Chapter 100 Chatting is like a debate, where everyone expresses their opinions and does not give in to each other

The master glanced at me with a little contempt, and then said: "The tall man said that the last time he met a beautiful Chinese girl, he went up and praised 'you are so beautiful', and the other party replied 'Where, where', he thought that general praise was not enough, so he had to continue to say in stiff Chinese, 'The eyes, nose, mouth, ears, and eyebrows are all beautiful', and later I learned that 'where, where' is a self-humble word." The group then began to share anecdotes about learning Chinese and marveled at how complex and varied the use of Chinese language was. ”

No wonder I can't understand it, it turns out that they told such a complicated story, and the dialogue I can understand is limited to Han Meimei and Li Lei, no matter how complex the dialogue is, it will be completely incomprehensible.

"Chinese culture is so vast and profound that many people can't say they're proficient in it all their lives. It is a great achievement to be able to learn Chinese well, and English is enough. ”

"Then are you learning Chinese very well?"

"It's okay, I took the college entrance examination Chinese test more than 120. ”

"I also got more than 120 in the exam. ”

In fact, my language level is definitely more than that, at that time it was conservatively estimated that I should be able to take more than 130 exams, but the reality was very ruthless, when the score came down, I almost had to apply to check the test paper, and then consulted the school teacher, and finally analyzed the reason, that is, there were too many elements in my essay that criticized reality, resulting in a low score in the essay.

Based on the above reasons, I think that my language level must be higher than hers, because I don't study Chinese in university engineering, but the grades are in front of me, and it is useless to explain, so I am speechless at first.

"Looks like you're not even up to the job of being a waitress in a bar. The master said bluntly again.

I think back to when I first entered the bar, I saw a poster at the door to recruit waiters, and I thought that the salary level of this position was okay, five or six thousand a month.

Now it seems that there is a reason for the high salary, and seeing that those waiters can basically communicate with foreigners in simple English, this situation is also drunk, because I am really not competent.

I said helplessly: "I have a specialization in the art industry, I am a mine designer, and I can't use foreign languages." ”

"So do you know where the country in the world has the largest coal reserves?"

"The largest reserves are in the United States, followed by Russia, and then our country. However, the country's local coal production is relatively low, and they like to plunder and do not like to use their own resources. ”

"What's next?"

"Ah, it's okay to be able to memorize 3.1415926, there's no need to be behind it, right?"

"Superficial. Next is Australia, India, Colombia, Canada, Ukraine and many other countries are also rich in coal reserves, if the United States does not like new coal mines, then the remaining countries are not small mining efforts, right?"

"Well, it's not small, but China has always been the world's largest coal producer. ”

"Did you notice that we weren't talking about the same topic?"

"Aren't they all talking about coal?"

"I thought you thought we were talking about countries in the world. ”

"Don't worry, I'm not that stupid. ”

"Really, coal is coal, coal is not coal. ”

"Well, when you look at it horizontally, it looks like a peak on the side of the ridge, and the distance and the height are different. ”

"Your mind is really different. ”

"Hehe, thanks for the compliment. ”

"I mean, you think differently than normal people. ”

"Why, I think it's the same, it's just that there are some whimsical ideas occasionally. ”

"It's hard work, I don't want to play dumb riddles with you, I want to say that if you need to go abroad for a project someday, language will be the biggest obstacle to your ability to do the job, and then you can start learning? ”

Originally, I wanted to make good use of my rich geographical knowledge reserves, but now it is not necessary, because people mainly think that my vision is not far-sighted enough.

I was a little bit of a headache because I was in a safe place, I had never been exposed to projects in most parts of the country, and I wanted to go abroad to get a piece of the pie, wasn't that purely delusional? So after listening to what she said, I just smiled noncommittally.

Then I quietly asked, "Have you ever been abroad?"

"I went to study in the United States for two years as an exchange student, which is equivalent to completing my master's studies abroad. The master said lightly.

"Oh, it's good, it's good, but for me, I think the great rivers and mountains of the motherland are the best, and I don't have much interest in going abroad. ”

Although the motherland is good, the politics, education, science and technology, customs, and folk sentiments of various countries are different. ”

"Is technology different?"

"Absolutely. ”

"Aren't all atomic bombs nuclear fission? Aren't airplanes all burning aviation kerosene? Aren't all trains railed?"

"Your understanding is really superficial, science and humanities, social sciences and so on, technology is everywhere, all-encompassing, there are always differences. ”

"The educator Confucius, the great writer Su Dongpo, and Grandpa Mao before the founding of the People's Republic of China have never gone abroad, which shows that great achievements can be made without going abroad. ”

"Strong words, that's not you. ”

In fact, in this process, I also agree with some of her views, but I am still unhappy to be educated like this, so even if I am strong, I want to scold her.

I think the topic can be shifted, the whole process is like a debate, she will have to be educated for half a day to continue, and we have completely different views, and if the debate continues, it will probably break up unhappily.

It's also a skill to change the subject when chatting, not too abruptly, and it's best to make a smooth transition, so I asked, "Have you ever encountered anything interesting in the United States?"

The master's expression finally eased a lot, and her performance is also worthy of my admiration, if the average girl is so scolded, at least she will be angry, and the master quickly calmed down, maybe debating with people is her love!

Then the master said: "Once, I went to a Chinese restaurant with a Chinese classmate to eat, where it was fine Cantonese cuisine, most of the people eating in it were locals, and many foreigners were also able to use chopsticks proficiently, we were very surprised, the classmate said, 'Foreigners have also learned to use chopsticks', maybe her voice was a little loud, directly into the ears of the foreigner at the next table, and what was even more surprising was that the foreigner said in standard Mandarin in a solemn manner, 'You have to understand, you are a foreigner here'." ”

It was a really funny thing, and I couldn't help but laugh out loud.

So we naturally changed the subject, and then we talked a lot, and although we could still talk together on many issues, it always felt like she had a condescending attitude.

Perhaps in the minds of many girls, they think that looking for a boyfriend should find someone who is at least equal to their own education, education determines the vision, if the man's vision is lower than that of a woman, it will be difficult to achieve harmony in the relationship between each other.

But I want to say that academic qualifications are not the only criterion for determining horizons, university learning is only to cultivate a person's learning ability, the school is a small society, the social university, as long as we have a mentality of endless learning, and can study unremittingly, we will never lag behind.

Of course, in front of the master's degree, there is no need to explain too much, because I think my insight is not inferior to hers in many aspects, and I can just know my heart, and I don't need to over-behave.

After experiencing a few blind dates, I feel that blind dates are a point-to-point thing, don't have excessive desire to express, don't be overly arrogant, a thousand words are endless, and the love is naturally strong in the depths.

The topic of the two of us is basically completely out of the category of blind date, except for some worldview debates, that is, some sharing of learning experiences.

From beginning to end, it was basically the master's degree who led the topic, and I was just going with the flow, and I was flamboyant, otherwise I might not be able to deal with it.

When we were about to separate, I wanted to send her back, but she was politely refused, she said that it would be good to take a taxi back by herself, in this case, I did not continue to insist, only helped her take a taxi, and then returned to the dormitory.

I just drank a lot of bottles of wine, but it didn't seem to be strong, and on the way home, I suddenly thought that I had just taken a part-time job last night, so I hurriedly contacted Zhang Ling.

We agreed on a time of nine to half past ten every night, and I wanted to drag the big golden retriever to the river for a walk, but then I thought that there was a barbecue under the Yuantong Bridge by the river, and when I passed by there, it would definitely be too lazy to leave, so it would not work.

Then I decided to avoid there, so I immediately turned around and prepared to change the route, but it didn't cooperate at all, and had to go in the direction of the Yuantong Bridge, so angry that I kicked him directly in the ass twice, of course, I didn't try it very hard, and scolded a few times, I didn't expect this guy to eat soft or hard, and he was obedient at once, and followed me to the newly planned route.

The blind date for this holiday has basically been completed for most of the time, and the rest of Chen Shiyi, I didn't have any ideas, but my aunt had to ask my uncle-in-law to ask, so let's watch it later. In addition, there is also a finale, that is, there is also a flight attendant.

Although Zhao Yanxue is not satisfied with the status quo and complains constantly, she is kind-hearted and does not love vanity, but she wants to be a greasy and crooked person at every turn; Lu Yao is good at communication, lively and cheerful, but she loves to play games; Liu Huixin has a good education, is fashionable and generous, but her heart is too arrogant.

In comparison, Zhao Yanxue is still more satisfying, and she matches me in all aspects, but she is the sweetheart of the Zhang Wei brother I just met, so let's skip her as soon as possible, in case she is deeply involved and can't extricate herself, how unkind and unjust she looks.