When one day we do good deeds from the heart, we find that what we want is not for our own reputation, nor do we want the affirmation of others, but when you do good deeds again and again, and your heart is hurt, I think you will still hesitate when you want to do good deeds, because this not only has no good impact on others, but also hurts yourself.

A little story I saw some time ago, there is an old man, she has a very good heart, every time she is always in the cold winter, free porridge for others to drink, in fact, in the morning to bring others a bowl of hot rice, it was a good kind act, and no money, it is free, it was very good, but it was understood by others as having a variety of purposes, so there is no need to do, one day really bad things happened, this old man is also kind when she did not have such a psychology of harming others, but only to find that there is a stone in such porridge, as a result, all people no longer eat his porridgeAnd because of what?

In fact, sometimes we really want to do something good for others, but we still don't have the courage to do this, and sometimes we find that we want to help others from the bottom of our hearts, and finally find that we still can't do it, we can't do anything.

We all understand the very kind actions of others as purposeful, so we not only take care of ourselves, in order to protect ourselves, but sometimes we are also incapable of taking such risks, who will take such risks?

I wanted to do something good, but I couldn't get the affirmation of others, but in the end I was hurt by others.

Everyone's heart is very fragile, and in society we have discovered that every time we hurt others, until in the end, others will no longer do such actions.

It's the same with me today, when I send my little nephew and cousin to school, I actually sometimes find out that I still have some ideas for my younger brother to do some good things, but I really don't do it, because I don't know what kind of results this will bring.

It doesn't matter if you are a person, but if you pull these guys to do good things like this, and finally hurt them, I think they can't handle the relationship between friends, people are all kind-hearted people, and they come out on such a cold day to do something they can do, but they are hurt, who would want to.

However, on such a snowy day, it will still be better to take these less traveled roads, because it is still convenient for your own travel.

In real life, we are the same, we are always used to the road that others have walked, so that it is like a sunny road, but sometimes we find that in fact, we still have to change our thinking at some point, change our own way of walking, so that it may be better.

Some time ago, I accidentally saw that the question of the civil service examination is actually very interesting, that is, the current situation that China is facing now is that if it is reformed, it will seek death, and if it is not reformed, it will wait for death, in fact, when encountering such a current situation, I want to say that if you don't reform, you have been waiting for death, whether it is a person or a country, when you encounter such difficulties, you still try to change it, because if you change, you may find a better way out, and if you don't change, you will wait for death, in fact, it is the most stupid performance, because even when a person has no food to eat, he will want to find some ways to find some ways to eat, to meet their most basic life, and a country is the same, when encountering difficulties, we still have to actively think of some ways to change the status quo, although such a status quo may bring some unsatisfactory results, but it is better than waiting for death like this, in fact, sometimes the reality is not necessarily as pessimistic as we think.

I can still use my own practical actions to change some, use my own practical actions to change some of my own status quo or use practical actions to change the status quo of some countries, but we can do very little, we are just a very ordinary person, so we can only manage ourselves, this is what we have learned in daily life Some very simple truths, in fact, sometimes take some roads that few people take, and in some very special times, it is also okay.

When I got home today, I rode a motorcycle to school, and I was the only one who rode a motorcycle to school today, and when I came back, I also came back by motorcycle, because I can only do this, because it is convenient for the three of us to go to school on a motorcycle, and how do we walk?

Three people, my little nephew is only a little over six years old, how did she walk so far to school, so that's all she can do, ride a motorcycle home when she goes home, so when you get home after that, my brother asks me, did you fall down on the road?

I said, no, he said your skills are okay, I said my skills are good, and in the end they laughed, because I used to crash into other cars when I was riding a motorcycle, and sometimes it's a small thing, but it's like a joke, and it can bring people happiness.

Although sometimes I am a disobedient child, although I am so disobedient every time, I will still choose the best methods for myself, so it will be better, because it is convenient, it is better than walking by myself, and it is better not to let the little nephew be cold.

It was already a holiday at noon, but I still thought it was worth it today, although it was very cold to go to school for a walk, but I still learned some things in my little nephew that he should have learned.

This should also be the case at this time, learning is very important. Sometimes you miss a class, the teacher will not make up such a class for you alone because you didn't come to study, sometimes even if you make up for it, there is no class, and the effect of going to school with everyone is good, so you still have to go to school on time every day if you can, so you can learn better knowledge, don't delay your own course, sometimes you find yourself, because of such and such things, those courses that were delayed when you were young, you took a long time, but you can't make up for it, this very uncomfortable feeling, I don't want to happen again in the next generation of people, so that's it, every time I urge them to study hard.