Chapter 687:

Boarding school?

Han Zihe was stunned when he heard this.

She was a quick responder, and it didn't take much thought to know why the kid was saying that.

Sometimes, being "grabbed" to receive it is also a kind of harm.

Compare your heart to your heart, and anyone who hears others in the gossip of others and benevolently accepts themselves, I am afraid that my heart will not feel good.

It was a complex feeling that deepened the sadness of being abandoned and the ugly relationship of being sold like a commodity.

But in the general environment, it is a benefactor.

This kind of feeling of shame and humiliation that cannot be avoided is difficult for many adults and people to accept, let alone a child who has just turned 10 years old.

Thinking of this, Han Zihe also felt a little ashamed, she wanted to be good to this child, in fact, it was more because she wanted to repay Han Zimai's kindness, as well as her pity for this child.

She also understands that for people with high self-esteem, pity is superfluous, even hurtful, and even worse, insulting.

Although she kept saying that she wanted to bring this child with her, she did not see this child as a real equivalent at all.

Perhaps, the kind of good she wants to pay is also a kind of pressure for Han Pin...... Or rather, unnecessary charity......

Han Zihe, who wanted to understand this, fixed his mind, looked at Han Pin, who was still sobbing, and then looked at his son who was a little unclear.

She asked herself, what would she do if Han Pin was her own son?

Since he plans to take it with him, he can't be too biased in his feelings for the two children, otherwise, it's better to leave it alone like his second brother.

Han Zihe didn't hesitate in her heart, or put this child in front of her eldest brother and sister-in-law, she only needs to contribute some money every month to help them reduce their burden...... After all, raising other people's children is too much responsibility, and it is not easy to fall well.

However, look at Han Pin's big moist eyes, look at his sensitive heart...... She really didn't worry about him.

It is true that the sister-in-law's character will definitely be good for Korean products.

But to be good to a person, it is not only about material giving, but also about emotional and spiritual communication.

Han Zihe's personality and personality of Han Pin can also see something - this child is far from being as wooden and cowardly as he seems, this child is very concerned and too introverted, and he will not take the initiative to communicate with anyone...... In other words, the life under the fence will make him more cautious in his words and deeds.

And her sister-in-law also has her own children to take care of, Han Miao's girl itself is a bunch of things, this child has just been admitted to college, because he is not satisfied with the major, plus he fought with the counselor, he actually cut first and then played, he dropped out of school and re-enrolled;

In other words, since junior high school, Han Ya has to start participating in various tutoring classes to pave the way for himself to go to a prestigious school in advance.

These two children were originally the hearts of the eldest brother and sister-in-law, whether it was Han Miao, who was very happy to toss, or Han Ya, who was not particularly good in terms of rules, it would be where the sister-in-law concentrated.

In this environment, her sister-in-law will not pay much attention to Han Pin, and her eldest brother is also in the rising period of his career, and the work of business trips and inspections is so frequent that it is good to be able to go home for an average of two or three days a week.

In this way, Han Pin's study and life cannot help but worry Han Zihe.

After all, he didn't grow up here, and to put it mildly, this kid shouldn't have seen much of the world since he was a child, and even the classmates he was about to make were not the same age.

Unfamiliar environment, unfamiliar conditions, and classmates who don't match each other...... All these things, it's hard to say that it doesn't put pressure on this child.

If you have something on your mind and don't say it, this is not conducive to the correction and reshaping of the child's personality and personality.

In addition, he has not gone through the preliminary study, and as soon as he reads school, if he can't keep up, he can't compare to the children younger than him in the class, will he be bored of school? In case, if he is bullied in school, will it cause a psychological shadow?......

Han Zihe thought about it a lot, and the more he thought about it, the more he felt that this child had to be taken care of.

"Auntie......" Han Pin saw that Han Zihe's face changed and changed, and he was a little nervous, he called her softly, gently biting his lower lip, and said, "It's not that I don't know what to do, I know that my grandfather, uncle, aunt, and uncle are all for my good...... However, I can't be a person who intrudes into other people's homes and disrupts the rhythm of other people's lives! The more people treat me, the more I should learn to be independent, independent, and self-reliant!"

The more he spoke, the more determined his eyes became: "Auntie, I know that you all feel sorry for me, but you should also believe that I can struggle to survive before, so it makes no sense that after I find the relatives who love me and love me, I will still make a mess of my life."

I once heard the teacher in the electric box say that people, whether adults or children, must know that their own life is ultimately responsible for themselves.

I can't let myself be a factor that disrupts the laws of other people's lives! I want to do it, and I should also be the one who makes everyone happy because of me!

Auntie, you can help me talk to my grandmother and uncle, send me to boarding school, I will seize the opportunity, study hard and grow up, and be a good child who will be happy for everyone!"

Han Pin's words poked Han Zihe's heart again, which made her feel sad for a while.

"Good boy, I understand what you mean...... But you don't understand, as a child, no matter how capable you are, you shouldn't support everything by yourself! Otherwise, it will be a failure of us adults!"

Han Zihe smiled crookedly, took Han Pin's little hand and rubbed it: "Maybe everyone's words and deeds hurt you before, if it makes you sad, I'm really sorry...... However, child, you must understand that there are some things and some pains, and we must rather let them hurt completely, but also tear them up clearly, which is love and care for you, and it is also responsible for you and everyone. ”

"This is the meaning of 'ugly words come first!'" Zhan Zhan saw that his little cousin had asked his mother to say something confused, so he simply took the initiative to take on the responsibility of translation, and took the initiative to lean over and stuff his little hand into his mother's other hand.

"Oh!" Han Pin finally put away his dazedness when he heard his little brother say this, and nodded in understanding.

"Do you remember what I told you about 'adoption'?"

As soon as Han Zihe mentioned this, Han Pin's little face turned white again.

Chapter 688:

"Don't be nervous!" Han Zihe saw that the child's little face was pale, and quickly patted him on the back to let him relax, "Pinpin, have you ever heard of the term 'guardian'?"

Because she knew that this child had never studied, Han Zihe couldn't tell him what he knew about some common sense, and their little broken child Zhan Zhan was eccentric, and she knew a little bit about everything, so she didn't know what the cognitive level of these children was like now.

"Yes. Han Pin nodded, he had heard it on the radio.

"That's good. Han Zihe nodded and told him, "You are back now, even if you are raised in your grandfather's house, the real guardian is still your biological parents, that is, Zhan Zhan's third aunt and third aunt." And, how much do you know about their attitudes......

Therefore, everyone thought, just simplify the complicated, don't let you be wronged in front of them, and don't put obstacles in the way of future things, simply, let them make a reversal of your guardianship, and ask your guardianship to us.

Well, the problem is, if they give birth to you, whether they are right or not, if you want to get your custody back, you have to go through a formal 'adoption' procedure, and at the same time, clarify everyone's relationship, and mark your future responsibilities and obligations clearly.

In this way, you will not be embarrassed in the future - this is also a piece of hard work for your grandmother and grandfather. Although it will make you uncomfortable emotionally, my aunt hopes that you will think about it intellectually, choose a choice, and try not to disappoint everyone. ”

Han Zihe's words, hearing Han Pin's ears, were quite touched.

He didn't expect his grandpa to do this for him!

He is used to seeing the warmth and coldness of people, and he didn't think that his grandfather would quarrel with his own flesh and blood for the sake of him, an outsider of the next generation.

He thought that he would be willing to face an awkward relationship and grow up awkwardly in the future.

But now, his aunt told him that they were willing to help him free himself from his parents who didn't want him, and that he could get rid of the series of troubles he had already planned in the future!

This...... It almost made him want to cry!

Han Zihe looked at the tears flashing in Han Pin's eyes, and also showed a faint smile: "Pinpin, how can I say it, my aunt has indeed been rushing to raise you with your uncle recently...... I also know that you may not have a good feeling when you hear this...... Auntie, I also understand you very well, after all, the behavior of 'good for you' can sometimes be embarrassing.

However, although your grandparents love you, they are the next generation after all, and they will definitely spoil you in the name of 'compensation'...... Doting, although the original intention is good, but the result is unpredictable, my aunt doesn't want you to become like you don't know one day.

And boys, it's better to follow the middle-aged men. This point, whether it is your eldest uncle or your younger brother-in-law, is a good choice.

This is the consensus between me and your uncle...... And our disagreement is who has the best to take you with you. ”

Han Zihe tried to bring Han Pin to an equal level, and spoke clearly to him in the tone of talking to his peers.

This kind of "equivalence" dialogue makes Han Pin feel respected.

"Pinpin, because this involves your future, so my aunt respects your emotions and thoughts and discusses with you...... However, my aunt hopes that when this matter passes, you can still be a happy child and live and study simply...... Those responsibilities in your life, or let us adults deal with them, okay?"

Han Zihe saw through his careful words, which made Han Pin a little embarrassed.

However, Han Pin, who knew that others had to answer what they said, still nodded with a red face.

"Then let's move on. Han Zihe glared at Zhan Zhan, who was about to shame his little cousin, and after glaring at the little guy honestly, she said in a soft voice, "Your eldest uncle is the boss of this family, so he has a special sense of responsibility, and he regards you as his responsibility."

And your aunt is also a very nice person, and she is also willing to take you to live with her.

It's just that your two sisters have reached the critical period of study, and your uncle's career has also entered a stage of rapid development, so everyone will give you a good living environment, but, relatively, attention will be limited. This is not anyone's fault, but the situation.

Pinpin, my aunt said that, can you understand?"

"Yes!" Han Pin nodded.

Han Zihe said "um", and said, "Auntie wants to bring you back to City B...... First, you didn't have much foundation in learning before, and now you have the courage to insert classes and enroll, I'm afraid you can't keep up with everyone's pace, after all, the children in the first grade now also have a corresponding foundation. In this way, it will also make a difference in the teacher's teaching progress. And you, I'm afraid that under the teacher's accelerated teaching progress, it will be a little difficult to learn. ”

Han Zihe's words made Han Pin uneasy.

When Zhan Zhan saw it, he hurriedly grabbed him and comforted him in a low voice: "It's okay, don't forget, you and my little cousin are plug-ins!"

Han Zihe looked at the two little guys who had a good interaction, smiled lightly, didn't care about them, and said lightly: "Your little cousin didn't make it to the first grade this time, and he has to go to preschool again next, so if you want, you happen to be in the same class as your little cousin...... Preschool is not a formal school, relatively speaking, the environment is more relaxed, the time is more free, and with your little cousin by your side to help you, you are so smart, when the school starts again, you will not have to struggle to enter the first grade of primary school. ”

"That's right, little cousin, you just agree to come down and come with us! We have a lot of war, fighting, and materials at home! There are also a lot of friends for us to dispatch!" Zhan Zhan shook Han Pin's thin arm and strongly fought for him, "Don't you also want to be an excellent soldier like my father! Then you have to go with us, there are not many other things in our military compound, but they are rich in soldiers!"

"Start talking nonsense again!" Han Zihe knocked the little guy, "Just talk well, use serious words, don't find a chance to start dragging words again!"

"I'm not wrong!" Zhan Zhan muttered, and shook Han Pin energetically to make him agree.

Han Pin listened to his little cousin's words, and the balance in his heart began to tilt.

Originally, he had an inexplicable sense of intimacy with his aunt, relatively speaking, of course, he preferred to live with his aunt, after all, his aunt was more in line with his mother's vision.

But......

He knew that it was difficult to get a hukou in the capital, and his eldest brother in the same village who was the top county in the county was also a temporary hukou, so it was difficult to really settle down.

And he didn't want his aunt's family to be embarrassed by him.

"Eh, why are you girls sitting here......? Little sister, don't you know? Our third child is back too...... Speaking of which, you two sisters haven't seen each other for a while, haven't you? Why don't you go over and take a look?" Tian Yun didn't know how to find it, and just before Han Pin could speak, he ran over, looking like he was watching a good show, and said with a smile.

(To be continued.) )