Chapter 937: Ah Duo

It can be seen that Big Nose didn't want to take the box of cigarettes, because she was criticized by Wu Zhongyuan, but in the end she still took the box of cigarettes, and the saying that people are poor and short-sighted makes sense, and she can hardly get the luxury of cigarettes here.

Since the three inmates of the women's prison were all mentioned together, after the big nose went out, Wu Zhongyuan immediately called the name of another female prisoner.

This is a thirty-five or sixteen-year-old woman, named Ah Duo, not a nickname called A Duo, but the name on her ID card is called A Duo, many ethnic minority names have this characteristic, this person looks a lot older than his actual age, intentionally injured and caused death, the victim is his husband's good friend, two years older than her.

Ah Duo is a bit like Xianglin's sister-in-law, her nerves are already a little abnormal, her eyes are straight, and she can't wait to pour out her grievances after sitting down, in fact, her experience is not bizarre, and her husband's childhood sweetheart, she came out of the countryside to work together, and then her husband had money, and he had a good relationship, and he snubbed her in every way, she has been swallowing her anger, and she finally couldn't bear it, and stabbed the woman with a knife after an emotional outbreak.

Ah Duo nagged about how good she was to her husband, how much she was wronged, and how the hateful woman snatched her husband, she didn't think she was wrong, she always thought that she was the victim.

In this kind of place, under strict control and legal education, the vast majority of prisoners will realize their mistakes, and there are very few people like Ah Duo who refuse to admit their mistakes.

In all fairness, Ah Duo's experience does make Wu Zhongyuan very sympathetic, Ah Duo and her husband also had a time of common hardship, in the early years she had a sudden illness, and her husband braved the wind and snow to carry her to the mountain road for dozens of miles to send her to the township hospital. When she first got married and split up, she had a debt of more than 8,000 yuan, she was frugal, she cooked two things for every meal, the better ones were for her husband, the poor ones were eaten by herself, and the adult ones did not see meat.

Later, the two entered the city, and life gradually improved, but the relationship became weaker and weaker, and Ah Duo put all the blame on the woman, thinking that the woman had robbed her husband.

Ah Duo told far more than these two things, it can be seen that Ah Duo and her husband's relationship was really good in the early days, it can be called Lang You's concubine intention, but the world is impermanent, and the beauty did not last to the end, and it changed halfway.

Prior to this, Wu Zhongyuan had been in contact with the prison management personnel, and had also heard some relevant information from them, and they had data obtained from a comprehensive analysis, and the analysis found that the number of people who had been living in the city or in the countryside had relatively few crimes, while the proportion of rural people who had moved to the city and those who had returned to poverty for some reason was relatively large, and the root cause of this was the confusion and confusion after suddenly having wealth, as well as the despair and loss of wealth suddenly lost.

Ah Duo's situation belongs to the former, she is obedient to her husband, but her compromises have not been exchanged for her husband's change of heart, in exchange for only intensification.

Because Ah Duo was eager to talk, the conversation between the two was narrated by Ah Duo, Wu Zhongyuan listened, and Wu Zhongyuan rarely interjected when Ah Duo narrated, in fact, Ah Duo's situation was somewhat similar to the glasses who donated his kidney to fund his girlfriend's study, the difference is that Ah Duo is a woman, and the glasses are a man.

Wu Zhongyuan advocates equality between men and women, but the equality between men and women he advocates is not equality between men and women in the absolute sense, in his opinion, equality between men and women is based on the ability to wealth, knowledge prevails in the heart of the scale is accurate, take the initiative to give up half of the status to the other half of the other, rather than men and women breaking the head of the fight for who has the final say in the family.

The reason why he doesn't criticize Ah Duo is because Ah Duo is a woman, a weak person, she has no dominance, and can only bear passively.

But he can't praise Ah Duo for doing the right thing, because Ah Duo really did something wrong, she made three mistakes, one is that she shouldn't blame the woman and attack her, because men take the initiative physiologically, no matter how much a woman seduces a man, it depends on the man whether she is up or not, so on the issue of men and women, men must bear most of the responsibility.

The second is that she shouldn't try to keep a person who wants to leave, the maintenance of a relationship depends on both men and women, as long as one of them moves the idea of leaving, it is no nostalgia for this relationship, and any form of retention on the other party will not help.

The last mistake Ah Duo made was that Ah Duo paid too much attention to his inner and ignored the outside, there are photos of Ah Duo when he was in prison and a photo of the victim, the victim was two years older than Ah Duo, but the maintenance was better, and he looked more beautiful than Ah Duo, and Ah Duo because of his perennial work and not paying attention to his clothes, people in their thirties were like an old mother in her fifties.

Judging people by appearance is a common feature of all people, especially men, who pay more attention to women's appearance, and there are many advantages for women to attract men, but the first point is also the largest point is appearance.

A woman must dress herself as meticulously as possible if conditions permit, and she can't be harsh on herself for the sake of thrift and thrift, and turn herself into a raunchy yellow-faced woman prematurely.

No matter how difficult it is for a man, he should not be harsh on his woman's cosmetics and skin care products, husband and wife are husband and wife, not brothers, not comrades-in-arms, they are the opposite sex who accompany each other to grow old together, if women age faster than men, men have a great possibility of becoming Chen Shimei.

Wu Zhongyuan rarely spoke during the whole process, and only asked three questions, the first is will your man give you money to spend after having an affair? Ah Duo replied yes, she has never been short of money, but she understands that it is not easy for her husband to make money, and she is reluctant to use it, unlike that vixen, who always spends her husband's money lavishly, which is really shameless.

The second question Wu Zhongyuan asked was whether he would come over to see you now? Ah Duo also gave an affirmative answer, but her husband complained that she had made a big deal and made him have no face, and she was also worried that after being sentenced for so many years, her husband would meet other women outside.

The last question is did he file for divorce with you? Ah Duo replied no, but he never went home, and traveled around with the vixen to buy things for the vixen.

Wu Zhongyuan did not criticize Ah Duo, nor did he point out where Ah Duo's problem is, first, he is a man, no matter how objective and fair he is, he is also a man, it is impossible to understand 100% of a woman's psychology, and any criticism is suspected of subjective assumptions. Moreover, Ah Duo does not read much, and she can't look at problems comprehensively and objectively, if she realizes that her husband's affair is directly related to her roughness, she will doubt her feelings, she will doubt life, and she will deny her various advantages in a general way.

But it's not okay not to express an opinion at all, because Ah Duo never thinks that he has done wrong, and if he doesn't admit his guilt, he can't reduce his sentence, this is a dead knot, and he still has to try to make her realize her mistake and strive to get out early.

After Ah Duo came in, the discipline must have educated and enlightened her, but Ah Duo did not realize his mistakes, which shows that normal enlightenment is ineffective for Ah Duo, and the sword has to go sideways.

After thinking about it, Wu Zhongyuan walked to Ah Duo's side and whispered a few words in his ear, Ah Duo suddenly realized when he heard the words, got up and bowed to Wu Zhongyuan repeatedly, "Thank you leader, thank you leader, if they ask me in the future, I will say that I realize my mistake, so that I can go out early." ”

Wu Zhongyuan smiled, grabbed a handful of candy from the table next to him and stuffed it into her hand, "Take it, eat one when you're feeling uncomfortable, you still have children, they are still waiting for you outside." ”

Ah Duo held the candy and sobbed with gratitude.

Wu Zhongyuan pressed the button on the table, and the prison guards came in to bring people.

Seeing Ah Duo leave, Wu Zhongyuan let out a sigh of relief, the relationship between men and women is the most complicated, but it is also the simplest, men do what men should do, women do what women should do, only in this way will they be happy. If one party does not do well, the other party will equal zero even if they do well, because feelings are multiplication, not addition.

Fang Yi probed in from outside, "There is one left, who will be transferred next?" ”

Wu Zhongyuan thought about it, shook his head and said, "Don't mention it, let's leave after the last talk." ”

"What's wrong?" Fang Yi was a little surprised, after coordinating so many departments, Wu Zhongyuan only asked six people.

"Almost. Wu Zhongyuan said casually, all the prisoners here are prisoners, who have been imprisoned and corrected after making mistakes, human nature must not be fully displayed, if you want to truly understand a person, you have to see what he will do in the natural state......