancient rules, but he knew some psychology.

When you first come into contact with someone of the opposite sex, it is best to keep a distance of 1 to 1.5 meters, so that you can be polite and enthusiastic without making the other person feel nervous.

After walking out of the hospital gate and turning into the main road, Liu Jianfeng took the initiative to walk on the left side of Ji Yuxuan, that is, on the outside of the road, because there was a non-motorized lane next to it, and cars came and went, in order to prevent accidents, he took the initiative to give up a safer position to the lady.

Of course, Ji Yuxuan also noticed this small move, and her graceful demeanor made her feel very warm, when crossing the road, Liu Jianfeng took the initiative to lean over and stretched out his hand to support her behind her back, and there was no real physical contact, but he just made this protective action in advance, so as to be able to react quickly in case of accidents.

Crossing the street to call a taxi, Liu Jianfeng took the initiative to help her pull the car door, and when he didn't receive her invitation, he took the initiative to give up the back seat and became the co-pilot.

Came to the hotel set by Ji Yuxuan, Liu Jianfeng asked her to go first, and politely thanked the security guard who opened the door, bowed slightly to the welcome lady, and took the initiative to help Ji Yuxuan pull the stool to the table, and specially instructed the waiter to take a glass of warm water.

Although they are all inconspicuous little things, at the beginning of the relationship, two people look at the inside from the small things and look at the essence in the subtleties.

The waiter came over and asked them to order, Ji Yuxuan politely let the recipe to the guests to choose first, Liu Jianfeng was not polite, picked up the recipe and looked at it, and said to Ji Yuxuan: "You are a doctor, the work intensity is high, the pressure is high, and the night shift is reversed day and night, and ophthalmology requires a high degree of concentration, so mental fatigue and lack of exercise are certain, and the best way is to increase exercise appropriately, as well as a healthy and reasonable diet."

So, first of all, let's have fried shrimp with broccoli, braised tofu, and steamed sea bass, because fish, shrimp and soy products are rich in protein, especially for people who use their brains too much. 2018

Another carrot beef stew, carrots are rich in vitamins, which can enhance immunity, prevent a variety of acute diseases, and have beauty and anti-aging effects.

There's also phosphorus, one of the most important sources of energy for the brain, and there's nothing like a bowl of mullet soup that's rich in phosphorus.

You are an ophthalmologist, and you have a lot of eyes and eyes with patients every day, and you also have a certain loss of vision in your eyes, so in the end, we have a pot of chrysanthemum tea to clear the liver and eyes, clear heat and detoxify, which is no better. ”

After listening to Liu Jianfeng, the waiter even forgot to record it, looked at him with a face, and said, "Sir, you are so considerate and thoughtful, beautiful lady, you are so lucky to have such a boyfriend." ”

Ji Yuxuan forgot to correct it for a while, and looked at Liu Jianfeng in a daze, so thoughtful that she really couldn't think of any other words to describe it.

Moreover, in this high-end, elegant and romantic restaurant, many men are basically like this, although they are not as good as him who knows how to eat and nourish health, but they are gentle and considerate to the ladies around him, and they are all-round.

Ji Yuxuan naturally discovered this, in fact, she rarely has a private life, this restaurant is often mentioned at the same time, if it weren't for expressing gratitude to Liu Jianfeng, she would not normally go to the restaurant, every day lunch is a bento brought by the family, dinner must be eaten at home, and when I go home half an hour later, my mother will call to ask.

She can be said to be a typical good girl, everyone in the world of flowers is beautiful, and she almost can't go out of the door.

Seeing this situation, it was a little incomprehensible for a while.

Liu Jianfeng saw her entanglement, so he smiled and said: "Don't be entangled, this is not a gentleman's country, upbringing, cultivation and cultivation, many people have it, and I think this point is more perfect than the sage teachings you emphasized, the virtue of a gentleman."

In ancient times in our country, the status of women was very low, and it can be said that they were completely vassals, props, and even playthings of men.

Even the saint you admire once said that only women and villains are difficult to raise, and other serious discriminatory words against women,

As for the so-called virtues of a gentleman, whether it is loyalty, filial piety, honesty, shame and bravery, benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and faith, or gentleness, courtesy, and frugality, some of these virtues are for princes and generals, countries and nations, some are for the same gentlemen and scholars, and some are for peddlers and pawns, but there is no virtue for women.

Therefore, there is no need to compare a gentleman with a woman, on the contrary, it is the gentlemanly demeanor and chivalry of the West that reflects the great care for women.

Of course, Chinese culture is the essence of our nation's culture, and many of the concepts, theories and principles of the sages are still useful and blessed for thousands of years, but now people are more pragmatic, how can they still take the dogma of the saints as a code of conduct, and some people don't even care about the provisions of the law for money.

And now there are many so-called Chinese culture classes that are popular on the market, most of them are money and cheat people, I have also heard of what female classes, specializing in teaching women three from the four virtues, with the husband as the key, female workers tea ceremony, cooking and cooking, etc., it seems that it is specially for the rich family to cultivate obedient and obedient little daughters-in-law. ”

Liu Jianfeng said a lot in one breath, so much so that Ji Yuxuan didn't dare to answer, because she had received the education of three conformities and four virtues since she was a child, and she was convinced of it.

Don't look at her as a doctor, she has a lot of contact with people, but she doesn't know much, which patient has the heart to gossip with a doctor?

I don't participate in any entertainment on weekdays.,Go home when you get off work.,When I first came, there was even a full-time driver car to pick up and send me.,There were a few suitors at first.,Later, somehow.,Suddenly they all stayed away from her.。

Listening to Liu Jianfeng say this at this time, it really seems that she has been booked a long time ago, but she is just an angry little daughter-in-law who has been cultivated in her mother's house.

However, the situation in her family is different from ordinary people, others send girls to study the so-called women's school, which may really be prepared for the future in-laws, basically those who can get in touch with the upper class, but they are not in the right household, so they strive to cultivate their daughters, hoping to marry into a wealthy family as a traditional woman who is hardworking and filial, dignified and virtuous.

And the situation of Ji Yuxuan's family is completely different from this kind of family, not to mention, she has never thought of refusing her mother's arrangement for herself, and she has long been accustomed to this planned life path for more than 20 years.

Seeing that she didn't talk much, Liu Jianfeng also closed his mouth, this is the lowly nature of men who always subconsciously want to persuade a good family to go into the water and want to pull a technical girl to be good.

Of course, Liu Jianfeng wanted to bring out some topics and get to know her more deeply, after all, she was an important clue to track down the Huangquan Organization now.

That's why I was cheeky and went directly to find someone to ask for a treat.

It's just that people maintain an elegant demeanor and a unique aristocratic temperament, Liu Jianfeng has come into contact with this kind of person, although he is smiling and polite to others, but he always gives people a feeling of being high above and far away in the sky.