Scold me, don't scold me and cry, crying and crying I'm asleep.

My brother was even more angry, did he fall asleep and cried and fell asleep.

But what did he call me, you just did that kid think he didn't have any hair

It's me who has changed the least.,Slowly old photos or my white hair is a lot of that kind of dinosaur.,How do you keep saying, alas.,Let's celebrate the New Year.,Let's talk about this relative.,This feeling, you found out that the relatives are estranged and near.,

It's very interesting, for example, I have a brother, right, there is a brother and a brother, so let's talk about this, that is, me and my brother and my brother.

We have almost no contact with each other, and we have our own lives, right?

Each has its own life, so it should be said that it is much less than communicating with us.

There is almost no communication at home, and the men in our family don't like to talk, and they don't say a few words when they go home, uh, it should be said, it's really not very close, right?

And then, they talk about it, you talk about it.

Suppose, God told you, you have to choose a person who is bankrupt, right?

Whether to choose Wendao to be bankrupt or your brother to be bankrupt, say that you have to choose this question.

You can only choose one, no one asks Ye Jingbei is not I didn t say that right away, I just thought about the whole process when I stipulated, you said this buddy, you said your friend is very good.

But it may not be so close to one of your sisters, you and your brothers and sisters, and this blood relationship comes out, which means that you are just buddies.

That child is from my brother's family, and the situation that you can only talk about just now is more complicated, among the five immortals, for example, you have a brother who has been working with you all your life or helping you, and has done a lot of things, which is mainly good for bankruptcy.

Of course, it's not good, because this situation is not even a brother's problem, it's not a buddy problem.

What's the problem, he goes bankrupt without a roadblock, which is equal to your bankruptcy, which pair of lips and teeth, well, I don't think it's too difficult to choose.

Because the two of them are related by blood.

Let's just say that it's the ethical friendship relationship between people, I think it's more tiring to say that there must be contradictions in the same category, right?

This blue water is like many young people when we were children, including myself, when I was a child, I was asked a question, and my parents had a conflict.

Then I came to ask you separately, or with Mom, wow, that struggle.

Do we all have a bias in our hearts?

It's all my mother, and they are more tolerant and supportive and want to talk to my mother, but you don't dare to talk about it when I come to ask you, and I slapped him, you know?

That's still love in my heart, so in the same particle, do you want you to go bankrupt with you, is it you who is bankrupt?

Because you, as a child, are forced to choose between dad and mom, and it's an emotional issue, and it hurts the other a lot if you choose the other.

But what's the matter.

Brother or going bankrupt, he is more of a matter of interests, he is not you, I have to choose who I have a good relationship with today.

But what do you think of this, for example, if I assume that I also have three brothers, and I also have three brothers, and I have three brothers, I choose to let my brother go bankrupt.

The reason is because I think my brother can earn it back, and I think my brother has a better chance of turning over, so in this case I let him go bankrupt, and then our third brother talks together, that is, he expands his opinion, and we can help or whatever.

Can he find a way to get it back, can this matter be spread out, I don't underestimate this to say this kind of we know that between brothers and sisters like I have published a book before?

I wrote an article and it mentioned my sister, I don't know what my sister else put a photo, and then because I was only a little more than a year behind my sister.

I have been with my sister for 15 years, and they have not mentioned me, but I only know that I am not clear with either of them.

Because I left the house after I turned 20 and got good apples, is that apples good?

What do you think for yourself? What do you think with the other person?

I'll also read the book you wrote.,That's not bad.,I wrote a few of my QQs and one person didn't have this brother.,In fact, it's in the social structure now.。

If you are an ordinary person, there are not so many relationships, especially in different places, in fact, especially after middle age, each family is often the New Year, when will it become close?

That's the nature of your question. This means that you are a very rich person for you, and your brother will get closer, you see.

What they do and what they do will change, and I've seen many examples of this.

At this time, these sibling relationships are definitely not simply about loving you.

In this way, I think that Brother Ye Jingbei is really rich and poor, and it can't be because your era is not my fault.

It's my brother and brother, and I think they even have a special kind of self-esteem, which means that I don't want to be in this brother and even I sometimes don't understand, that is, I didn't even say that at that time I remember asking you.

I said that I think I would ask this question if I made more money, but I remember that there was an old brother next to me who would talk about this, and without this, it would be the development of the brothers.

He said that I remember this class, and he taught me a sentence called saving the urgent, not the poor.

That is, you are going to make a move if the business is bankrupt, but there is another situation where you just say that it is more realistic.

But now, for example, with all kinds of social tools, I've also seen that there are a lot of families who are one family, and maybe these family collaborations will stand all over the world, so there is a show to communicate.

I don't know if this is actually handed over or not, do you call this called or not?

I've really seen a lot of families like that, and there are families scattered all over the place.

All corners of a country, or even a whole world in a foreign country, where do the pictures say where am I playing now? I hope you will come too, and then how about it, and then give a thumbs up or something.

Then I followed our daughter to take the first place in the exam recently, and sang a song to everyone, and now because of such social tools.

Let's participate.,How about they contact alas.,This is very interesting.,Originally, we said that it's you, for example, from the siblings.,

When you talk about your relatives, I still remember it a few years ago, and when you talk about the Spring Festival, you all think that the weather is like a disaster.

Speaking of which, one is that this good guy who came home for the New Year doesn't send text messages here, this person who is responsible for caring about your marriage problem, it will be a lot of pressure, and the other is the problem of borrowing money.

But on the contrary, I have heard someone say this like Wen Dao now, so now that I have this modern treatment tool, ah, it seems that relatives are not connected.

And the pressure is not so great, and the pressure is not so great, there is a period of time, a lot, it seems to be that the New Year is afraid of annoyance, especially the big city.

As far as I know, people I know highlight travel during the New Year,

It's him every year, and when it comes to it, it's okay to sit and eat together, it's irrelevant, it's not relevant all year round, and it's irrelevant to do things, and some people can't even figure out who is after the next generation turns it over.

I don't know much.,That's it.,So now.,Maybe you're going through this WeChat or something.。

Because I've really seen a lot of my own relatives and his customer relationships, and then what is good, I just know that it's good, like I just told him that there are a bunch of relatives and friends, but in fact, I don't know each other and don't have anything to say.

But with the Internet, Ye Jingbei was not familiar with it before.

Because I don't know what you do often.,It's not affecting me.,We're just swiping the screen anyway and politely add ah.,You add my account and I'll add yours.。

Then I will always see my little cousin when I swipe the screen, and I think my little cousin is in prison, don't want it, and there will be a bird brother who will come up next year.

Where are you having fun, how can you have a good relationship, but there is one I tried to split up and what did ye jingbei just say.

I usually use this to deal with my aunt who is far away in Canada, is it okay to have a dog in Wuhan? It doesn't matter if it's good, it proves that when you go to visit the New Year, everyone greets their own Canadians at that time.

We always have to take a look together in terms of politeness.

You take out your child and someone in Canada who has an accidental contact, alas, Xiaowei Lengshuiyue, you go to find hello, hello.

I'm a friend of Qidong, and I heard that you are going to pay New Year's greetings to your foreign cousin.

We're going to go over again, and then that one is Australian, who knows he's Australian, I'm not bad for a long time to take 8 hours to leave home, call around and talk about people who have a lot of company.

I don't know the name and I still have to pay in the end, and I still think it's very necessary to eat such a meal.

Because if I didn't have such an opportunity, I wouldn't have had any contact with these relatives.

There will always be elders who are going to do something, for example, a few of my aunts have passed away.

But the youngest aunt is still there, so because of her appearance, why do we get together with other people, or because the elders are there.

So I think as long as the elders are there.

As long as someone doesn't see each other all year long than we did, and everyone ends up having a meal and the name doesn't matter.

I think in the end, I think it's still feelings, I'm mainly because of respect for the elderly, and after all, we are still related by blood.

As soon as the meaning of this occasion is verified, I will ask you, just because after all, there is still a blood relationship, what does this relationship feel like?

Then you, for example, you can be frank and say that this relative brought you that you better not have it.

Or is it really something for you, he won't bring me a lot of joy when he buys it, and it won't bring me much emotion.

But you can't deny that you just have so many surprises, so the Chinese New Year, I now feel that the world is very luxurious.

In this world, where can there be a country that can have a warm one a year, that is, is it okay?

The mainland is now a lot of globalization, and the shutdown for such a long period of time has stopped factories and workers go home.

That administrative body can also be suspended, and the approvals must be stopped, which is a great luxury, and I suspect that I think it is worth it.

It's still worth it, every time Ye Jingbei eats such a meal, I am thinking, people have a lot of economy, right?

It is often tied to the goals of public education in connection with national education.

But when you pay so much attention to your family, one of the consequences she brings is that sometimes there is a problem that the country can never run away, which is the so-called company problem.

For example, if you want this thing in ancient times, it is simply natural, so that you have so many doors like that in the Han and Tang dynasties.

He is basically a family, the problem is family politics, but its central integration has always had methods and ideas to curb these door systems.

Although in ancient times, it seemed to be a unified relationship between this family, the newcomer and the king of the country, but if you think about the imperial examination system, the imperial examination system of the country is incorruptible, and if you don't kowtow, you can unload the title to him.

Otherwise, it will kill the head of the country has always been a requirement of this shooter in the imperial power himself.

Then this is also after the Song Dynasty can be so certain, that is the Tang and Song Dynasty reforms, just when the Tang Dynasty was still relatively aristocratic culture, the Song Dynasty began to be able to rely entirely on the efforts of the imperial examination.

But now I have a question that is, ah, let's not think about this.

In the past, when it was said that hiding from relatives was actually hiding from borrowing money, right, or if everyone had no stake in each other at all.

Would you like to have a party with your relatives?

I'm talking about another problem now, it's like saying, alas, some people miss this old ah, such as old classmates, fellow villagers, but in fact, the foundation of love between people still lies in being able to talk.

The basis for being able to talk about it often lies in the fact that you have similar living conditions, similar values, similar hobbies and interests, which are not necessarily possessed by relatives.

It's often not even there, just like the feeling of some college students returning to the village after work, so it's annoying, you know?

That is to say, these seven aunts and eight aunts, we are not the day that people from the same world talk to me, this kind of day in this kind of alley is not the world I live in, and the things I care about.

Alas, how can you have children?

I want a few or something.,Alas.,If you're not looking for a girlfriend, that's all one.,There's a problem on this.。

So you don't talk every day, even every day, and then talk for a few days during the New Year, like your relative Tori what to find the mayor.

He doesn't have to celebrate the New Year to get out.

If he needs to celebrate the New Year, he will say now, alas, at least some of my friends want to say so, alas, once a year, once a year, and then the premise is that there is a basic water source.

We say that responsibility is good or warm, and then everyone doesn't have to catch up on the old days, just like Qidong said I don't know who is who.

Sitting there and having a cup of tea also makes you feel like you have a complete scene on your side.

And Leng Shuiyue, what did you just say, there are commonalities, and you can talk about this and that afterwards?

So how do you understand that when we go to a restaurant or a bar, we can talk to strangers, and that psychology is called the stranger effect.

Strangers say you think it's because I'm only going to stay with you one day a year?

I'll say an hour.

Even half an hour later, it was irrelevant for 364 days.

I won't have anything to do with you, so we can talk about some of them, which I don't usually talk to people in the office.

Alas, what happened to my grandfather's former wife, the table of the first table, alas, so pitiful.

He let out the weakness, the warmth, and the human things in his heart.

It's because I know I've been talking to you for an hour since I was talking to you, for that hour.

Actually, you're my stranger, I'm your client, clear and warm, I think that's the one.

But we still think it's okay to say, alas, but it's still a little bit disagreeable in that well, he's also a professional.

He also went to the bar to drink at this time, etc., so it was different, and Dewang was the second to think.

As long as you think I'm saying let's say.

I don't want to think that I am the only one who thinks that I am related to that relative, but I may also think that there are many with me, and there is another kind of relative.

Actually, I agree with you before, I just think it's two different things from talking to strangers in a bar.

Actually, it's really necessary to get your turn.

When you lived in a big city for a long time, you were now in the total number of the population.

Although the proportion of college students is getting higher and higher, the proportion of college students is more than 10 percent, and the proportion of elementary schools below junior high school is mainly two-thirds of the people.

The concept of the Spring Festival is to return to your hometown, you know that a large number of people work outside all year round, and he wants to live well, Chinese people.

He has two bread counterparts, and now we are in the factory together and we are making good or not.

Another important thing is that Wang Xiaoer is in the village next door to my home, so when he goes home to repair a sum of money, or when he is happy, it is the things of his hometown, you don't think that they bring money to his family every year when they go home.

Just help the family to build a house for someone, or can drive a car or a motorcycle or something, that's what he wants.

After he went back, he went back to this township, of course they were annoyed, they had some chaos, for example, many overseas Chinese returned to their hometowns to build, why, spent so much money to build houses.

Actually, that's a show-off, yes, it's show-off consumption.

So you, you, you, you're living well, isn't it a brocade night walk if you don't go back to your hometown?

But the ancients said it, what Ye Jingbei wanted to say was that Ye Jingbei felt that the two could be compromised, and I agreed.

Just now.

Ye Jingbei said that it is actually relatives today, especially distant relatives, today's relationship with us is a close stranger, and we usually have no common intersection points.

But because of that, I think it makes for a very interesting relationship.

That is to say, any of us, in this society, we have many, many social identities, many group identities.

My colleagues in my company are Yifan's identity, and I joined a club to play golf and tennis, which is also an identity.

I have a lot of identities that I can take the initiative to set up a classmate, and we also have some classmates who I can't put pressure on us.

My classmates said that these classmates were really boring.

I don't play with them anymore, I can quit this Facebook and block you, I'll pull you out of the group as soon as I go back, Ye Jingbei quit.

I can't quit because of the connection, so I can say that I'm quitting now.

Because of our basic mutual ethics students bring ethical responsibility, we have to have a basic level of trust.

No matter how fragile this character is.

Because of this basic trust, I sometimes say certain things than when I talk to strangers in a bar.

For example, uh, I can't talk about hurting family relationships, for example, I can't tell your wife's eldest brother that I actually have an idea, right?

But can you tell him how the boss in my company is?