The 829th round
For Aunt Cui, Luo Qingyu is not close to her, and she can't talk about good feelings or disgust, so she is a more difficult neighbor.
Nod your head when you meet, and then smile slightly, just don't be rude.
Verbally calling each other aunt, in fact, she can't treat the other party as a relative, but the Nong's side gives her a sense of belonging, probably because Brother Nian didn't change his surname.
There are people on Nong's side who don't like her, but they don't treat her as an outsider, except when they are infighting.
If it is said that Cui Tanggu is deeply loved, responsible, and love is difficult to open in her heart...... Not at all, at least Luo Qingyu can't feel the slightest care and kindness from her.
Back then, Teacher Xiao was cold enough to her, right?
How do you describe the difference between the two?
Teacher Xiao smiled at her and hid a knife in her face, which was as cold as the wind, cold and cold, not too freezing, while Aunt Cui treated her coldly like a passerby, like the cold wind of the wax moon, like the cold of a kitchen knife cutting bones.
When these two elders faced her, they all looked serious.
The difference is that Teacher Xiao has her shadow in her eyes, while Aunt Cui does not exist at all. Sometimes, when she is such a big person standing in front of the other party, the other party is stunned as if she can't see it.
once made Luo Qingyu wonder if he had offended her.
"Brother Nian, my cousin doesn't seem to like me. ”
Taking a walk after dinner, Luo Qingyu couldn't help but ask the doubts in his heart.
"She's always been like this, don't mind. Nong Bonian patted her hand and soothed, "She has always been serious about juniors, when people reach a certain age, the deterioration of physiological functions leads to changes in mentality, and it is inevitable that her temper will be weird......"
Coupled with the long-term anxiety of whether to marry for the second time, and under the pressure exerted intentionally or unintentionally by all sides, Cousin Cui's temper had nowhere to vent and had to be sprinkled on the juniors, and even those young colleagues in her unit were lying down.
"But I see that her attitude towards you and Wang Luo is very good. Luo Qingyu didn't believe it.
There is also a big difference between her attitude and when facing herself in front of her parents-in-law and godparents.
I haven't seen her get along with her parents for a while.
"No way, I'm more capable, Wang Luo is her apprentice. "Is there a difference in identity, Nong Bonian glanced at her, "Do you care so much about her attitude?"
"That's not it, ask curiously, want to know if I did something wrong or said something wrong to offend her, pay attention in the future. ”
"No, you have the right to treat her as an old neighbor with a strange temper, don't interfere with each other, and just say a few polite words when you meet each other. ”
It's easy to get along and hard to live in, but fortunately, we are neighbors across a mountain.
It's quite far away, and even quarreling has become a luxury, and it can't be interfered with.
He had not met much with this cousin in his previous life, and her student had served as his health care doctor. We met a few times, and then I heard more from Cui's relatives and her students, and I was more impressed than others.
In his previous life, he was not close to the other party, so what qualifications did he have to force Xiaoqing to be more close to her? The daughter-in-law could get close to her mother-in-law and live in harmony, and he was already grateful.
The circles are different, and they don't have to be forced.
As the Cui family, some elders and juniors will inadvertently show a sense of superiority and don't pay attention to it. Relatives and friends only, just keep the due politeness and politeness, and the rest of how to be comfortable.
"Well, I thought so too. Luo Qingyu nodded.
Her family doesn't live by the sea, so how can she be so wide? She can't control what other people think.
"It's almost clear, Brother Nian, do you want to go back to the imperial capital to sweep the tomb?" Putting down the matter of Aunt Cui, Luo Qingyu asked casually, completely forgetting his identity.
Nong Bonian heard it, and look, this is the consequence of not having a wedding, and now the two of them live in the place where she was a girl, and it is normal not to have the consciousness of a married woman.
"This year, my cousin and I will go back, and you and my parents, as well as your godparents, will stay at home. ”
It's too inhumane to let the pot-bellied woman run around, and it's not safe to let her live alone in the mountains. The assistants and stewards did not have the right to speak, and they were not considered relatives and friends, so they made this arrangement.
She won't go back this year, and she won't be able to go back next year when her children are still young, so she has to take her back to her hometown in two or three years.
It was his first year of confession, and everyone wanted him to come back.
Then go back, and when he finishes sweeping the tomb, he will come back overnight.
The farmer's father and farmer's mother went back to Xiangjiang during the Qingming Festival last year, and they will not return this year.
The reason for the second elder of the Cui family is the same as that of the Nong family, the truth is that the second elder sees that his daughter-in-law's belly is so big and his son is not at home, if they don't guard it, they are really not at ease!
Pregnant women can't be short of people around them.
Similarly, assistants and others are not within the scope of this "person".
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In the blink of an eye, it is another year of spring rain, and pedestrians on the road want to break their souls.
However, today is two days before the Qingming Festival, Nong Bonian, Cui Tanggu and Wang Luo took a car to the airport last night, and they have already started to worship their ancestors with their clansmen this morning.
There were many people in the car on the day of Qingming, and every year, the Cui family was postponed by two days last year, but this year it was two days earlier.
The aim is to stagger the peak flow of people.
And the Luo family, Luo Yusheng and Gu Ning have returned to Xihuan City.
The family has increased its population this year, and it is necessary to report the good news to their ancestors, and pray for the health of their children, grandchildren, and grandchildren.
Brother Luo and Xia Huai don't go back, the children are still young, and they are twins, so they must be watched by their parents.
Fortunately, the nanny did not clamore for a holiday, but during the holiday, Xia Huai used three times her salary as holiday compensation, so they were happy to stay.
Sensei said that the nanny next to Xia Huai, and the employees in the mountains on the Luo family's side also applied for leave.
But there can be no shortage of people in the post, half of the rest and half of the leave.
"Ah Gai, Xiao Tangyuan, do you want to take a vacation?" Luo Qingyu asked the two assistants.
There are still two days to go to Qingming, and it is still too late to take a vacation.
If she doesn't take a break, she doesn't know if someone else has three times her salary, but she has it here, and the steward has made an announcement in the work group. Leave applications should be made as soon as possible, overtime should be registered, and the atmosphere of the upcoming holiday will be both joyful and tense.
"We're not working, we're already registered. Agai said.
They definitely can't take a break! She is pregnant with Liujia, and it is a time when no one is leaving, and if there is an accident, it is a matter of human life. There are grave sweeps every year, and it doesn't matter if they don't go back for a year, they told their families.
Receiving money from people and being loyal to people, how can you just leave at a critical moment?
Listening to their answers, to be honest, Luo Qingyu's heart was slightly relieved.
She doesn't like to ask for help, but this moment is when she is most vulnerable, and she has to ask for help in her daily life. Her parents' parents are not around, and she doesn't want to disturb her godparents, godmothers and in-laws at every turn.
So, they were able to stay, she was happy from the bottom of her heart, and asked:
"Whatever you want. Ah, by the way, you've heard the phrase 'Qingming snails, fat as geese', right?"
The two assistants chuckled in their hearts and shook their heads violently in unison:
"I haven't heard of it!"
"Now that I've heard it, let's go, let's go to the snail. After speaking, he left the Luohan couch in the pavilion and walked out.
"Sister, don't, you can't eat it now, can you?"
"Absolutely can't eat it!" Xiao Tangyuan said with certainty, if there is a case after eating, they will definitely feel guilty for life, "Sister Qing, the snails are cold, and there are many parasites, you don't think about yourself, but also for the sake of the child......"
I heard that a mother puts the health of her children first in everything, and she can't be an exception!
"There are a lot of parasites, so it's good to cook them thoroughly. Anyway, she just sucked that taste, "It's cold, then add more ginger and chili." Don't worry, I'll just eat a little, it won't have an effect. ”
At the thought of spicy, she couldn't help but start salivating.