Chapter 233: The Visiting Fleet (4)
"Political commissar, do you have something to do with me?" Although Qin Zheng is no longer in the army, the veteran officers are still used to calling him political commissar, and Ouyang Longxing used to be Qin Zheng's direct command subordinate, so he also respected Qin Zheng, and as soon as he heard that Qin Zheng was looking for him, he hurried to Qin Zheng's office.
Qin Zheng nodded, pointed to the sofa, and said with a smile: "Ouyang, sit down, don't be so polite, it's not a business for me to come to you today, it's a bit of a personal matter, so you don't have to be so restrained." Then he beckoned the secretary to pour a glass for Ouyang Longxing.
Ouyang Longxing was also a little inexplicable, and he didn't know what personal things Qin Zheng was looking for him, but he still sat on the sofa according to his words and said, "What personal things." ”
Qin Zheng said: "Ouyang, you are already 34 this year, I think you are not young, but you haven't started a family yet, have you ever considered starting a family?"
Ouyang Longxing only then understood a little, it seemed that he wanted to introduce himself to a person, and said: "This is not yet, you see that my work has only been on the road for a long time, and I haven't taken care of personal matters yet." But he was thinking in his heart, he didn't know who Qin Zheng would introduce to him, he knew that Qin Zheng had a daughter, but he had already married, and the children of Xia Bohai, Xiao Jianjun and others, who had a good relationship with Qin Zheng, had just been born, so they would definitely not be the daughters of this circle.
Qin Zheng said: "Then how to do it, although the career is important, the family is equally important, and the family and the career are not contradictory, after starting a family, the two of them support each other, and they can do a better career? ”
Ouyang Longxing said: "Not yet, you also know, now I work in an environment, it is difficult to find the right person!"
Qin Zheng said with a smile: "I have a candidate, I don't know if you are satisfied, in fact, you also know this person, it is Gao Jin." ”
Ouyang Longxing was stunned for a moment and said, "Mayor Gao?"
Qin Zheng said: "Yes! It's her." Although she is two years older than you, but the two of you are also the same age, together for a long time, I heard that you are not bad with each other, and you know each other, what kind of person she is, you should be very clear, so I won't say much, in short, if you can form a family, not only can you take care of each other in life, but also can support each other in your career, it should be very good. ”
Ouyang Longxing really didn't expect that the person introduced by Qin Zheng would be Gao Jin. It should be said that the two did get along well during the Jinzhou War, and Ouyang Longxing's impression of Gao Jin was also very good, shrewd and capable, both in command and dispatch and in the execution of affairs, the ability to do things was very strong, and it was delicate, the two got along for a long time, and they also talked about some private matters, which was quite an old friend. But Ouyang Longxing really didn't think about marriage, mainly because Ouyang Longxing was born in an armored army, and he basically sat on the cold bench in the past few years, and finally seized an opportunity during the Jinzhou War, he was bent on making some achievements, so he didn't think about personal problems at all. Of course, age is not too much of a problem in a man's marriage, so Ouyang Longxing is not in a hurry, always thinking that as long as his career improves, marriage can be solved at any time.
But Qin Zheng said it, Ouyang Longxing really thought about it seriously, his age is indeed not young, and his career has been somewhat successful so far, it is time to solve his personal problems and form a family at this time. Although Gao Jin's age is two years older than herself, she is also within a reasonable age gap between men and women. Needless to say, Gao Jin's career is also among the best in the middle, coupled with his mature temperament, he can definitely bring it out, of course, Ouyang Longxing does not have to find a young and beautiful daughter of a big family, so as the object of marriage, Gao Jin is indeed a suitable candidate. What's more, Ouyang Longxing also knows Gao Jin's family, this is known as the first family among the elders, and both officials and businessmen have great power, if he really forms a family with Gao Jin, it will definitely be of great help to his future career development. In addition, there is Qin Zheng's face here.
Ouyang Longxing is not a hairy young man after all, although he will not use marriage as an exchange of interests, but he must first think about the interests of marriage, after calculating clearly, Ouyang Longxing is not too hypocritical, and said: "Political commissar, you have said this step, I have no opinion, but I don't know what Mayor Gao's attitude is." ”
Qin Zheng said with a smile: "Of course, this kind of thing is first stated by the man, and it is impossible to find the woman to talk about it first." It's okay to feast on your side, so I'll go over and say, you can go back and wait for news first. ”
Of course, on Gao Jin's side, Qin Zheng is not easy to come forward, although he is an elder, but this is a proposal for the woman after all, so Zhou Ping came out to explain to Gao Jin.
After Gao Jin heard this, his first reaction was also surprise, but he immediately understood that the arrangements made by the family in the past few days were all intentional, so he hid it from himself. However, after listening to Zhou Ping's persuasion, Gao Jin can also understand the good intentions of his family, and after the last falling out, Gao Jin does not want to have any more conflicts with his family. It was Zhou Ping who persuaded her, even if she didn't think about herself, she had to think about her two daughters, could she just live alone with her two daughters, you must know that a complete family is very important for the healthy growth of children.
This sentence really touched Gao Jin, Bi Jing's own age was considered an older age even in the old time and space, let alone this era, so he began to seriously consider Zhou Ping's proposal.
And thinking about it seriously, Gao Jin also feels that Ouyang Longxing is indeed a suitable object, after all, he does not have much choice now, and Ouyang Longxing is the same age as himself, enterprising, and a soldier, in fact, Gao Jin is not a bachelor, but his vision is too high, and he refuses to put down the standard before it has been delayed until now, although Ouyang Longxing is not Gao Jin's most ideal marriage partner, but it is also above her bottom line, which is acceptable, so it is really past this village, and there is no such shop.
Of course, Gao Jin also calculated the benefits that the two could bring to themselves after forming a family, after all, at her age, of course, she doesn't have many romantic fantasies about marriage, and it is impossible to only talk about feelings and not reality. Although the Gao and Liu families are known as the first family of the patriarchs, and there are many members of the family, and now it is true that they are developing at the same time on both the political and business fronts, and have made considerable achievements, but there is a major flaw, that is, there is no one in the army. Although East China has a set of rules of conduct, which is not bigger than a fist, if there are no connections in the army, it is missing a piece after all.
And if Gao Jin and Ouyang Longxing form a family, it will undoubtedly make up for the biggest shortcomings of this family, although Ouyang Longxing is only a division commander now, but now East China is still in the war period, and the soldiers have room for development, not to mention that Ouyang Longxing's performance in the past two years has been good, and he has successively commanded the Jinzhou War and the Mongolian War, two wars that are not small in scale, so the future can still be expected. And from this point of view, the combination of the two still has huge benefits.
Gao Jin is not a little girl, and after weighing the pros and cons, she readily agreed. Both parties agreed, and the matter was basically settled, of course, the two parties still had to meet again and communicate again in person, after all, both of them also had their own requirements for marriage, of course, they still had to make things clear first. However, there is no need to trouble Qin Zheng this time, Gao Jin and Ouyang Longxing are both adults and know each other, so they can make an appointment with two people to meet and talk about it themselves.
And this meeting is indeed a little embarrassing, after all, the two were colleagues and friends before, and this time they are lovers, it is impossible to say that it is not embarrassing, so it is best to solve it between two people, the embarrassment is a little embarrassing, but there is no outsider present, and it is less embarrassing, and it is also conducive to the two of them to change their identities.
Of course, both of them are adults and have strong self-control, so after a few words, the atmosphere eased up, so both of them adjusted their mentality and officially confirmed the relationship between the couple. And a post-marital agreement was also reached very quickly. Now both of them have their own careers, and after getting married, no one will give up their careers, on the one hand, they must support each other in their careers, on the other hand, both parties must also spare a little energy to take care of the family, after all, the family is composed of two parties, and both parties also need to work together to operate, of course, the situation is still to be treated, Ouyang Longxing is a soldier, it is impossible to take care of the family like ordinary people, Gao Jin also said that it is understandable.
Gao Jin adopted two daughters, and this time they both planned to take them to Shenyang to live with him, Ouyang Longxing also expressed his support, and also promised that he would treat these two children as his own daughters and raise the two children with Gao Jin.
Finally, it is also the most realistic problem, that is, the two of their own children, although both are older men and women, but they are not too big, even if they form a family, having children is an unavoidable problem. Of course, this mainly depends on the woman's attitude, after all, the children have little influence on the man, so before getting married, it is natural to make it clear. In this regard, Gao Jin said that he does not force not to have children, but he does not chase after the need to have biological daughters, everything is natural, and at the same time, it is necessary to take into account the situation of the body. And Ouyang Longxing also said that he respected Gao Jin's choice.
In this way, all the issues have been agreed, and the marriage of the two can be regarded as formalized, and at the same time, it was decided to register the marriage immediately, after all, the two of them are not small, even if they are decided, they will not delay.
The Gao family is naturally willing, not to mention that they are afraid of long nights and dreams, so they want to get married, and they all have one less heart disease. Therefore, they immediately began to prepare for the wedding, and at the same time, the Executive Yuan and the Military Commission also gave the two of them a one-month vacation each, so that they had enough time to complete the wedding.