He who touches pitch will be defiled
I think there should be two views on this topic, one is that those who are close to ink are black, and the other is that those who are close to ink are not necessarily black. I think I'm biased to say that those who are close to ink are black, so my topic is black near ink, but some people think that those who are close to ink are not necessarily black, for example, there was a saying in the past that said lotus, out of the mud but not stained with clear ripples without demons. It's about the noble quality of the lotus, but I have never been able to do it, so I have always thought that it is the black one who is close to the ink, because I tried, it is indeed like this, I really can't do it, hehe, in such a few years, I have always been flattering such a thought, so the people around me are generally very good people, because if it is too bad, I am really afraid that I will learn badly, and it turns out that my approach and understanding are correct.
At the beginning, there was a new student in our class that day, because I was a new class teacher, and I didn't know the situation, and I didn't know what was going on. It's not that I want to be myself, it's their arrangement, although I didn't have any relevant experience before, the leader said, we believe in you, I reluctantly agreed, after agreeing, because I was the first-year homeroom teacher, I didn't know much about the school, I was the first year in this school, and I was a homeroom teacher all at once, so I accepted him like this, after accepting him, I knew what kind of boy he was, at the beginning it was really as the principal said it was very good, the learning level was really good, the brain was still very smart, just like that, he has been in my class, I arranged him alone in a corner,But the position is very close to the front row.,It should be the first row.,But his academic performance is not very good.,It's just that his head is very smart.,So every time you choose a candidate for the competition.,He's within the range.,But it's been a long time.,Those people who play with him are some very poor students.,They are always inseparable to play together.,After a long time.,This boy really didn't study well before.,I thought he was just a momentary negligence.,And those people who play with him.,It's always a group of people who don't go to play.,Or to fight in groups.,Of course he's one of them.,At the beginning, I was still because he was just playful. After a long time, I realized that he just had no interest in learning, and in this way, a very smart little boy was so oblivious to everyone! Later, many people sighed, always saying that such a boy was indeed harmed by these people around him, but who harmed whom? If you can clean yourself up, can others harm you? This is the influence of the environment around you, and I want to say that in such an environment, can you really control yourself? Generally, when you are in school, you will find that those students with good academic performance, generally those who play with her also study well, but the classmates who do not study well play with people who do not study well.
I also found that many students study well when they are with good students, and when they are with bad students, they are not very good at studying. When I was in elementary school, there was a period of time when my grades were always very poor, and when my teacher told my parents, my parents found out the reason, the reason was that I often played with a girl next to me, and she was not good at studying, and my grades also declined, but fortunately, my parents found out about this momentum and stopped me in time, so that I was separated from her, and I have the current me.
But the same person like me, I have lived in the south, although the life is not long, but I also have a deep experience, in the south, on Sundays, we are all eating snacks, everyone eats dozens of yuan of snacks without blinking, because everyone eats like this, on Sunday we all go to the supermarket, a Sunday to buy more than 100 yuan of things, I don't feel how wasteful, just like this should eat and drink, I don't feel that I am wasting money, everyone is the same, so the living standard in the south is high, but back to the north, it will be a lot of peaceIf you really can go on like this, you don't care about money, those people around you, neighbors, and people in the village will also laugh at you, this is the reason for following the local customs.
In our place, there are many people, and what kind of talents will be achieved in what kind of environment. This is a story we often heard before, that is, Meng's mother moved three times, in order to find a good neighbor for her son, and there are many such people, for their children, they have done so much, such stories are also passed down through the ages, in contemporary society, there is no shortage of such people, in order for their children to learn well, find a good teacher, find a good classmate to be a neighbor, find a good mentor, there are all there, how much truth is contained in this?
But I really found that my attitude towards such a thing is like this, a person, what kind of person you want to be with, straw and garlic table, is the price of garlic, with cabbage, is the price of cabbage, with meat, is the price of meat, but is this really the case? I think so, so if we want to succeed, we still have to be responsible for ourselves, or we have to be responsible for others. Especially yourself. The black who is close to ink is indeed a rare saying, I hope everyone can protect themselves well.
Having said so much above, my point of view is that the close ink is black, the near ink is indeed black, and the near Zhu is red, this is the eternal truth, there are also some people, like a lotus out of the mud without staining the clear ripples without demons, but such people are very few, most of us are all based on the environment for the change, so we still have to choose a favorable environment for ourselves, which is beneficial to their own growth, but also let themselves learn more advantages, let themselves have more advantages and changes, let their life have more choicesI hope that everyone can bloom the brilliance of their lives, so that they can live a good and meaningful life!