In the car, Chang Dan Toroli brought Xu Zhirong her favorite cake, which Chang Dan made for her daughter during the break.

In the past two years, Luo Ji has developed too fast, Chang Dan has to take charge of the company and take care of the family, even if her daughter is on vacation, she has no time to accompany her, Luo Li wants to enter Beijing, and specially asked her if she needs to bring some items to Xu Zhirong.

Luo Li took out the things, as well as the money Chang Dan gave to his daughter, Luo Li said: "I won't go back during the May Day holiday, Aunt Chang misses you very much!"

Xu Zhirong took the things over and said lightly: "I called my mother, she was too busy." ”

After Xu Zhirong finished speaking, she was slightly distracted, she went home during the winter vacation, and her mother didn't eat a few meals at home during the holidays, even during the New Year, she was busy.

My father was very silent at home, and every time my mother came back, he silently cooked something delicious for her, watched her finish eating, and then cleaned up the house. And the mother called after call, and the communication with the father was almost zero.

In Xu Zhirong's memory, there has been very little communication between her parents, and her father has been working silently, whether it was when he opened the breakfast shop or when his parents were not laid off.

But in the past two years, with the change of the identities of both parents, Xu Zhirong obviously felt the alienation between her parents, and her father was still silent as always, taking care of the family, but her mother spent less and less time at home because of the change of status.

If Xu Zhirong didn't understand anything in the past, she felt that this relationship between her parents was normal, but now, as she grew up and thought deeply about family, career, and love, she found that it seemed that the relationship between her parents was not normal, and Luo Li's words just reminded her of these.

Xu Zhirong said, "Luo Li, can I ask you a question?"

"Ask me anything!"

Xu Zhirong thought for a while and said, "You say, is family or career important?"

Luo Li smiled, he didn't expect Xu Zhirong to think about such a question.

He replied casually: "For men, there is a career before a family.

Because men have to provide for their families, provide their families with living security, let their families have no worries about food and clothing, create more wealth for them, and meet their needs, which is what men should do.

If a man can't even do the basic obligations, how to talk about the family, first of all, can raise the family, there is a family, otherwise no matter how good the marriage, built on the duckweed without an economic foundation will not last long, maybe the initial love is very sweet, but this kind of love will not last long, when firewood, rice, oil and salt become the main body of life, all contradictions will arise, so men must have a career, this is the guarantee of establishing a family. ”

"What about the woman?" asked Xu Zhirong.

"Woman?" Luo Li didn't think about this, but he quickly understood why Xu Zhirong asked this, and he said with a smile: "If it's just from my opinion on this issue, I think women should also have their own careers." In China's thousands of years of cultural heritage, or values, women have always been subordinate to men.

Although modern society advocates equality between men and women, in the depths of our minds, men and women cannot be equal, whether from a physical or psychological point of view, it is unrealistic to achieve equality in a complete sense, and women are still disadvantaged for both husband and wife.

And most Chinese people think that women should be husbands and children, but concepts are concepts, and many women still use practical actions to prove to these people that women can hold up half the sky, even no worse than any man, such as Aunt Chang, such as Sister Hong Bao, they are very successful in their careers, and their families take care of them very well, don't you say?"

Xu Zhirong didn't know how to answer, she only knew that Luo Li was talking about a common concept, but in fact, taking her family as an example, her mother had a lot of success.

Although her family seems to outsiders to be so harmonious, but is it really so? She often sees her father alone in a daze during the Chinese New Year at home, is his father happy?

Xu Zhirong suddenly realized that the troubles of growing up seemed to have been highlighted, in the past, she had never thought about these problems, but her growth could no longer make her ignore the changes that happened around her, especially her relatives.

In the past, the family held together for warmth, and ran around for life every day, although it was very hard, but the family was warm and there was laughter every day, but now, the mother is away from home all the year round for the sake of her career, and the family and career are ...... Xu Zhirong was a little confused, or it was because her father's loneliness caused her to think about life, which made her suffer from gains and losses!

Xu Zhirong said: "Luo Li, is your parents' relationship good?"

Luo Li said: "My dad is afraid of my mom, he likes to gamble when he is young, my mom looks at him every day, and a penny is broken in half for our brothers and sisters to study!"

"That's... How do they feel?"

"I used to always quarrel, every time my mother had the upper hand, after the quarrel, my dad was obedient and obedient, let him do whatever he wanted, if he went out for a long time, my mother would go out to find him. In the past, I thought that my mother was afraid that he would go out to gamble, but now that the living conditions are better, my mother is in charge of him, and my father has been out for a long time, so she is not at ease......"

Luo Li glanced at Xu Zhirong, her bright eyes stared at him, listening carefully to what he said about his parents. Luo Li asked with a smile: "Is it a ...... between Aunt Chang and Uncle Chang?"

Xu Zhirong didn't nod or shake her head, she thought about this question for a long time, but she didn't know who to tell her, she didn't know why, in front of Luo Li, she didn't feel anything wrong, so she naturally asked some questions.

Xu Zhirong said: "I just feel that there seems to be a little problem between them, my mother has been very busy in the past two years, and she has very little time at home, and my father doesn't like to talk, every time I go home, he is alone at home, and sometimes I feel very uncomfortable when I see him alone in a daze!"

Luo Li smiled: "It may be that Aunt Chang is too busy and ignores her uncle's feelings, this is to blame, it is because I put too much pressure on my aunt, in this way, when you have summer vacation, I will give Aunt Chang a long vacation, and your family of three will go out to travel for a period of time, at home and abroad, whatever you choose, the expense company will reimburse!"

Xu Zhirong had a smile on her face, "My mother will listen to you, and when the time comes, you will help me do the work!"

Luo Li patted his chest and promised: "Guaranteed to complete the task, but is there a reward?"

"What reward do you want?"

Luo Li smiled and said, "I haven't thought about it yet!" This thing's gaze made Xu Zhirong's face red, this guy must not have thought of anything good in his heart.