During this time, because of his poor health, he has not taken care of his little nephew's study, and sometimes he finds that he still takes care of her study a little better, and every time he urges her to write her homework and watch her homework, in this way, her study will be very solid, but during this time because of her own reasons, there is no time to take care of her study, but she is also studying there alone, study when she should study, do what she should do, and later found that her academic performance during this period of time is okay, and the score is not low, but sometimes, we find that she is still not careful when she does the questions, There is also a lack of knowledge grasped, I think the family is still better for her to manage some of the better, but then I found out, in fact, I have no way, this period of time I found that she is gradually learning to play, every time she always plays like this, looking for a variety of reasons, do not come to study, in fact, sometimes children still have to have a little space of their own, the family should give her appropriate methods, good student interest, so that she has her own methods and purposes when she reads by herself, so that they can read well, and the family is just playing an auxiliary role next to it, such as a treeEvery time it grows upward, all trees are the same, and some trees don't need to be supported at all, they have been rushing to the sky to grow, and some trees are still not good how you can help them, they will still be crooked and long, and some will not grow long before they die, and some trees need to be supported, that is, they are biased to other places, they still can come over, and there are more branches, these branches will affect its nutrients and growth, I have also seen some people every time they encounter a lot of branches of the tree, they are to cut down those branches, so that the tree will develop in the direction he wantsAccording to the way of thinking, you are like this, after cutting off the branches on the side, he has been developing upward.

We usually plant watermelons or something in the farmland, a lot of things are like this, when encountering forks, we have to cut off those forks directly, so that it will grow in one direction, there will be a fruit, if it is not cut, maybe it is really just a very lush branch and leaf, the result is no fruit, in fact, we are the same in life, so we found that there are still a lot of phenomena are like this, the growth of children is also like this, every time she goes to school, no matter who she makes friends with at school, or the homework she learns every day at school, we parents just play a role in supervision, and fundamentally still rely on him to learn, to him to cultivate his own interests, this will be much better, and sometimes you yourself do a lot of things for him every time, he will not feel that he has grown much by himself, and you just pamper him every time, he himself does not know what to do, and does not have a good ability to stand on his own.

Later, I still found out that children's words still can't be too wild, because if the heart runs away, I want to learn or can't learn well, or be quieter, so that I can still learn more knowledge, but I still believe in what Mo Yan said, I read an article written by Mo Yan before, he said that he appreciates children who can fight with their parents, in fact, I think of such a problem, I think there is also a very profound truth, those children are very quiet, very quiet, in fact, you never know, the problems he has, and if he quarrels with you every time, you will find out whether there is a problem in itself, so that you can better solve the problem for him, and the ones I said before will shake out their own mistakes and correct them in the laughter of others.

You are a child is the same, they have their own ideas, and we parents also have our own ideas, everyone's ideas are different, children have such courage to quarrel with us, have such courage to express their ideas, in fact, it is also very good, parents can not be too fierce, too fierce, the child is so scared that he dare not say anything, in this way, even if he has something wrong with himself, he will hide, you will not find out what kind of problem it has, and we adults must know more than children every time, more knowledge, more experience in all aspects, and so he has a lot of problemsWhen it is manifested in front of you, you will still teach him some principles of life and some knowledge of survival, in fact, there is nothing wrong with this.

In the past, I also found that sometimes I had conflicts with my parents, and then every time I found out, I still felt that I was wrong, because although sometimes I was very dissatisfied, very dissatisfied, everything that parents did for us, sometimes I would find that parents were so bad, that was not good, but in the end, when I had a conflict with my family, what would the people around me say, would not say that the parents' fault, but would say how the children of this family were so ignorant, and later found that they were really ignorant, and sometimes they would realize the existence of the problem when they quarreled with their parentsLater, I also found that in the process of taking children, sometimes they quarrel with us, in fact, sometimes it is just their own inner thoughts, and we are different, but when you look carefully, sometimes they have such thoughts, that kind of thoughts, maybe better than our ideas, maybe we also want to grow up in them, can learn some knowledge that we don't understand, in fact, people are the same in life, whether you are an adult, or those children, sometimes children know the knowledge, know the truth is not less than adultsIn a certain idea or in the view of things, sometimes the truth and knowledge that children are exposed to may also be very fresh, because they are listening to the teacher's lectures at school, as well as the classmates around them, the way they transmit information, maybe we have not heard it, so just like that, sometimes we can listen to the voice of the child, and there is nothing wrong with it, but also to find our own problems or children's problems, or to find which method is better, so that we can still find the best way, instead of suppressing the children all the time, so that they themselves feel uncomfortable, and we feel very tired every timeWe have been doing what we think is best for them, and they have their own ideas, so rebellious or rebellious, what is the result?

The effect must be bad, just relax your mind like this, and then let him express his thoughts, and then I can find his mistakes next to him, correct it, and support him in the right places.