Chapter 821:

"Xiao Han, I heard that you have had a very unpleasant quarrel with Chu Zheng recently?" He Zhixiang looked at Han Zihe with a smile, "I even heard that the two of you are about to get divorced?...... I don't think so, you see, there is something wrong with this Chu family, Xiao Chen'er went to look for you, and it didn't take much effort to invite you, it can be seen that you are still thinking about Chu Zheng in your heart!"

"......" Han Zihe heard it, and went to the house with Chen Duo to find her, and there was still an element to test her?

"Don't blame me for being in charge! I think, maybe in your heart, how you and Chu Zheng are, that's the matter of the two of you, it's your family's private matter, and I, an outsider, shouldn't be involved, right?" He Zhixiang still asked with a smile. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

But Han Zihe couldn't listen to it with a smile.

"Xiao Han, what I want to say is that now this society is becoming more and more impetuous, and the marriage of young people is gradually becoming the norm...... This kind of thing, people of our age don't like it, but it's okay, after all, how to live is everyone's own freedom, and others can't interfere. However, Xiao Han, your marriage is not just a private matter between you and Chu Zheng, because Chu Zheng is not an ordinary person, he is a soldier who protects his family and defends the country!"

He Zhixiang sighed: "Just like the two of you get married, and he Chu Zheng wants to apply to the army, even if it is a divorce, he has to get the application for me! Xiao Han, I will give you a reason, even if he dares to take out the divorce application, I dare to tear him up on the spot! For no other reason, the two of you have an emotional foundation, and there is no emotional breakdown, and there is nothing else that cannot forgive anyone! It's just that the moral character of his family is flawed, do you want to deny him completely? You haven't considered your own true feelings, have you ever cared about Chu Zheng's feelings?

Can he take it?...... Xiao Han, you and Chu Zheng are not newlyweds anymore, you have a certain understanding of his work, his work is not simple, it requires full dedication and no distractions, and the warmth and harmony of the family will play a positive and upward impetus for his work and contribution to the country.

On the contrary, a discordant married life, or, to put it more colloquially, he is awkward, and what he thinks in his mind and heart is how to redeem you, how to be aggrieved, how to be wronged, naturally unnatural, intentional or unintentional, will have an impact on his work.

Xiao Han, you know, often a small carelessness can easily make him unable to come back...... And that is what you would like to see?"

Having said this, He Zhixiang breathed a long sigh of relief and said earnestly: "Why do we call military wives great people in our propaganda? It's not just that military wives are more willing to be lonely and willing to make contributions than ordinary wives; more importantly, the existence of you, the military wives, while warming your husbands, makes the country's sharp blades more restrained and steady, and accumulates energy! And soldiers who have no worries about the future will be more thorough and more all-out in devoting themselves to the defense of the country and the people, and will make contributions to the family and the country...... And among them, behind our praise, you are accompanied by loneliness, grievance, and self-reliance. ”

"Xiao Han! I'm not biased towards my own soldiers, if it's really Chu Zheng who does something sorry for you, or he's a bastard! You don't need to say it, I'll kick him first, and then carry him to sign with you! Really, I always do what I say! However, I'm here to ask, Xiao Han, is Chu Zheng sorry for you? Or, emotionally, if you dig him out, don't you hurt?"

He Zhixiang's words silenced Han Zihe.

Two people have lived for a long time, and the love between them is still strong in time, but what they have with each other is not only love, but also family affection like a trickling stream, accumulating feelings in life.

Living happily together until now, there is not only a Zhan Zhan between her and Chu Zheng, but more importantly, you have me and I have your fusion.

That kind of fusion of the mutual influence of the spiritual world, until now, how can it not hurt if it is suddenly said to be peeled off?

What she wants to do is just cut through the mess quickly, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

It's just that after she forced her reason out, she could just stop the loss in time.

I don't know if it was the subconscious evasion before, or the fact that she had never been married in her previous life and had no experience in dealing with military marriages, so she just had a concept in theory and accidentally ignored her divorce from Chu Zheng, and she had to pass the report.

Obviously, He Zhixiang, as the approver of the report, did not agree to their divorce.

said that it was just a formality, how could she be serious when she came here? ← Han Zihe's always firm heart suddenly cracked for no reason.

Whether to kick Chu Zheng away or not, this is a question!

He Zhixiang didn't mind Han Zihe's silence at all, in his opinion, the situation of silence was nothing more than not listening, self-avoidance, nothing to say, and being shaken.

Considering his previous understanding of Han Zihe, as well as his understanding of his subordinates and his own eloquence, He Zhixiang believes that he has reason to believe that Han Zihe's silence is actually a vacillation of the decisions he made before!

"Xiao Han, after saying the righteous words, let's talk about the clichés, if you want to divorce, have you ever thought about children? The growth of children is inseparable from the company of their biological parents!" He Zhixiang continued to play the emotional card, "Even if a man and a woman are arranged to take care of the children like a normal family, unless the children do not know the truth, they will not be able to grow up as healthily as the children of a normal family......

I'm not exaggerating! Xiao Han, you are a learned person, you should be able to distinguish between what I said is true and false, whether it is reasonable or not, and whether it is ?...... I know that when the child is lost, you are anxious, and you don't cry and make trouble, because you have a strong psychological quality! However, have you ever thought that after the child comes back safely, in the face of a broken family, the child asks for a father, what do you say?

If the child asks you, "Mom, where is Daddy?" Why don't you come home, why don't you live with us? What do you say?...... When the child grows up and knows that you decided to divorce Chu Zheng after the child disappeared, what will he think? Do you want him to feel guilty for the rest of his life?

What's more, don't think that Zhan Zhan is only more than six years old, he is really just a child, not to mention that he is a little person, he is an ordinary child outside, and he has trouble in his heart at a young age! You and Chu Zheng are unhappy and not harmonious, the child sees it in his eyes, and his heart is clear!"

Chapter 822:

This can easily cause great harm to the child's body and mind, and have an impact on the child's outlook on life, worldview, values, and even marriage, and can easily cause the child's concept to be extreme or deformed, which is not conducive to the child's happy and sunny growth.

You also know that a person's character formation has a crucial impact on his life, and an unsound family will have an unstable and unstable impact on a child's character formation and personality journey...... The shortcomings that can be seen clearly are not terrible, but the terrible ones are the defects that cannot be seen and touched, but they may erupt at any time in the shadows!

Many children who go astray come from unsound families! Both the father and mother of the child have an unshirkable responsibility and indispensable influence on the child's growth.

Have you ever thought about it? If one day, Zhan Zhan will become a ...... because of the separation of the two of you? Xiao Han, don't think what I said is unpleasant or unlucky, let me ask you, if Zhan Zhan becomes the opposite of Chu Zheng's military identity one day, what will you do? How will you face him? How can you let Chu Zheng face him?

People can't give themselves problems, they can't put obstacles in their way!

Good guy, He Zhixiang really deserves to be a political commissar, and this gushing persuasion has turned out to be from righteousness to subtleties, from Zhan Zhan's growth, to the fact that he has become a dangerous and dangerous element because of their divorce!

Although Han Zihe doesn't like to listen to He Zhixiang's words very much, she is not a person who can't listen to people's words, and she is deeply shocked by the possibilities given by He Zhixiang that she doesn't want to hear.

Yes, she doesn't even want to think about this possibility now, and she can't wait to vent violently, so what should she do if one day, if this is really possible?

"Xiao Han! I have also cared about the crux of the problem between you and Chu Zheng, I think there is no problem between you and him, and there is no fundamental contradiction! Then, what exists between you and him, and what makes you feel unwilling to entangle, or even tired, is the Chu family, right?"

The more He Zhixiang spoke, the more confident he became, and he said: "I once understood that the Chu family once robbed Zhan Zhan of his place in school?...... Well, from what I've seen, their family is really not authentic. But I also know that although that incident made you stay away from the Chu family, it didn't cause an emotional rift between the two of you, and you plan to divorce, should it just be angry? Or, more appropriately, in fact, you desperately want to get rid of the trouble, a one-size-fits-all move, right?"

"If that's the case, I think I can make a promise to you!" He Zhixiang's words made Han Zihe raise her head in confusion, she didn't understand why He Zhixiang had the confidence to make a guarantee for Chu Zheng.

"Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to guarantee you for Chu Zheng!" He Zhixiang saw the puzzlement in Han Zihe's eyes, and immediately explained with a smile, "I am making a guarantee with you in the identity of Chu Zheng's leader, in the name of the army!

First of all, the entry and exit of our military subordinate area is indeed too strict, I have discussed it with the relevant leaders, and the corresponding measures and regulations will soon be introduced, requiring that the entry and exit personnel must have entry and exit documents, otherwise, even if it is a relative, they can only go to the rest room and wait for the people from the military subordinate area to pick them up. ”

He made it clear to Han Zihe that it would not be easy for Chu's father and mother to come to their home in the military area at will in the future.

"Secondly, I will do a certain amount of education and criticism of Chu Zheng, as a man, in dealing with the relationship between his wife and his parents, he can't completely use compromise, evasion, and two-faced coaxing as a means, he should distinguish between right and wrong, and there should be a bottom line! At least, it can't make good people sad and sad, right?"

He was obviously angry with Han Zihe when he said this, although Han Zihe also knew that he couldn't be completely true, but he felt a lot more comfortable.

"Of course, the most important thing is that we can guarantee that if Chu Zheng's methods, or your alienation, make the second elder of the Chu family dissatisfied and make trouble with the troops, our leaders still have the ability to discriminate, and will not have a bad impression of Chu Zheng or deal with it because they will cry and make a loud noise...... Hehe, of course, I think you and Chu Zheng should also have confidence in our troops and leaders! Not to mention Chu Zheng's previous achievements, it is himself, his knowledge, experience, level, ability, and his rarity as a talent, the troops are all fully cared for, maintained, and protected!"

He Zhixiang's words surprised Han Zihe, she didn't expect He Zhixiang to be able to guarantee to such a point.

She believed that the political commissar of the army would not be too open-mouthed, and she also believed that they cherished talents, but when he said this, he really drove her to the shelf, so that she would not waver.

"Xiao Han, you should relax a little bit, don't be too psychologically stressed. He Zhixiang said almost everything, and then smiled again, "You should also think about what I said, adults, if you get married and have children, you can't still be as willful as a child, you can't think too much about yourself, you have to think about your parents, think about your children, and take on the corresponding social responsibilities...... But there is no way, what should be paid still has to be paid, after all, the temporary awkwardness endured, in exchange for long-term happiness and family happiness...... Although we are not businessmen, this deal, if you think about it, anyone will think it is a good deal, right?"

Hehe, all the good and bad things have been said by him, Han Zihe nodded his head, what else can he say?

However, what he said did make Han Zihe think unconsciously.

It is estimated that the strength has passed, and Han Zihe's reason has returned to its place, so she can also consider some things calmly.

Biruo, is she really unable to get along with Chu Zheng?

Biruo, how does she face Zhan Zhan's possible questions in the future?

If she insists on separating from Chu Zheng so much, will her parents continue to worry about it?

Biru, after she did this, what was the next step?

For example, after she and Chu Zheng divorced, will Zhan Zhan's growth really be affected? Will Han Pin also secretly blame himself?

Biruo, she is really separated from Chu Zheng, she will ...... in the future Will you regret it?

(To be continued.) )