In the past, I always felt that no matter when, I must overpower others in momentum, this is my idea, if sometimes the momentum can not overpower others, I will always feel that the other party will be in the future, how arrogant in front of you, this is my previous opinion, so I always do this, in fact, this approach, but also scared off a lot of people, I think, maybe so, many people will say that when people are evil, others are afraid of you, I also know, someone has said such things before, but when people are evil, people don't deal with you, people avoid youAs long as there is no friction between you, what can you do?

Those who are evil, the friends they make, are never good people like us. But I don't know when it started, after a long time, between my husband, between colleagues, and relatives, friction and contradictions are inevitable, when I encounter things, always quarreling is really not a way, sometimes I think about it, with these feelings after that, maybe it is the experience of life, maybe it is the so-called growth, in those days before, I want others to forcibly change their own ideas, change their own practices, sometimes think about it, it is really difficult, because there is no very high level of understanding, even if others have better practices, we may not necessarily listen to other people's suggestionsAt that time, we always have our own ideas, and we will always feel that our ideas are very correct, in fact, when we have really experienced some things, we will feel that those times before, those things before, those things that I have dealt with before, are really not perfect, this may be the so-called growth.

The last time I had a conflict with my husband, I learned to be silent, I learned not to conflict with him head-on, in the past, when I had a conflict with others, I always quarreled with the other side, but now?

I think this is not interesting, and even will be laughed at by others, some people just love to gloat, you are arguing here in full swing, people are very happy there, in fact, such people are a minority, but there are also some, I also understand in a slow life, when others are angry, they must be silent, and they can even control their emotions, in fact, I have lived for more than 30 years, in the previous days, I have never known how important it is to control my emotions to myself and others, sometimes think about it, most of what we say when we are angry is the truth, and it is the truest thoughts in our heartsSometimes what is said is also angry words, but when you are angry, the words you say are unscrupulous, and the words you say are very hurtful, what kind of feelings will the other party feel when you hear it?

Aren't they sad? Therefore, in the future, whether it is with your husband, or between colleagues, relatives, and other strangers, don't get angry easily, don't easily hurt others with your mouth, this may require a long time of cultivation, a long time to control your emotions, but I think that since I have realized the existence of the problem, and realized that the way to deal with this situation is a better way than the previous ways to deal with it, then continue to work hard to implement it in my life in the future, and continue to work hard to do it.