"Isn't this a typical attempt to escape from responsibility? His wife is also unlucky to marry him. "I also had postpartum depression, and I really wanted to die countless times during that time, and I loved and hated my children because if it weren't for him, I might still be a little girl. ”

"A man like you shouldn't get married. ”

Everyone's blame is not unreasonable, because judging from his description, he is not distressed and worried about his wife, but blame and impatient.

In this regard, the way of the program team is very unexpected, they are not persuading, nor are they asking him to find the meaning of life, but they took him to play a game first-

Extreme sport – bungee jumping!

Such a big man, when he spoke, his tone was deep and weak, and his eyes were gloomy, but when he stood on the edge of the cliff, his whole legs were trembling, and he kept saying "let me go back", and at the same time his hand was tightly hugging the pillar next to him, saying that he was not willing to jump.

The frightened look made people laugh, and the screams of him after jumping echoed throughout the valley.

His expression was also made into an emoji, which once became popular.

But that's not all.

After the bungee jumping, the program team arranged a series of experience activities for this office worker-

What exactly is it like to be a woman.

After asking for his consent, the program team prepared a long wig, women's underwear, a long skirt, and ...... A clean aunt's towel moistened with water.

When everything is ready, it is time to dress him up as a woman.

First he wore a wig, then put on makeup, put on underwear and skirts, and then asked him to put an aunt's towel on the inside.

It was still summer at the time, and he was still a little curious to admire the wig when he put it on, and then put on makeup, false eyelashes, and powder on his face, at this time he already felt a little uncomfortable, and the discomfort in his eyes made him keep squeezing his eyebrows, which was very funny.

And when it came to changing clothes, it was a disaster, he hid in the locker room and didn't come out, and he was pulled out by the staff for a long time, and at this time he was already desperate -

He had no expectations for life, but jumping once made him feel like he was coming back from the dead, and when the program team said that he would let him experience women, he didn't care-

He's died once, he's afraid of this?

But now he was really a little scared.

When he finished changing his clothes, he kept talking about his feelings-

"This hair is too heavy, and I feel so hot in my neck...... Will I get prickly heat?"

"The underwear is so tight and uncomfortable, I feel like I can't breathe. ”

"Is the humidity of this aunt's towel normal? I feel like I'm wetting my pants, that's how those girls are menstruating?"

"My eyes are so uncomfortable, my false eyelashes are so heavy, I feel like I can't open my eyes. ”

And that's just the beginning.

The skirt he wore was a bit like a one-step skirt, only slightly looser than a one-step skirt.

EMMM, let's call it a two-step skirt.

But the two-step skirt is for girls, and it looks like a men's one-step skirt when he wears it.

He had barely tripped over himself after only a few steps.

The staff asked him to wear this dress to the mall, and after only an hour of walking he was like a dead dog.

"Are girls so tired from shopping? Oh my God, they're really warriors. He said as he bent over.

And that's not all.

After that, the program team let him try the feeling of pregnancy and childbirth in turn.

The feeling of pregnancy is easy to understand, and the staff prepared a sandbag weighing about ten pounds, tied him around the waist of this office worker, and then asked him to do some housework while pregnant.

The housework is very simple, in fact, it is to wipe the table, sweep the floor, wash the dishes and dry clothes, etc., but in the process, he showed great discomfort, and finally collapsed on the ground and rubbed his waist and wailed, urging them to quickly untie the sandbag.

After the feeling of pregnancy is experienced, it is time to give birth.

The program team let him try the graded pain when giving birth in turn, and as the intensity of the pain intensified, he almost collapsed, and finally screamed and begged to stop.

And at this time, the male artist named Qi Zhenyan who realized his dream for him said this-

"I couldn't understand my wife's sadness, she also had postpartum depression after giving birth to Millet, so I have a deep understanding of the feeling of depression at home that you described, and I also had impatience and incomprehension, but I also know that I love my wife, and what she is going through is also because of me, so I want to try to understand her. ”

"What you experienced today, it's true, I've experienced it before, I didn't have the experience of women's clothing, but I have experienced the pain of childbirth, and I have experienced it to the highest level. After the experience, I understood her feelings and her feelings. She is a mother, but she is also a weak woman. ”

"We are men, and we don't have a good understanding of the suffering that women go through, and as for the responsibilities of life and the pressures of the workplace, men and women are actually going through them, and they have to take on the responsibilities of women and mothers in addition to these. While you feel bored and bored, she may be thinking about how to die all the time, and your indifference and disregard are the last straw for her. So I think we should be more tolerant and understanding of them, and be patient. ”

After Qi Zhenyan's words were finished, the office worker opposite was silent at first, and then lowered his head and cried.

He was trying very hard to endure it, but his body was trembling uncontrollably, and in the end, he finally cried out loud-

"I always complain that she looks half-dead all day long, she doesn't even want her children to cry, she doesn't look like a mother at all, but I never thought that I actually didn't fulfill my responsibilities as a husband and a father, I'm really not a thing!"

He had an epiphany, dodging the camera and leaning against the wall, crying and pounding the wall.

After this show, this dream clip also became popular, and many women who had experienced or were experiencing postpartum depression stood up to speak out, saying that their state at that time was not controlled at all, and the change of identity and the neglect of family members were the biggest source of the disease.

They also pleaded with the husbands to be more caring and considerate of their sick wives, and also said that the children are not the wife's alone, but also their husband's, and also hope that the men will not be too macho, and that widowed families and fatherless education are definitely important reasons for the breakdown of a family.

Soon after the show aired, the office worker posted a video shot with his wife.

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