Is it a joy to be needed? When such a question is raised, some people may have an affirmative answer, saying that being needed is really a kind of happiness, and some people will feel that being needed is not a kind of happiness, and I think being needed is sometimes a kind of happiness, and sometimes it is not necessarily a kind of happiness.

In fact, I think it is also true, no matter what we do, there is a good side, there is also a bad side, we must recognize the good side of things, but also recognize the bad side, so that is an objective way to look at the problem.

Sometimes I feel that I am at home, being needed, is a happy and happy thing, people are also a very strange creature, at home by others, by their parents, by relatives, by brothers and sisters, by their children, so it is a very happy thing, sometimes people will still feel a sense of responsibility in the process of being needed, feel a kind of self-ability, sometimes feel that they are needed, but also a manifestation of a sense of existence, but sometimes only to find that we are needed is a very sad and sad thing, why do you feel like this？

Let's illustrate the problem with a small thing. I remember walking in the office, every time I would be stopped by others, saying, what kind of problem do I have, you help me, in fact, at the beginning, I felt, nothing, but after a long time, I found that it has become a kind of habitual thing, everyone has their own work, everyone has their own tasks, but I was troubled by such things, and then a colleague said a sentence, saying that being needed is a kind of happiness, but I found that in my own environment, in my work environment, being needed is not necessarily a very happy thing, sometimes it is a kind of trouble for myself, because some colleagues, There is nothing wrong with helping others, because you may be better in a certain aspect, others will be better than yourself in a certain aspect, help others once, others can also help yourself, people are mutual, although I understand this truth, and I hope to be able to appear in time when needed, to help others, but in the end I found that some people have no consciousness at all.

Very lazy, no matter whether you are free or not, no matter what you are doing? What he can do, he doesn't do it himself at all, every time he asks you to help him do something, he goes to rest for a while, for some such people, sometimes I find out that you help them is a wrong understanding of yourself, you don't help them, even if it ruins their face and ruins their feelings.

When I meet this kind of person, I will also be distressed, because I feel that I am needed, sometimes it is really a troublesome thing, you have free time to do what you like, do other things, but others have pulled you into his life circle, to his scope, and asked you to help him do his tasks and his things, and such things are obviously something he can do, not to ask you to do it, help and so on.

Or after saying a few words, I rejected him at once, I said that if you occasionally have a little problem to ask me for help, I will still be very enthusiastic, but you have something to do for me every day, I don't have so much time to help you, in fact, I said such a thing, I myself think it is very clear, very clear, and I am also a kind of rejection of others, sometimes I find that no matter who it is, you must learn to reject others, you will never know how to refuse others, you will find that you are in the unit, do a bad good person, and you are a bad good person, never do a good jobEvery time, I am always disturbed by others like this, disturbed by that, and sometimes I find that this need is really a kind of happiness?

When a colleague says such a point of view, being needed is a kind of happiness, in fact, I think it is not a joy to be needed in the unit, when they say this, they just put a high hat on you, hoping that you can help him do more things, and sometimes we will encounter all kinds of problems in the unit, when others give you a high hat, feel that you are good like this, that is good, in fact, you need to do things for him, I hope you help him, and when others think you can't do it, maybe you can be more relaxed, and sometimes in the unit or not too high-profile, or low-key betterEveryone wants to ask you for help, being needed, it's really not a kind of happiness, and then I feel that being needed has really become a very troublesome thing, so let's keep a low profile, hold yourself low, so there's nothing wrong with it, it's not that being needed is a kind of happiness, I don't agree with this point of view, maybe others think differently from me, but I have my own unique views, after such a thing is explained, maybe you will slowly understand my thoughts and my views, being needed is not necessarily a happiness, not being needed is not necessarily a sadnessSometimes, a person sits quietly, a person is lonely, enjoying a kind of loneliness, but also a kind of happiness, and sometimes, in such a lonely and lonely time, I can still quietly think about some of my own thoughts, but also to calm my mind for a while, so that I can live a quiet and happy life every day, instead of following the crowd, sometimes we are not competing with others, nor are we proving our existence in front of others, do we exist or not?

In fact, we are like a leaf, silently existing, silently doing what we want to do, so it is a kind of happiness, not necessarily the same as swaggering, and then I gradually denied the views of colleagues in this matter, being needed is not necessarily a kind of happiness, being needed is a very troubled and distressing thing, so in our real life, we still have to do our own work, about the tasks arranged by the leader or to do it seriously, for other colleagues, some can refuse or refuse, and not necessarily everyone needs you, that is your greatest happiness, that will only exhaust yourself to death, exhaust yourself。