In the past, I would tell myself every time that what others said was no time, in fact, it was just a perfunctory and shirk to others, sometimes you wanted someone to go for a walk with you, go shopping together, but people said, I have other things, I really don't have time, at that time, I was also unhappy, and I really found that there was a layer of cloud covering my heart, covering me and them before, as if I was rejected more times and gradually became strange and estranged.

Sometimes we don't understand others enough to have such misunderstandings and confusions, you don't have a personal experience in other people's lives, how do you know what other people are thinking in their hearts, what are the problems that they are desperate to solve, you want others to go shopping with you, go for a walk together, this is just your needs, and other people's needs?

They just didn't tell you, so in many cases we will get closer to someone at an inadvertent time, and we are gradually estranged at a certain time, and time is the best evidence, we will remember those true loves, why do you say that, because it is true love, so you will be in a time when you can't get rid of it, in a casual moment, in a corner where no one is around, thinking about your own thoughts, thinking about the past, thinking about the future that is out of reach, sometimes when you really experience something similar, you will really understand others, understand other people's thoughts, understand other people's practices。

But in many cases, we blame too early, and we lose our precious friendships, our precious feelings, and our youthful youth.

I believe that there will be a lot of people who hear others say to you, I am very busy, I really don't have time, you must think, whether you are really not in a life circle with the other party, whether there will be yourself in the other party's life, what kind of position is in the other party's heart, when all the problems emerge together, it is also when you start to stay away, you know your position in the hearts of others, you will know what you should do, whether to continue to stay, or turn away。

Later, I found out that it is not that you have no place in other people's hearts, but that the other party may also be in a predicament and have not come out, but they have not told the other party your intentions, thoughts and purposes directly like you.

People have different personalities, so when they encounter problems, they are also different, some people like such blunt confessions, while some people always bear everything silently.

Now my day is really busy, in addition to my own things are my nephew's things, as well as work, but when you really find yourself busy and dizzy, in fact, you are constantly facing some problems, some problems to be solved, you don't even have time to nap, you don't even have time to be in a daze, how can you be in the mood to think about other things?

Busy is also an attitude, busy is also a kind of life, I also found out at this time, if someone else has something to let me go for a walk with her or something else, I really don't have time, Sunday, I still have to go home to accompany my husband, do something I want to eat, do some things that my husband loves to eat, such a quiet rest for a while, sometimes on Sunday, not going out to travel is actually a kind of life, you don't have to go out to travel you will be in a good mood, the mood is at ease, the mood is mediated with their own mediation。

At this time, I was also busy and anxious, and I didn't know if I was busy, but I really couldn't be idle, there were so many things urging me to do it, how could I be so idle?

I really don't have time, sometimes I think about it, those who don't get married have to be considered a choice, they are only one person, they don't eat when they don't want to eat, and when they don't want to get up, then they lie in bed, but we can't, there are always a large group of people waiting for you to do it, if you don't cook, everyone is waiting hungry, how can this work?

Sometimes even if you don't want to eat, the program that should be completed will not be less, slowly, when you really stand in the position of others and think about it, in fact, life is really not so bleak, sometimes think about it, if you also have such an awareness, I think my past will be a lot happy, will not be so depressed because of some small things, and will not be sad because of some other small things, this is just the shackles you give yourself, sometimes think about it, those shackles on your own body are brought by yourself yourself, if you want to untie it, you still have to untie it yourself。

Begin to understand others, that is, the beginning of your own liberation, you have not understood others, others do not know, your mood will not be good, the other party's mood will not be good, how do you give up your friendship, love, family affection, these and their own people are sad, so in many times, there are also a lot of things we can't figure out, such as the rejection of the distance, and like the approach, this hazy feeling, let you feel as uncomfortable as the wind and fog, too unnecessary, the injured person is still yourself, and others are just a very secondary existence, in front of your pain！

So learn to understand others, although sometimes you don't know well, but also gently say to others, I understand you, I respect your opinion, if not, if you really experience the other party's situation, you will know the other party's state of mind at that time, but what if you don't have the opportunity to experience it in your life?

So in the days to come, we still have to face life, face our own hearts, face other people's world, when others are really silent, in fact, it is not necessarily a rejection of you, when others really tell you, I really have other things, then such respect, understand, life will not become bleak because of a word, the world will not be rainy because of an expression!