I realized that a lot of language is actually very reasonable, the premise is that there are certain restrictions if it makes sense, for example, I recently saw a concept on the Internet is to give people the idea is the next policy, to give people money is the best policy, I know this truth, but I still have no way to do it, the truth is really good, put the universal standard, but there are still a lot of their own restrictions, I also want to give others ideas like this guideline, but what about people who are stronger than me? Many of their ideas are more advanced than mine, and some of them are unknown to me, and they may not necessarily listen to what I say, but what about people who are not as capable as me? I can give them some different opinions, but sometimes they can be recognized by others, sometimes they are still not recognized, and sometimes they will cause an unnecessary controversy, maybe some concepts will be accepted by everyone for a while, I only thought of a sentence later, that is, I am nothing, it is best not to persuade others, the result is really like this, persuading others they will not necessarily listen to me, or it is equivalent to not saying, and such a number of times, I also have a feeling, that is, my heart is tired, sometimes when others encounter things, or in daily lifeWhen I have some new ideas that I want to pass on to others, sometimes I can't accept them, so I will struggle until I don't have the desire to talk about them. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

People still don't give ideas to others when they are not successful, because when you are not successful, others may not think that what you say is correct, only when you are a successful person, even if you fart, others will feel reasonable, in fact, this is true, this is the celebrity effect. Later, over time, I think that people who give others ideas should be some successful people, or some relatively successful people, this sentence is more practical for them, why those successful people after success many go to lectures, lectures, because there are people to learn, I can't deny that in fact, we can still listen to some successful people's speeches, because they always have something we can learn, every successful person will not succeed out of thin air, they must have something better than others, so they succeed, every time we go to listen to the lectures of those successful people, or listen to the successful experience of others and the strength of success, can give us some guidance.

But it is not necessarily the road to success of others, we can move over as it is, we can succeed, these are unscientific, because when others succeed, there may be other factors, there are no two leaves in the world, they have those success factors may not be all of us, many people can succeed or have a lot to do with the times, just like in the 80s, everyone went to the sea, many people became rich overnight, but unfortunately now there is no such opportunity, you can't be rigid, let's talk about the recent success of Ma Yun, he created Alibaba, created Taobao, and now it is very prosperousBut if you still want to create a website, to create a similar website, will there not be such a good opportunity and such a good market? It's just that we can learn from Ma Yun's talk and speech that are useful to us, he has some advantages that others do not have, otherwise the success is not him, but others, in short, when the opportunity comes, there will always be someone who can succeed, the key is who is better at grasping themselves, good at seizing opportunities.

I am very much in favor of learning from the strengths of others, being good at discovering the strengths of others, and training myself into a person who has more advantages than disadvantages. The success I know is actually the success of the individual itself, whether you can seize the opportunity or not, the opportunity should be reserved for those excellent people, as long as you are good enough, you will always succeed. In fact, many times, advantages are also a disadvantage, and disadvantages are sometimes also an advantage, the key depends on how you use your own factors.

Just like Hu Xueyan used Liu Bucai's good betting, this was originally a bad habit, but Liu Bucai used his own advantage to develop and expand himself, the key is how to use his own advantages and shortcomings, and whether he can make reasonable use of his own resources.

In addition, there is another sentence that I also read on the Internet, and this sentence is also a more interesting one, that is: upbringing, is to make others comfortable. When I first started reading this sentence, I not only felt that this sentence was very reasonable, but also that this sentence was very correct, very novel, and the idea was still good. Later, after my careful thinking, I still think that such a sentence should still have certain restrictions and contexts, not always satisfying others means being educated, so few people in society are estimated to be educated.

Such a sentence is especially suitable for customers, but for our usual life, sometimes it depends on the situation, I will give a simple example, if someone wants your body, what about this person? You still don't like it, can you let him want you? Can you make him comfortable? Or can't, many times we will refuse, people have their own feelings and feelings, or they will become something, do you want the so-called dignity or the so-called shame? If the boss doesn't pay you, do you still do it? Or continue to volunteer, in order to make others comfortable and convenient, if this is the case, then how do we take care of the people we love, and how do we take care of our own life and daily life? We still have a lot of things in our hearts that we want to defend ourselves, or will there be many standards of right and wrong that we know, and we still have to make decisions according to our own judgment of the right and wrong of the world, so that we can be more objective, instead of giving everything to others, this is the so-called upbringing.

So, after my deliberation, I think that in front of a lot of words that seem to be true, I think there will still be a lot of big premises in front of me, don't feel that this is the best truth everywhere at any time, it still depends on the situation.

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