Chapter 261: Shaken
Huanhuan's mother didn't bother to ask the question she was puzzled about just now, and it was most important to understand her daughter's condition.
"What's the problem?"
Gu Chuanjiu pointed to the location of his heart and gave Huanhuan's mother a smile.
"Have you been forcing her to do something she doesn't like lately, or have you been insisting that she do something she doesn't like lately?"
Gu Chuan thought for a long time, many times the troubles that children can have should undoubtedly be various preschool tutoring classes.
Although this child looks like he is only five or six years old, many children at this age have already been placed in kindergarten for various studies.
There are also countless part-time tutoring classes, and you can learn almost anything.
It is said that let children win at the starting line, but deprive children of happy childhood.
The child wants to resist but can't, so he will naturally pretend to be sick to resist.
Huanhuan's mother thought for a moment, then shook her head.
"No, what can I make her do that she doesn't like to do? We almost always respond to her's needs, whatever she wants or doesn't want, we follow her, shouldn't. ”
"Doctor Gu, if you point to the heart, shouldn't you say that my daughter's illness is related to heart disease?
Gu Chuanjiu shook his head.
"It's a psychological problem, not a heart problem, it's normal, in this case, you should actually go to a psychologist for consultation, but it's quite troublesome to go back and forth. ”
"If you want the child to untie the knot directly with me, you can go out for a while, let me talk to the child, and when I know the specific situation, this problem will be easily solved. ”
Of course, Gu Chuanjiu would say this, not because he wanted to cut off the psychiatrist's financial path, nor did he want to be nosy.
The main reason is that after the mother of the child knows that the child has a psychological problem, she will be angry, and she will not take the child to a psychiatrist to untie the knot, and directly take the child back to violent education, which is not a good solution to the problem.
Huanhuan's mother understood this time, Gu Chuanjiu meant that Huanhuan was not happy to do anything, and then pretended to be sick.
After knowing that her daughter pretended to be sick in order not to do anything, her mother's face changed suddenly, and she stared at Huanhuan very seriously.
"Huanhuan! you're not sick, right, the doctor has checked it out and made sure that you just aren't sick, you'd better tell me why!"
"If you don't say it, I'll tell your dad and see if he will kill you!"
Huanhuan's mother said that in the end, she almost squeezed out the sound from between her teeth.
If it weren't for Gu Chuanjiu and Qiao Maimai now, I'm afraid they might have already done something to Huanhuan.
Huanhuan was so frightened that she shrunk her neck and lowered her head, not daring to speak.
Gu Chuanjiu immediately reminded Huanhuan's mother: "Don't be so fierce, the child is still young, you will cast a shadow on her psychology like this." ”
"Sometimes it's not a good thing to put too much pressure on a child's psyche, and there are many ways to educate people, and it is definitely not achieved by scolding or violence. ”
Qiao Maimai nodded in agreement.
Huanhuan's mother realized that she had to maintain her image in front of outsiders, and quickly adjusted her expression.
"You go out for a while, and let's talk to the kids alone. Gu Chuanjiu reminded Huanhuan's mother again.
Huanhuan's mother saw that Gu Chuanjiu insisted, didn't say anything, got up and went out.
Huanhuan was relieved when she saw her mother go out, but her little face was obviously still wrinkled, and she seemed very unhappy.
"Okay, your mom is gone, can you tell me why you're pretending to be sick with mom and dad?"
"I didn't feign illness, I was really uncomfortable. The child insisted.
It didn't seem like she was going to talk to Gu Chuanjiu openly.
Gu Chuanjiu touched his chin: "Huanhuan, if you don't tell me, then can you tell your mother the reason?"
"If your mother didn't figure out the reason when she was here, she would definitely ask your father all the time when she went back, and when I and this sister were not here, what should you do alone? Aren't you afraid?"
Huanhuan was asked by Gu Chuanjiu, and his little face was full of confusion.
"I ......" she wanted to say, but when she opened her mouth, she hesitated, she was afraid that she would be beaten by her parents if she really admitted that she was pretending to be sick.
Jo Mai Mai spoke.
"You tell your brother and sister, it's okay, maybe your brother and sister can help you talk to your mother, and ask your mother to stop you from doing things you don't like to do, isn't that good?"
"Really?"
The child faltered, and his little wet eyes were full of anticipation.
"Of course it's true, we are doctors, we won't lie, as long as you tell us, we will definitely help you. Jo Mai replied.
Huanhuan finally relented.
"Actually, I pretended to be sick because my mother always asked me to go to various interest classes after school in kindergarten or on weekends. ”
Sure enough, Gu Chuanjiu guessed correctly, the child was oppressed by various tutoring classes and pretended to be sick.
"At first, my mother just let me learn piano, and I still had time to watch TV and play with my friends every day, but then my mother let me learn guzheng, and let me learn ancient dance, and let me learn to draw, Latin dance, and almost all of my free time was filled with these. ”
"Not long ago, my mother saw an advertisement saying that learning English in advance can make children smarter in the future and easier to learn English well, so she wanted to continue to enroll me in English classes. ”
"I'm really tired, I really don't want to go on like this, I feel like I'm going to be exhausted by those tutorial classes. ”
Huan Huan cried as she spoke.
Qiao Maimai, as an adult, was stunned to hear that Huanhuan Kindergarten had to attend so many tutoring classes after school.
Is this a human thing?
Huanhuan's mother did this, no wonder Huanhuan would pretend to be sick.
If her parents had arranged for her like this when she was a child, she would have gone crazy.
Gu Chuanjiu was also shocked when he heard it.
He thought that Huanhuan was arranged to a tutoring class that he didn't like, but he never imagined that Huanhuan would be arranged so many tutoring classes.
Even if you are an adult, you have to go to class from Monday to Friday every week, and you not only have to do homework in your spare time, but you also have to go to so many classes that you can't afford it, how can a child at such a young age be able to bear the load?
It seems that Huanhuan has accepted all of the previous ones, she is also an obedient and sensible child, but no matter how obedient and sensible she is, she is also a person, not a machine, and she can accept anything.
This time she pretended to be sick mainly because her mother wanted to continue to compress her time and enroll her in classes.
This is indeed what Huanhuan's mother did wrong.
"Huanhuan, don't cry, your problem brother knows, and my brother will have a good chat with your mother and ask her not to help you sign up for counseling classes. ”
At the same time, she will also help you withdraw a few tutoring sessions that you don't like, so that you can keep some free time. ”
"You tell my brother, what classes do you like to take and what classes do you dislike?"
Huanhuan shook her head.
"No, it's impossible for my mother to agree to quit the class, the money has been paid, if my mother quits the class, I won't be able to get the money back, it's a waste of money, if I let my father know, I will definitely be killed." ”
Gu Chuanjiu frowned.
"How do you know you won't get your money back?"
Huanhuan lowered his head slightly and narrated.
"What I saw, I saw that the mothers of other children wanted to withdraw from the class, but the teachers disagreed, saying that it was impossible to refund the money after signing up, whether they finished learning or not, and then they quarreled. ”
"Some children's parents even fought in order to return the money, but they still didn't get the money, so they ......"
Gu Chuanjiu and Qiao Maimai were speechless.
I have participated in a lot of tutorial classes, and I always encounter these things somewhat, no wonder she is so sure that she can't return the money, and that she will be beaten if she wastes money.
It's just that his dad also thinks it's okay for her to attend so many tutoring classes at the same time?
Gu Chuanjiu asked this doubt.
"Does your dad know that your mom has enrolled you in so many tutoring classes?
Huanhuan still shook her head.
"He didn't know. ”
"My dad often travels abroad on business, and he only comes back once every ten days and half a month, and each time he only stays for a few days and leaves, and he doesn't care much about me except for giving money to my mother. ”
"But I know he hates people wasting money, once I ate an apple, I took a bite and accidentally fell to the ground, he told me not to waste it, this apple is very expensive to buy, let me pick it up and continue to eat, I didn't want to, so he hit me......"
"So if I don't continue to go to class and let my mother pay my tuition for nothing, my father will definitely beat me to death. ”
When Qiao Maimai and Gu Chuanjiu heard Huan Huan say this, their hearts were really mixed.
I don't know how this child got over in such a home.
Let's talk about being poor, if you can afford to enroll your child in so many interest classes.
Let's say it's not poor, the child's father can beat the child in order to waste an apple, and he is also a grumpy man, no wonder Huanhuan's mother threatened her with her father when she didn't agree with her just now, it seems that she has been beaten a lot before.
"It's okay, believe my brother, you tell your brother what course you don't like to study the most, and my brother will help you solve it well, and you won't be beaten by your father. "Gu Chuanjiu is extremely gentle and patient with children.
Whether it is Gu Chuanjiu or Qiao Maimai, they are not such pitiful people who can look at the child.
"My least favorite ......" Huanhuan said, thinking for a while: "Piano and Latin dance, my least favorite are these two." ”
Gu Chuan thought about it for a long time, if the original five courses were removed, there would be only three left, and the pressure on the child would be much less, and the problem should not be big
"Good. ”
After he finished speaking, he asked Qiao Maimai to call Huanhuan's mother back at the door.
Soon, Huanhuan's mother returned.
"How's it going?
Gu Chuanjiu still smiled gently at the child just now, which was extremely serious in the face of Huanhuan's mother.
"That's your fault!"
Huanhuan's mother was reprimanded by Gu Chuanjiu, and her face was full of ignorance.
"What's wrong with me?"