As you grow older, hypocrisy seems to have become an ability, those who are too sincere, too real, and can't lie seem to have become synonymous with offending people, but when you are hypocritical every time, others can easily see it, sometimes think about it, it's not that people don't see it, but people see through it and don't say it, many things are like a layer of window paper, when it is pierced, both sides are embarrassed, but when both sides are pretending to be stupid, it is not an embarrassment.

This is hypocrisy, you know it clearly, and others also know it clearly, the problem is that in front of interpersonal communication, no one is stupid, every time you deceive others into secretly having fun, maybe others have already seen through you, but people don't say it explicitly, but secretly say you behind your back, and secretly scold you behind your back.

In life, between people, what you give, what you get, this is certain, there is no criticism, this is what people often say, plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans.

If you want to plant beans and get melons, or plant melons and get beans, it is impossible, this is the most authentic truth, when you are hypocritical to others, what you gain will also be hypocritical, when you pay sincerely, what you get will also be sincere.

So in front of others, or when you get along alone, please think about it every time, how to treat others, how to get along with others, what kind of mentality should we interact with others, this is what we must face in the process of growing up, not only you, all people will face the problem, as the saying goes, people with high emotional intelligence can do better, in order to be like a fish in water in the workplace, this is the truth, people get along with each other is part of emotional intelligence, when you appear in front of others with a hypocritical posture every timeI think others will definitely return this hypocrisy to you, at any time, sooner or later, this is every process in life, no matter how soon you realize the problem, you will face it.

So in real life, if you want to get the sincerity that others give you, first give others sincerity, want to get others to give you touch, first give others to be moved, this is the simplest, but also the most practical philosophy of life, if you have some luck psychology, think that you can be hypocritical in exchange for sincerity, I think such an idea may be just a moment of luck, or it may be just a moment of good luck, and can not get the test of time for a long time, you and others before the relationship will also be an instant evaporation of the kind of it, that is, face to face is very enthusiastic, but behind the back, there is nothing to do with the feeling of not knowing each other。

Therefore, if you want to have a long-term relationship with others, you still have to face others sincerely, pay sincerely, and treat others sincerely, so that you will gain sincerity, and harvest the enthusiasm and care given to you by others, and such feelings will be long-lasting.

But I have written so much, it is just a little bit of my personal opinion, and it is also a little experience I have gained in my 30 years of life, which is not necessarily practical for anyone, but it is still very practical for many people, and I hope that those who see it can have some insights, so I share it for your reference.