A friend
Today this friend called me, in fact, I found out that it was a friend a long time ago who had a good relationship, but then I haven't been in touch for a long time, and I don't know how the other party is doing, sometimes, I don't even want to contact myself, why, every time I find that everyone has their own lives, and they are okay, but when others call, no matter how busy they are, they still want to pick it up, see what the other party is, what is the matter, and then just chat casually, only to find out later, in fact, the current society is really not good at all, some very simple and very practical problems, is the problem that the husband and wife are not together, this is also a problem that I sometimes think about, originally everyone is a young person, you have to be together from time to time to live well, two people have a care for both life and other aspects, and they are separated, each living their own life, every month just said, the husband can give some money, in fact, the husband and wife should not be like this, give a little money every month.
And then raise a child, is this what is called a couple? I think whether it is a husband and wife, or a family should be together, and then have a warm home, so that people can experience the feeling of warmth, at this time I also deeply understand those who work outside, they should be very hard, I myself have gone out to work for a few years, I always feel unsteady in the past few years, my heart is like a wanderer, my heart is wandering around, I don't even have a stable place to live, sometimes I find that it is very difficult to change jobs, every time I carry my big bags of luggage to walk around, I feel annoyed, and now sometimes I find itIt's a good choice to be in one place!
And when the husband and wife are not together, there will be a lot of problems, everyone is like this, people, is a social animal, not an independent individual, you can go wherever you want, not like this, but need a family to have a warm life together, so that it is like home, and those who are wandering outside to work outside to support the family, it is really hard, their hearts should be very tired, and the heart is also very desolate, I think there are also a lot of such people, the wife takes care of the family's life at home, takes care of the mother-in-law, father-in-law, and his own children, and the husband works alone outside, or work, it should be very hard, at this time I remembered that there are many people who work harder than me, and I myself am not the hardest, and sometimes I find that I am still very happy.
People can live a more comfortable life, that is, good people, sometimes they still don't have too much, if they have too much, they will want to have more, and when they have more, they will find that there is no end, and there will be more and more desires.
I can't satisfy my vanity. But today chatting with that friend, I found out that in fact, there are still some differences between people and people's pursuits, people are a wandering person, every time they live in a hotel to live more than 100 yuan, and I have never lived in such an expensive hotel, every time it is just a casual will be a good time, in fact, sometimes I find a very short time in one night, sometimes I don't sleep all night, I come directly the next day, I don't have to spend so much money in a short time, a hundred yuan can buy a lot of things, and sometimes I find that I should save a little。
People are like this, and they still have to have some restrictions on themselves, so that they can be content, which is the so-called contentment!
In fact, sometimes friends occasionally contact each other, and it's still very good to chat for a while, to be able to know each other's situation, and sometimes to give each other some convenience.
Sometimes I find that my diploma is high, and I don't necessarily have a good life, this friend of mine is a graduate student, and now he doesn't have a stable job, and I'm still very good, why?
Every time I have such a good job, I don't know how to cherish it, and when I lose it, I realize that I am really a very stupid person, a good job, but I am messed up by myself, what is going on?
I have so many problems on my body, in fact, I should have changed it earlier, but I am still like this, every time I have a problem on my body, what should I do?
Sometimes I find that I always love to grab my hands every time, and I keep my hands neatly and neatly, and then the leader told me, you don't want to grab your hands every time, such words are a kind of unconfident performance, in fact, to be honest, I really have a little bit of unconfidence, and later found out that it is not not unconfident, such a simple thing, but a bad habit of oneself, I can't help it, and such a bad habit has been affecting my life, people have seen a lot of pedicure halls on the street, you can repair your own feet, and I am always at odds with the leader every time, how to do it every time like this, so it's not good to mix it up.
Everyone doesn't dare to do anything against the leader, they have to be obedient every time, and the leader will say whatever he says, and sometimes, he will say some sweet words to the leader, and I won't say it every time, and sometimes my mother will tell me that you have a better relationship with the principal, and I can't do it every time.
This may be the reason why I don't mix well every time. In addition, there are some other problems and reasons of their own, because of their own faults and shortcomings, which affect their daily life all the time, and all the habits are formed by themselves a long time ago.
Although sometimes I can't give him some material help, I can still tell her some simple truths in life, or some very simple things, do your best, but I still found that she didn't seem to listen, people still have to be a kind person, be a serious person, make yourself kind and beautiful, instead of just playing casually every time, like is like, not like is not like, emotionally should never be like that, it should be serious, if you like it, take care of each other, if you don't like it, then go away quickly, don't face feelings with a playful mood.