It's a pity

A few days ago, I met a very regrettable thing, I met a little girl, I should have a chance to be raised, but later I found out that my husband didn't agree to raise a child, he said that he should give birth to one!

But then I found out that my body is not very good, I want to raise one first, but then I found that he always disagrees, he always says every time, he will be sad if he raises, I don't know what he thinks, he always says, blood relationship is very close to the words are very good, but, I always worry about my health every time, will take medicine every time, but, because we disagreed, so we rejected the girl, refused to raise the child, sometimes only to find out that mother-in-law and father-in-law also do not support to raise a child, probably because of the influence of her husband's thoughts!

But then I also found out that although I wanted to do this thing, but he still didn't agree, it was really a pity, and finally found out that this is really a regrettable thing, in today's society, there are very few people who raise children, because everyone has one or two children, and every time the parents who give birth to many children do not exist, when I encountered this thing, I found out that it was really a regret in my life, but then I found out that such a thing has passed, and then I felt it, although I regret, but after all, I don't blame myself for this thing, as long as I have a clear conscience, no matter what kind of thing it isAt that time, I found out that in this kind of life, people think differently, and there will be all kinds of differences, and it is the same in such a thing, he and I think differently, and every time I always want to have a biological child, and he still moved the law out for the last time, telling me that those adopted children are human trafficking, in fact, sometimes I really don't want to argue with him too much, because there is no need for such an argument, and sometimes I found out that I just regretted obeying his opinion, although his opinion was not necessarily the most perfect choice, but, since he said so, then such a decision, I can only leave with regret.

Later, I also thought about it for a long time, for such a thing, although I am willing, I want to raise a child like this, but my husband is unwilling, so forget it, I can only regret it like this, I am sorry.

Although we are all in our 30s, it is still a pity to see such a regrettable situation!

When there are all kinds of things in life, I find that if two people form a family, if the two people have different views, there will still be a lot of trouble, not necessarily before they get married, they are alone, what kind of decisions they have, what kind of choices they have, just their own affairs, but now especially on the issue of children, it is a common thing for husband and wife, sometimes even if they are willing, even if they are wishful thinking to raise a child back, I think there will still be all kinds of problems, if the other party is not willing to live or die, I think there are still many problems。

Some time ago, I still felt that I should put more thought on work, but because of my poor health, it also affected a lot of things, not only affected my work, but also affected my family, I found that I have a lot of ideas, I have a lot of ideals, or there will be a feeling of powerlessness, with so much powerlessness, so I can only face the reality and live, sometimes I find that I also want to fight for excellence like others, strive for advancement, and be an excellent person, but later I found out that forget it, such an ordinary life, can be less stressfulIn real life, we also find that sometimes, many times, we will miss if we are not careful, so there are many opportunities that are constantly passing, such as adopting or adopting a child, sometimes just a moment or a thought has caused the passing of the shoulders, and sometimes I find that I can only say regretfully, I am really embarrassed.

But even so, I should still face life with a positive attitude, although my body is not good, but I still have a positive and sunny inner world, although in such a regrettable thing, everyone will go to have some mental activities, some inner thinking, I have been thinking for a long time, but in the end, I have no way, although I have worked hard, but others do not agree with my point of view, then it is a pity, but then I found out, forget it, sometimes a lot of things are forced to come, especially such a thing, fate sometimes must haveIt's a very good way to say that sometimes you don't have a fate with yourself at all, so there are all kinds of problems coming to you, and all kinds of problems are highlighted again and again, just because we don't have so much fate between us, sometimes such self-comfort, just tell yourself that it's over, and my family also told me that since I have rejected the other party, then this thing has turned the page, and it has become a kind of past has become a kind of past.

So when I wrote this article myself, I found that there is still a kind of regret, in my heart, but since my husband said so, it is better to think about the current life, two people together, no child can happily do what they like to do, instead of having a lot of housework, there are a lot of burdens, so it is still very unhappy, in such a phenomenon, in such a life, I think it is still very good, because there is no burden of life, although the salary is not high, you can still take care of your own life, you can still support yourself, so, you can still live your own small life, can still indulge in their own little happiness, and after a while, can be leisurely, just enjoy happiness!

Although I have regrets, it is also a kind of happiness, so just like that, forget it!