The influence of the family on the child
What kind of family born people, they have the mark of the family all the time, even if you deliberately conceal it, there will still be such signs, especially some children born in a family, their parents have a lot of bad problems, their children's bad problems are also a lot, this is my observation of dozens of primary school students to draw the conclusion, in the class, those excellent children, their parents are usually good, and those bad students, their parents also have a lot of shortcomings, such some children their body problems, not necessarily parents teach them to do thisIt's just that in the process of living together, the result of hearing and seeing, I also deeply found that in many children's education issues, parents really pay enough attention to it, and there is no heavy burden, and it is not as busy as before, the family only has one or two children, in this way, not only the children can get the care of their parents, but also can be taken care of by their grandparents, in this way, they are happy, at home, some left-behind children's families, grandparents are at home with children, grandparents are also working hard enough to take care of their children, take care of their grandchildren, I am also awareNow the grandparents have become omnipotent, not only to take care of the children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also to start learning with the children, when the children's grades are not good, their pressure is also very great, so their efforts to the children are far better than the children's own efforts.
When children get that score, they will also find that in fact, some such children, they really do not pay as much as their parents, behind these scores, parents pay a lot of hard work, there are a lot of efforts are made by parents, but only pay attention to grades is the opinion of many people, or there are some parents who always think that good grades are all right, for other aspects of the child, there is not too much attention and development, and some children from families, there will also be some low emotional intelligence, that is, parents do not pay attention to some reasons, such children from families, will encounter a lot of problems, let parents worryBut the influence of the family on the child is also deep-rooted, especially when I observed my husband, I found that he is really a copy of his parents, perhaps, because they have lived together for a long time, so there will be such some common similar feelings, similar qualities, similar habits, are true, not bad at all, when I observed my younger brother, I also found that he and my father are very similar, this is also some of the results after my observation, and what are the similarities in those aspects, and what are these similarities, I didn't say clearly, maybe this is some family privacyAnd I always feel that these conclusions I have come to are true, and the understanding I have reached is also true, this can't be wrong, so I also have some obscure ways to write like this, and when I write it myself, I will also find the subtlety of these things, and I have also deeply discovered some of the similarities, so I wrote it out from this, so that when I look at it later, I can review the views and charm.