Everyone knows that if you say too much, you will lose, but it is not easy to do, it takes many years of cultivation, and it has been a popular saying recently, it took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us sixty years to learn to shut up.

Speaking can be impulsive, but closing up requires willpower to control. What are the principles that can be mastered to maximize the benefits of shutting up?

Silence is golden, and sometimes silence can not only turn evil into good fortune, but also in exchange for prosperity. This sentence was said by Hemingway, which is the truest truth.

I also realized this truth in several speeches, but it is really difficult to shut up, you need to have a very strong willpower, a few days ago I encountered such a situation, I was chatting with a familiar person, I thought it was very speculative, so I said a lot of words, but later I found out that I said so many words, just let the other party know more about myself and my own situation in all aspects, after saying that, I am also praying to God, I hope this person has no bad intentions, if she really has any bad intentions, shake out my situation, I think I have a lot of trouble,Although the words I said are not a secret,But in my own inner world,It's also the most mysterious existence.,Some things like this,Sometimes,When we face our good friends,We always think that this kind of speech is trust in each other.,But what?

How much risk did we take to trust each other, after talking about a lot of our own situations, I was worried for a long time, afraid that my own things would be told to the other party, but I also kept asking myself a question later, since I was so worried, why did I not manage my own vomit in the first place?

To say a word, or even a paragraph, just takes a few simple minutes, or even tens of minutes, even if it is a long conversation, but what about after that?

That kind of apprehensive heart, who knows, but what has been said, it is difficult to take it back, and I want to explain, thinking that some such words are insignificant to myself, but when I want to explain, I know that the more I explain, the more such words are really like doing something for others, the more they describe it, the darker it becomes, are they all fools?

They don't know why you are going to explain it again? It's just that they are afraid that others will say it, they will be known by others, but they will still say it, for some people, it is like a plague, and those gossips may explode in an instant, and the city is boiling, everyone knows it, what is our dignity, but who is to blame?

When we vomited quickly, why didn't we think about the results after that? When we made a mistake at the beginning, and then it was rendered, why wouldn't it be again next time, but after every mistake, we secretly made up our minds at that time, telling ourselves that we would never do it again next time, but after a long time, we forgot the original determination, or would we make mistakes again, I thought, how many times do we need to make mistakes, how many times do we need to suffer, in order to remember to keep our mouth closed?

But for strangers, we just met once, so after the past, no one knows anyone, which is fine, but what about acquaintances?

What has been said, how to strictly abide by it, so you still have to do your best as soon as possible, you must lose more words, such a sentence is always beating in your heart, talk less and do more, it's good!