The heart hurts
When I wrote this name, I also felt that the soul and pain were linked, there was some flavor, and even made me feel a special feeling, this is in an exam, the answer sheet written by the little nephew, the original question is like this: Soul (), what is filled in this parentheses?
I think many people will definitely fill in some words such as spiritual beauty and so on, because such words are positive and beautiful, but when the little nephew fills in like this, I also think that where did she get this word, just a student in the lower grades of primary school, why would she write it like this?
After that, I also thought a lot, when I looked at this word, was my little nephew sad during this time, or something wrong?
Is it something she actually feels? Originally, the previous exam, she failed, did not do well, this period of time, not only her, but also the people in the family, are quite stressed, mother is also every night to teach her to read and write, but also to tutor other homework, we are also actively cooperating, this period of time, she is also obviously feeling the pressure, she also told us, at night, she is in a very bad mood, she is so young, actually know that the mood is not good, really know a lot more, compared with when I was a child.
When she wrote down this word, in fact, I thought it was correct, because it was also reasonable, but I just thought about it for a long time, at this time, I also realized that it was not to put so much pressure on the child, whether it was still possible to relax, so I thought about it a lot, but when I asked her why she wrote this word, she said, it was a word on the TV she watched, a word in the cartoon, that is, it hurts the heart, we all know that watching TV is very small, but she can absorb a word in TV, but when she told me, it was a word seen on TV, my heart is still relieved, as long as it is not her true thoughts and feelings, because I think in front of grades and health, I hope that she can always live a healthy life, what we want is not necessarily high academic performance, because when you want to pursue grades, let the child bear too much pressure, what if the child is sick?
Without health, can she still read and study like before? In the conversation with many teachers, we also know that the child's health is the first, and then on the basis of health as much as possible to achieve good academic performance, this is the result we want, not the sadness after becoming a top student, no one wants to, we still hope that the child can grow up healthily, has always been like this, after thinking so much, we also gradually understand the current education, and gradually understand the education in life, or there is a certain limit, on the basis of healthy growth, can read more books, so that the child can withstand the pressure within the range of pressure she can bear, rather than the damage caused by excessive pressure to the child's heartThis is what I thought of when I saw the word "pain in the heart", although it was just a small word, only three words, but I also thought about it a lot, and until now, I am still thinking about it.