Chapter 1042: Last Lesson
However, Ghost Fang knew in his heart that this could probably only become his own expectation, because it would be difficult to become a reality. A movie is a movie, and although it comes from reality, it is still detached from reality.
If you can really think about it, then maybe your temperament will not be what it is now-
Nine times out of ten, his own parents also hoped that his personality would change, but isn't he still like this now?
It can be seen that it is useless.
But it's good to think about it, so at the end of the movie, Yao Fei's ending is still good.
Jiang Xiaobai looked at the ghost party.
He didn't know what he was thinking, his expression kept changing, a little sad, a little helpless and self-blamed.
Jiang Xiaobai waited for a while, and found that he was still immersed in his own thoughts, and he didn't come back to his senses, so he coughed lightly and spoke.
"Mr. Fang, in fact, people will influence each other, you yourself are not sociable, and you are very reluctant to contact with outsiders, so that the circle of your father and daughter is only so small, in addition to school, she can only contact you every day, so you can imagine how much influence you will have on her. ”
Jiang Xiaobai spoke.
Ghost Fang heard her voice and looked at her a little blankly.
This time, it was finally no longer annoying and resisting to interrupt her and drive her away.
"If you don't like to make friends, then she won't like it either, so she will be immersed in her own world and can't extricate herself, and it's hard to change, but in fact, she's still young and her life is still long, so there will be a lot of opportunities for change. As long as she makes more friends and gets along with some sunny and cheerful people, the gloomy part of her personality will be slowly dispelled. ”
Jiang Xiaobai continued, noticing that the ghost party was already listening to her carefully.
"It's still too late for everything, because her life is not defined, but if she is older, it will be difficult to change it after her temperament has stabilized, and you don't want her to become like you, right?" Jiang Xiaobai asked.
The ghost pursed his lips and did not speak.
"It's not right for me to disturb you this time, it's just that my work schedule has been a little nervous recently, I don't know when you will notify us of the interview, but it's too passive, and I think I still have to take the initiative to fight for some opportunities, for the inconvenience, I apologize to you and Yoyo, but ...... I don't think this trip was in vain, because Yoyo might make one more friend because of this, don't you think?"
As Jiang Xiaobai spoke, he stood in front of the door of the ward and looked through the glass.
The ghost party also involuntarily followed.
Because of their limited vision, they couldn't see the whole picture, but they could still see two little heads coming together and pointing to a book.
The ghost party couldn't help but be a little touched.
Jiang Xiaobai is right, her daughter's circle is indeed very small.
Aside from school, she has only herself in her life, and occasionally her mother, who is also grumpy and complaining. And when she was in school, she didn't really have any friends.
Only the teachers will be kind to her for the sake of her studying, her classmates don't like her much, there was a lesbian table with her who had a good relationship, and the two would often play for a while after school before going home.
But one day, the girl accidentally broke an electronic watch that Yoyo liked very much, and the other party didn't pay much attention to it and apologized casually, but Yoyo lost her temper because she felt that the other party didn't apologize sincerely, and didn't take her belongings to heart.
The other party was confused by her temper, saying that she was making a big fuss, and that she had already apologized. But Yoyo has her own stubbornness, she feels that the other party's attitude is not good enough, so she keeps holding on to this, trying to make the other party admit her mistake.
In the end, the result of the two not compromising was that they broke up.
That girl's popularity is better than Yoyo, in addition to Yoyo, she has a lot of good classmates, since the relationship between the two is stiff, the other party has isolated Yoyo with her own small group of girls.
It's impossible for Yoyo to bow his head and apologize and make peace.,Since then, I've been alone.,There's not even a person in school who can talk.。
This incident was not something that Yoyo took the initiative to tell the ghost party, or during that time, he accidentally found that Yoyo was secretly crying at night, so he went over to ask.
If it was usual, then Yoyo probably wouldn't have confided her heart, but that was when she was vulnerable, so she sobbed and said it when the ghost asked.
Ghost Fang has always been worried about his daughter's social circle, but he only thinks that this may be due to his daughter's personality, and is always thinking about how to improve her temperament, but he never thought that it would be because of his own influence.
"You may be right. ”
He said in a dry voice.
Jiang Xiaobai smiled, "If I'm not mistaken, then Yoyo should be a very passive person, right?"
Ghost Fang nodded quickly, "Well, she is a very passive person, even if she wants to make friends, she will wait for the other party to take the initiative to approach her before responding, instead of taking the initiative to step forward." ”
"So, I taught her a lesson today. Jiang Xiaobai said.
The ghost looked at it puzzled.
"Because I took the initiative to come to you for an opportunity, if I finally get what I wanted, then in her opinion, this initiative is beneficial, even if it is cold at first, it doesn't matter, the final result is considerable. But if I took the initiative to try, you kept treating me with a cold face, and in the end you didn't soften, and still drove me away with a straight face...... What would she think?"
She will only think that it is not good to take the initiative and it is very humiliating.
The ghost party did not answer, but he was thoughtful.
"In fact, a lot of conceptual changes start from small things, after we leave, you can use this as an example to tell her, tell her that people are to fight for themselves, whether it is work or making friends, you always have to try before you know whether it works or can't, if you just wait for others to approach, then the opportunity will only be missed. ”
Jiang Xiaobai finally said.
Ghost Fang glanced at her, hesitated slightly, and asked, "You...... Ever had a baby?"
Jiang Xiaobai couldn't help laughing, "If you talk like this, people will misunderstand." ”
I don't know, I thought Jiang Xiaobai had a child himself, and if this spread, it would become big news.
"I didn't mean that, I thought ...... You have more experience in these ways of teaching children than I am as a father. The ghost smiled a little bitterly as he spoke.
He often feels that he is derelict in his duties, but when parents have no way to go through systematic training, everything can only be explored step by step, if the groping is good, the child has a stable personality, kind and gentle, and in the best case, he will be productive in life and career.
But if you don't grope well, then your life will be ruined, and whether you will have a good career in the future is not to mention, for fear that you will make a mess of your life, betray your relatives, and be ashamed.
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