38: Fingering

Fan Sicheng was flattered and found that he seemed to have made a mistake again, because Chen Meiling was at home by herself, although it was a subordinate relationship, but a man and a woman cooking at home seemed to be very intriguing.

"Chen Zhen, you're at home. Fan Sicheng reminded Chen Meiling.

"We don't live with my parents, and although he is in business, he is also busy with your business at the end of the year. Gift-giving, a custom that has been practiced for thousands of years, is no exception. Chen Meiling smiled and said, "You, don't worry that I want you to cook, don't worry, we'll go out to eat later." ”

"No, no, in fact, I am willing to show Chen Zhen when I have the opportunity, I still have two stir-fried dishes. "Fan Sicheng wants to slap his mouth after he finishes speaking, stupid, if she says yes, she wants to try your craft today, isn't it asking for trouble.

"Okay, I'll try your two shots when I get a chance. Chen Meiling pointed to the tea on the coffee table and said. "Let's have tea, it's still early, let's talk and then go to dinner." ”

"Yes, the leader you instructed. Fan Sicheng sat on his knees.

Chen Meiling chuckled and said, "What are you doing? This is home, you don't have to be so restrained, and don't want me to be a leader and treat me as a sister, okay? Let's talk casually." ”

"Oh, that sister, you say. Although Fan Sicheng's title has changed, his sitting posture is still flat and straight.

"Do all the soldiers sit like this? Don't you feel tired?" Chen Meiling finally thought that Fan Sicheng was a soldier, and the people who were soldiers sat like this.

"Get used to it. Fan Sicheng smiled and said.

There are some habits that can accompany you for a lifetime, and many people see being a soldier as a waste of time, and this kind of person must be a corrupt person. In fact, there are many excellent qualities that people who have been trained in the team can definitely not have that people who have not entered the barracks.

"Secretary Guo and the district town are going to go home?" Chen Meiling said after taking a sip of tea.

"I've been there, and I came to you just after I came out of Secretary Guo's house. Fan Sicheng said.

"Oh, who are you going to go to?" Chen Meiling said casually.

Fan Sicheng scratched his head and said: "I just joined the work, and there are only a few people I know, I only plan to go to the homes of a few leaders to express holiday greetings." ”

"Sometimes you can succeed in doing work without hard work, although it is not advisable or even forbidden to go through relationships. However, friendship with colleagues and care from superiors and subordinates is always required. Therefore, knowing how to have a good relationship with colleagues and knowing how to report ideas to the boss in a timely manner is a sign of maturity. Chen Meiling paused, refilled Fan Sicheng's tea and continued, "However, everything is two-sided, if you don't know how to deal with it, whether it is to contact friendship or report thoughts, not only will the friendship not be obtained, and the ideological report will be fruitless, but it will also backfire, and you will not be able to eat mutton and be ashamed." ”

When Fan Sicheng heard this, he was a little dumbfounded, will gifts still bring disaster? Gifts will indeed give disasters, and how many people will cut them on giving and receiving gifts.

He was very shocked, and then asked Chen Meiling very sincerely.

Chen Meiling was very optimistic about Fan Sicheng, so she didn't hide it, and pointed: "Have you prepared anything for Yu Xinmin, and ah, you must have completely forgotten the People's Armed Forces Department where you once stayed." Huang Huiwu is your old boss, and you shouldn't forget about him. There are some people who seem to have little to do with it now, but their words may carry a lot of weight in front of some people? At a critical time, if he says a good or a bad word in front of an important person, the result may be completely different. Moreover, this kind of courtesy exchange is not only for the recipient to see, but also for others to see. If you haven't forgotten the old leaders who stayed for a while, everyone will think that you are a person who misses the old days, a person who is affectionate and righteous. ”

gave Huang Huiwu a New Year's gift, Mo said that Fan Sicheng didn't expect that even Deng Xianwen had missed this person. Fan Sicheng knew that Chen Meiling would not harm him, and the advice given to him would definitely be good for him, so he gladly accepted her suggestion, but he felt a little resistant to giving Yu Xinmin a New Year's gift. Since he came to work in the Economic Construction Office, this Deputy Director Yu has not only never supported his work, but also never given a good face, and from time to time he has made stumbling blocks and giving New Year's gifts to such people, he is really not happy.

How could Fan Sicheng's expression be hidden from Chen Meiling's eyes, she smiled and said, "Do you think it's a little uncomfortable to give Yu Xinmin a New Year's gift?"

"You know, he never supported my work. Fan Sicheng said.

"I know, not only that, but he also stumbles on you from time to time, and often beats your little reports. But, in any case, he is the deputy director of the Economic and Construction Office, and you are his subordinate. He doesn't support your work, it's his fault as a boss, and of course he doesn't have the strength to stumble you. However, if you give a gift to anyone in this traditional festival, but you don't give it to him, others will only say that you are ignorant, disrespectful to your boss, and have no affection. Chen Meiling pointed out.

Fan Sicheng thought for a while, and finally nodded in agreement with Chen Meiling's opinion.

"It's good to understand, you have to be careful in everything in the system, you have to pay attention to everything, you have to do good things, and you have to deal with good people. However, a good person is a good person, but you must not go down the wrong path, no matter where you are, never stretch out your hand. If you want to go to a higher position, you must do practical things, deal with real people, clean yourself, care for the people, and don't forget your original intention. Chen Meiling looked at the time, smiled and said, "Okay, that's all for today's class and preaching, now let's eat, let's go to Longcheng Hotel to enjoy it." ”

The food in Longcheng Hotel is famous for being delicious, but the price is also famously expensive, although the two only ordered four dishes and one soup and asked for a bottle of ordinary red wine, and the consumption was nearly 1,000 yuan, and they ate their wages for three months.

The list must not be closed by the leader, Fan Sicheng quietly went to pay the bill, looking at the 3,000 yuan bonus he had just received and there were less than 1,000 left in his pocket for two days, and the thought of making a lot of money once again came to his heart.

Fan Sicheng sent Chen Meiling downstairs, said goodnight and said goodbye, and waited for Chen Meiling to go upstairs. This is taught by Deng Xianwen, saying that this is a kind of etiquette and a kind of respect, sending people home, especially sending leaders home, the most important thing is to throw it down at the door and turn around and leave, which will be mistaken by others as a reluctant behavior.

Chen Meiling took two steps and then stopped and said to Fan Sicheng: "Fan Sicheng, the reason why I said those things to you tonight is because I am optimistic about you and hope you will not let me down." ”

Fan Sicheng habitually tipped his abdomen and chested and said: "Thank you for the leader's guidance, I promise not to disappoint the leader." ”

Chen Meiling sneered and said, "It's been a few months since I came back, and the army's suit hasn't been changed yet, you should have bowed to me just now." ”

When Fan Sicheng heard this, her face turned red, and she was about to bow to her, she waved her hand and said, "Don't be sour, I'm joking with you." There is one thing I want to remind you, the New Year is a time for gifts, and it is also a time to do things, the matter of Li's Pharmaceutical, find time to contact, for the New Year, send something, eat and drink, maybe Mr. Li is happy, and the matter is settled?"

"Yes, I took the time to go to Mr. Li for a drink. Fan Sicheng bowed slightly and replied.