Li Muyu waved his hand and stopped Liu Yuemei's self-humility: "Yuemei, this is not a compliment, but a heartfelt word." ”

Li Muyu paused, as if he was considering how to express it more appropriately: "We all know that parents' words and deeds have a great impact on children, but we don't understand that people have a long way to grow, and they will suffer a lot when they become adults.

In the final analysis, it is enough to love life: never forget to work hard, and enjoy life anytime, anywhere.

And what is life? Life is a porridge and a meal that is not easy to come by, love life, start from preparing a porridge and a meal with heart, start from coarse tea and light rice with ingenuity, and start from hard work and not taking shortcuts.

Your husband and wife have done a special job in these two aspects, your home has a taste and temperature, can let children see the true face of life, can give children a real sense of belonging, such a home, in order to educate a sound personality, optimistic children, and these two qualities, is the foundation of the healthy development of children's life.

So I really admire you, what you and your wife have done, many of us can't do, so a lot of highly educated intellectuals, a lot of well-off people, are very bad at educating children......"

Li Muyu has something to say, he has a lot of emotion, but it is inconvenient to say it at this time, although his relationship with Shen Jiaying has come to an end early on, but saying bad things about her in front of outsiders has never been something he can do.

Since he and Shen Jiaying got married, she has never cooked, saying that she can't cook and is too lazy to learn.

Li Muyu is the youngest son at home, his eldest brother has already moved out with his wife and children, Shen Jiaying can't cook, Li Muyu didn't think it was a big problem at first, his mother had good tea and rice, and he also wanted to live with his younger son's family.

But soon after getting married, Shen Jiaying felt that she was not free to live with Li Muyu's parents, and felt that her mother-in-law often taught her how to do things, which was very annoying.

After making trouble a few times, Li Muyu's parents were very discouraged and thought of helping them get a house near Shen Jiaying's workplace and let them live alone.

At that time, Li Muyu was still in graduate school, and she could only go home on weekends, Shen Jiaying usually went to the restaurant or ate at her mother's house, and waited for Li Muyu to come back to cook for her on weekends.

Li Muyu felt that this was not the way to go, and persuaded her to learn to cook: "Jiaying, you are not ambitious, your work is to eat together, I can't be like you, you also hope that I can make a career, right?"

But if I want to make a career, I will not have time to go home and cook for you often, what should you do now when you go down to the restaurant and go back to your parents' house?

But Shen Jiaying didn't listen to him at all, and said in a heartfelt voice: "I have a child, my mother and my mother will take care of me! Can I and the child still be hungry? I'm afraid to go into the kitchen, don't force me!"

In this way, Shen Jiaying insisted on not going to the kitchen, after she became pregnant, her mother was afraid that she would be malnourished, so she came over to help her cook for more than half a year, and after giving birth, her mother-in-law Lu Rumin came over to help her cook for half a year, and as soon as the child was weaned, Lu Rumin took the child home with her, and Shen Jiaying continued to go to the restaurant everywhere.

The child is at his parents' place, and on weekends, Li Muyu goes back to his parents to see the children, and does not go back to their small home at all......

But what man likes to go back to that home with an ice pot and a cold stove? He and Shen Jiaying don't have much in common, and she is pointing fingers everywhere in life, training him to cook and do housework all day long, and wants to train him to be a wife slave, how can he be such a man?

The two became colder and colder, and later because Li Muyu wanted to be a scholar and refused to take the career path, Shen Jiaying was even more annoyed, and after countless quarrels between the two, the relationship was already in jeopardy.

But because of Li Sihan, for the sake of the child, the two barely maintained, and later because of one incident, Li Muyu's parents were completely chilled by her, and decided not to help her take care of the child anymore.

Li Sihan is two years older than Li Sizhi, the two go to the same kindergarten, Li Sizhi is excellent everywhere, as soon as she arrives in kindergarten, she becomes a popular figure, participates in competitions everywhere and wins awards everywhere, with her as a comparison, her brother who is two years older than her is too mediocre.

Shen Jiaying, although she doesn't work hard to do anything, she has a strong nature, seeing that her niece is so good, she blames Li Muyu's parents for not being able to teach their children, delaying the development of their children, Li Sihan is very smart when he is young!

The parents told Li Muyu about Shen Jiaying's complaints, and Li Muyu had to talk to Shen Jiaying in person, persuading her to open more, boys are happy late, and it is normal for girls to be inferior to girls after hours, so that she should not compete needlessly.

Then she bought a bunch of preschool education books, asked Lu Rumin to supervise the children's studies every day, and enrolled the children in five interest classes, so that the elderly could pick up and drop off the children to study every day.

Li Boxia is a very principled person, and he will never use the bus to pick up and drop off his children, so Lu Rumin can only take the bus every day to pick up and drop off his children to interest classes, so he insisted on it for half a year, Lu Rumin was tired every day, but Shen Jiaying was still very dissatisfied, blaming Li Sihan for not making much progress!

It happened that Li Sihan should go to elementary school, Lu Rumin was discouraged, and clearly said to Shen Jiaying: "I am old, my education level is also low, I can't tutor the child, the child follows me, I'm afraid it will delay him, or you take it personally!"

Shen Jiaying had no choice but to take the children herself, she never thought of changing her lifestyle, she still didn't cook, and often took her children to restaurants and roadside stalls...... Because of her lifestyle, Li Sihan was rushed to the hospital because of eating bad things, and it happened six or seven times in a year!

He was completely disappointed in her at that time, and he wanted to divorce, and when he couldn't leave, he avoided Shen Jiaying as much as possible and ignored Li Sihan's growth, which was the thing he regretted the most in his life......

Later, by mistake, they did not divorce after all, after having Li Siyi, he went home a little more often, once he came back from other places, it was already more than six o'clock in the evening, Shen Jiaying bought dumplings for the two children from outside, and the two children said that they were tired of eating every day, and Shen Jiaying was so angry that they were hungry!

As soon as he entered the house, he found that the atmosphere at home was not right, Shen Jiaying was angry in the bedroom, and Li Sihan saw him come back and immediately ran to his sister's room.

He followed up and saw five-year-old Li Siyi, skillfully soaking instant noodles......

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