"Wait, let me guess, it must be 'I like you', right?" I asked quips.

Liu Lei smiled embarrassedly, nodded, and said, "Brother Du, you guessed it so easily." ”

"Isn't this the pattern in teen campus idol dramas? I said with a smile.

"Yes, our process is indeed a bit cliché, and we basically follow the consistent model of youth bubble dramas. ”

"And what's next?"

Next, I folded a thousand paper cranes, wrote five words in it, and gave it to her. ”

"Wait, let me guess, it must be 'I like you too', right?"

"Alas, Brother Du, don't make fun of me, listen to me first. Such a cliché plot, even if you guess it, it doesn't show your cleverness at all. ”

"Oh, okay, then I won't guess, you say. ”

"As Brother Du guessed, it was written so many five words, received a thousand paper cranes, Zhang Xin was very happy, asked me why it took me so long to reply to her, I replied that I only saw the words on it, she asked me since I was a child, I have been on the TV since I was a child, down to the flashlight, why a thousand paper cranes should be preserved so well, and it took so long to dismantle. ”

"Hehe, I didn't expect that we both have the same hobby, and we both like to dismantle things. And then?"

I said at the time that it was because she told her to keep it, so I kept it carefully. ”

"You said that these girls, how good it is to write a letter directly and put it in the envelope, so that everyone knows that they need to take it apart and take a look, and they have to change their tricks to fold a paper crane, and you want to learn to fold paper cranes, otherwise if you keep it for a lifetime, she will wait until she is old. I sighed depressed in my heart.

"Well, Brother Du has a point. And then we established the relationship. After determining the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, maybe because of the spring breeze, my academic performance is getting better and better, and I have improved to the first place in the school in the second year of high school, while her academic performance is getting worse and worse, day by day, maybe as Shakespeare said, 'Women in love are often stupid', she used to be so smart, and after meeting love, her IQ immediately showed a phenomenon of plummeting. ”

"It's a common phenomenon, I thought it was the case with the women I met. At this moment, I can't help but think of my inner evaluation of Li Kaixin.

"It seems that Brother Du has a lot of experience, does Zhang Xin and her sister still have a play?" Liu Lei even gossiped.

"Go and go, say you, don't get to me yet, hurry on. I urged.

"In order to save Zhang Xin's studies, I consulted a lot of review materials and explained to her in detail, but the effect was not good, and my learning was getting better and better in this process, and I was also very helpless. ”

"What's helpless, lose the mulberry elm in the east corner! ”

"Later, I was admitted to Beijing University, but she was only admitted to Dada. ”

"In fact, you originally had the potential to go to Beijing University, not Zhang Xin made you, but you made yourself. ”

"I still feel a little selfish, I already realized that this relationship affected her studies, but I have been immersed in this beautiful feeling of two people, and I have never been able to bear to give up, and finally achieved myself, but sacrificed her. Liu Lei said very guiltily.

After listening to Liu Lei's story, my heart was also very touched, thinking of the time in high school, and I once had a good memory, of course, we have already gone our separate ways.

I remember that it was the second semester of the third year of high school, my girlfriend suddenly proposed to break up, the reason was that she didn't want to delay each other's studies, she was very resolute, and I had no choice but to accept this proposal, but in fact it backfired.

Since we decided to break up, we have begun to deliberately avoid each other, and we will always be confused in class every day, and I am like this, and she seems to be the same, and in the end it did not follow the predetermined development trajectory at all, resulting in the two of them falling to Sun Shan in the first year of the college entrance examination.

This is completely personal experience, in order not to make Liu Lei feel guilty about it all the time, I think I can tell him about my personal experience.

I straightened out my thoughts and said: "Liu Lei, everything has its two sides, you were still very young at the time, and you must have a very poor ability to control your emotions, and the thing that can affect a person's mood the most is feelings." ”

"Yes, I've also made assumptions that if we are separated, I will definitely become decadent and lost, and then I will become gray and have no intention of studying. Liu Lei immediately agreed with my statement.

"Then what do you think would have happened to Zhang Xin if you had been separated?" I put forward another hypothesis.

"I also asked her at the time, and she said that if she broke up, she would leave the city and find a strange place to heal.

"Well, when you are together, you can promote each other and encourage each other, at least you can ensure that you have a stable and good mood, so that you still have the heart to study hard, if you deliberately terminate this relationship, it will inevitably cause ripples in each other's mood that cannot be stopped for a while, which will have a negative impact on your learning. ”

"Brother Du is right, we were all immature children at that time, and if we knew this, we should not have talked about feelings early. ”

"Alas, only when I come over can I know that the previous path is right or wrong, and there is no chance to start over in life. ”

"Well, you're right, I understand that. ”

"Feelings, just like Dayu's water control, 'plugging is overflowing, dredging is smooth', 'blocking and suppressing, it's better to sparse and guide', understand?"

After listening to my enlightenment, Liu Lei thought about it, suddenly showed a happy smile, and said: "Brother Du, listen to your words, I will not feel guilty about this from now on." ”

Ah, I didn't expect this high-achieving student to be really troubled by such a simple truth for a long time, and now I am relieved to be enlightened in a few words.

My ability to enlighten people is really strong, comparable to that of a senior psychological counselor. But why is my own emotional world still a mess?

"I see that when you two are together, your heart doesn't seem to be as relaxed and happy as it seems. I voiced the doubts in my heart again.

"In fact, in recent years, I have been entangled in this, I like finance, like the world economy, Zhang Xin likes the parents in the short, when we chat, she will always talk about the parents for a long time, every time I listen to a headache, but I have to pretend to be relish, and if I give her a talk about politics, economics and the like, she will be very resistant to say 'I don't listen, I don't listen', over time our common language is becoming less and less, and it is limited to the good memories of childhood, alas!" Speaking of this, Liu Lei couldn't help but sigh.

"Ambitions are not the same, and your patterns are too different. ”

"Speaking of studies and work, my intention is to continue to go to graduate school, and she thinks that the provincial branch can get in, and what graduate students need to go, so she has been urging me to get employed as soon as possible, so that I can get married and have children as soon as possible. I've been struggling with that. ”

At this time, I really didn't know how to evaluate it, so I had to say: "Liu Lei, a good man should be ambitious in all directions, and a corner of peace should not be a good choice for high-end talents like you. ”

After listening to my statement, Liu Lei thought for a long time, smiled knowingly, and said, "I understand, thank you Brother Du for your enlightenment." ”

Seeing Liu Lei's suddenly enlightened appearance, I always felt that I seemed to have done something bad, as the saying goes, "I would rather demolish ten temples than destroy a family", did I do something "lacking morality" just now, and successfully ruined a family?

I suddenly felt extremely guilty in my heart, so I wanted to kill this sprout as soon as possible, and even if the stiflation failed, I should try to minimize my role.

"Liu Lei, why is your smile so incomprehensible? I'm not persuading you two to break up, I wish you lovers will eventually become married. ”

"Brother Du, don't try to cover it up, I wouldn't have given up my plan to continue my studies. ”

This sentence is definitely a reassurance, it seems that my enlightenment is just a fuse, the bomb has been installed, sooner or later it will be a hidden danger, and it will definitely not be silent all the time.

For a person, when he is young and vigorous, he may make compromises in many aspects for the so-called love, but if the career does not go well, it will lead to things not going well, and unswerving love will often be changed by reality.

According to the analysis of Liu Lei and Zhang Xin's current state, they are definitely in the same bed and have different dreams, and they are barely together, but after all, they will be completely different in their intellectual interests, completely different aspirations, and different levels of understanding of the world, and there will be constant contradictions.

It is also a mutual achievement for unsuitable couples to let go early, so that each other can get another chance to create a life that suits them.

Liu Lei is a rare talent, and his future achievements should be immeasurable. If you are in a safe corner, you can't achieve yourself, and the country's loss of a pillar is big. So my comfort and enlightenment have become a disguised contribution to the country, so I am still a little complacent when I think about it, is it schadenfreude?

After sending me back to Midu, Liu Lei immediately returned to Xiangyun.

I don't know when or what month the next time I see this sunny little boy will be, maybe he will be in an important position at that time, or maybe he will not be able to escape Zhang Xin's "clutches" in the end.

With the arrival of Lao Zhao and Xiaobai, Yang Shuai and I finally ushered in the time to return to the city, seeing that Yang Shuai and I did not look much vicissitudes, Lao Zhao asked very curiously: "It seems that you are all used to grassroots life, and your complexion is still so good, or you continue, our share of money will be earned for you?"

"Go, go, brother has something more profitable to go back to the city, and do you care about this little profit?" I refused directly.

I haven't seen each other for a long time, and it is very pleasant for the four of us to be able to joke with each other, but Yang Shuai and I are also in a hurry to go back to the city, so we left in a hurry after a little handover.