Chapter Ninety-Six: No, No, No, You Don't Understand

After talking to his parents a lot, Xiao Yu followed Ning Ning into the military area.

Because of Chu Zheng's position, his yard is in the innermost area of the military subordinate area, so it may take some work to use it.

Xiao Yu is not a fool, although he has never been to such a place since he was a child, but this does not mean that he will not be able to watch it! Especially after the difference in the division of military districts became more and more obvious, his understanding of Ning Ning's parents' titles became clearer and clearer, and it was also because of the clarity that he suddenly found that his mouth was ...... It's a little bitter!

Seriously, at this time, he has some darkness in his heart, and he really wishes that Ning Ning's parents are very ordinary and ordinary people. If that's the case, there is still room for maneuver between him and Ning Ning.

It's a pity, now it seems that the difficulty of his ability to tackle the problem has increased by an unknown level, so let's put it this way, if the original difficulty coefficient was one star, it may now be upgraded to five stars!

But even so, Xiao Yu still wanted to keep trying.

He has never liked someone so affectionately since he was a child, so even if his plan made his parents inadvertently crush the powder, he still wanted to stubbornly try it, try to see if he could make Ning Ning change his opinion of him, even if he just gave him a chance!

"Ning Ning, what level is uncle?" Xiao Yu was very uncertain in his heart, although it was difficult to say, but he still asked Ning Ning with difficulty.

"Deputy commander of the military district. This time, Ning Ning didn't continue to play sloppy, but her honest information made Xiao Yu, who was walking on the smooth road, stumble, so he didn't fall on his heels!

"Don't be too nervous, after all, this is not meeting parents. Ning Ning said calmly as if she hadn't seen Xiao Yu's embarrassment.

Xiao Yu smiled bitterly and said, "Are my parents ...... Makes you laugh and be generous?"

"Not really. Since Ning Ning calmed down, her eyes were a little too cold when she looked at Xiao Yu.

"I may sound a little ridiculous to your ears when I say this, of course, you can understand that I don't have a backache when I stand and talk, but I really don't think that my parents' position can make me much more noble than others. ”

Ning Ning stood still, looked at Xiao Yu fixedly and said: "The nobility I am talking about is not the social status, we can't help but admit that the achievements of parents and elders can make our children stand on different starting lines, many times, maybe in places where we may not be able to realize ourselves, we enjoy the glory and luck given to us by our relatives' status, so we have to take fewer detours than others, or enjoy many conveniences that ordinary people can't enjoy." ”

She couldn't help but smile wryly as she spoke: "Even if I claim to be a very upright person, I have to face this reality that may be unfair to ordinary people. Therefore, I can't just enjoy this benefit and talk cool things at the same time, I don't want to do such cheap and obedient things, and my conscience doesn't allow me to do that. ”

"Actually, what I want to talk about is about morality, or rather, about my own ideological level. I don't think that because of a good background, my mind should be nobler than others. From the very beginning, we are all human beings, and there is no difference. Our births may be different, but our return path should be very consistent, that is, to be useful to society and to the world. Even if you can't reach the level you want to achieve because of your personal material talent, your ambition and goal should not be skewed. ”

Ning Ning saw that Xiao Yu's eyes were a little straight at what she said, and she couldn't help laughing at herself: "I know that what I said may sound like you want to laugh at, after all, when I say this, it seems that I still don't have a backache when I talk standing up...... I don't know if you can understand what I'm trying to say, but what I want to tell you is that I can't accept that because I stand at the top, I can arbitrarily look down on people with lower status than myself, and I don't know if Ling Zun can be able to be neither humble nor arrogant when facing people who are higher than them. ”

Xiao Yu lowered his head and listened to Ning Ning say, although he wanted to look up and tell her many times that he was not the person she thought he was, but in the end, he did not muster up the courage to say it.

Ning Ning didn't care how he reacted, just continued to say what he wanted to say: "People should pursue a greater self, the more people who enjoy the status without their own efforts because of their good background, the more they should work hard and dedicate themselves, after all, compared with ordinary people, we have to do things much more smoothly." ”

"Ning Ning, you are because ...... Because I don't have the right ideology, that's why I have to give up this relationship?"

Although Xiao Yu subconsciously didn't think so, he couldn't help but want to think so.

Ning Ning honestly met his gaze, and then, looking directly into his eyes, said: "No, I'm not the kind of person who forces other people, I don't want to wanton moral kidnapping anyone, although I have my own ideas, but, I can't force others because I know that my ideas are noble or worthy of promotion, after all, the ideological realm is different, and everyone's thoughts can't be the same, I actually just want to make myself not fall behind." ”

"I remember you didn't seem to have such high expectations of me before. Xiao Yu asked helplessly, "If you had such a request, we might not be able to become lovers." ”

"I didn't think about it that much before, but what your parents said to me made me have to think about it more!" Ning Ning sighed and said, "I'm not saying this to get revenge on you, I just want to tell you about the changes in my thinking." Xiao Yu, there is a saying, you should have heard of it!"

"Do you want to say that you are rich for only three generations, or is it the fifth generation of the gentleman?" Xiao Yu asked her expressionlessly.

"I won't say anything else, just talk about your Xiao family, let me ask you, if your Xiao family's genealogy is pushed up, how many generations can it be pushed to?"

Ning Ning's sudden question made Xiao Yu slightly stunned.

"What? You don't know?"

Xiao Yu shook his head and said, "The Xiao family's genealogy was revised later, but it can be traced back to the time when the warlords were fighting. ”

"Your family is a big family?"

"It's not. At most, can he be regarded as a rich man?" Xiao Yu was a little relaxed when he remembered his family story, "It's just that some enlightened rich people, after their children and grandchildren go to school, they will buy shops in the city and do some small business, they can't be considered rich, but they don't have to worry about food and clothing." ”

"What if it's better than the Xiao family now?"

"That's a drop in the bucket!"

Ning Ning nodded, and asked him again: "So, how long has your Xiao family been thoroughly developed?"

"You...... You make me think about it. ”

Xiao Yu calculated carefully and said, "About half a century, a little more?"

"So if you go back three generations, it's probably a well-off family?"

"If you trace back a little harder, then it's probably a very ordinary person!"

Xiao Yu probably heard what Ning Ning wanted to say, so he didn't wait for her to say it, and said it in a self-deprecating tone.

He did this, it really made Ning Ning want to look up to him!

"I heard that the Han family started shortly after the end of the last feudal court, and the Han family at that time also struggled for their ideals.

It's just that later the ancestor decided to abandon politics and go into business...... Later, the ancestors devoted themselves to learning or drilling skills.

Of course, this is the Han family's business, if you talk about the grandfather's family, then the history of the Han family is very long...... It is said that the genealogical booklet that my grandfather received can be flipped through to the Tang Dynasty, and according to the records on the first few pages of the booklet, this is still a clear record. ”

"Sounds like you're lofty!" Xiao Yu really didn't flatter when he said this, he really thought like this!

"Xiao Yu. As Ning Ning spoke, she called Xiao Yu coldly, which surprised Xiao Yu.

He straightened up and said, "Here!"

It can be seen that although he seems to be much more relaxed, he is actually still nervous!

"Xiao Yu, do you think ...... When I tell you about the history of the Chu and Han families, am I showing off to you?"

"No, no, no, I wouldn't think so!"

Xiao Yu hurriedly waved his hand: "I really don't have this idea!"

The expression on Ning Ning's face gradually became serious, but she did not continue the topic she had just mentioned, but continued to say the previous words: "It is said that when my Chu family was beautiful, I also made people shout Chu Bancheng. It is said that our ancestors, even the commander of the army, had to look up to three points. But you see, after the scenery, what can be left is the legend at that end, the once freshly clothed angry horse, but it is just a period of history that is either known or unknown. ”

As she spoke, the expression on her face was a little ethereal!

It is said that the Han family from the beginning of the Tang Dynasty to the end of modern times, the people of the year are almost every other generation, and the most beautiful time is the three generations of great-fathers, sons, and grandchildren are all on the list, and later they all entered the cabinet, and the highest Han family also served as a deputy prime minister! After modern times, although the Han family is not as high-profile as the ancestors, but take a closer look, the ancestors and grandchildren during the winter vacation have high-end talents in many industries. ”

Xiao Yu couldn't help but sigh a little when he heard this: "This ...... It's the foundation!"

"No!" Ning Ning couldn't help but smile at the corner of his mouth when he heard this, and said, "Or should it be said that this is not just the heritage, but the self-knowledge that can be precipitated after the long river of history, and then passed on to future generations." ”

As she spoke, she looked at Xiao Yu, her big eyes seemed to be smiling, as if she was looking at him, and it seemed that she was looking at time and space through him.

"Yes, self-knowledge is self-knowledge! Because of self-knowledge, we will not be vain because of the glory of our ancestors, nor will we hesitate because of ups and downs. Because there is self-knowledge, so you can have a dialogue with history through self-knowledge during self-reflection, and when you open the genealogy, you will find how inconspicuous the people who can be reflected in the ups and downs of history. When you look at history in the face of those words that are full of glory or are all low tides, you will find that something really meaningful is to do something meaningful and valuable for the country or for yourself. ”

Ning Ning said this, and suddenly, she slowly withdrew her emotions from that emotion, so her whole person trembled, and then said: "I don't think that the Chu family and the Han family can produce elites from generation to generation, and I don't think that the Chu family and the Han family can really continue to inherit for thousands of years like their ancestors."

But I think that as long as this self-knowledge can be preserved, then the seed of inheritance can be preserved inadvertently.

Even if it is like a dandelion, it can always slowly fall into the right soil and continue to take root and sprout.

However, the Xiao family, if you continue to look down on ordinary people like this, look down on yourself like this, and can't accurately recognize yourself, how long do you think the Xiao family can be inherited?" Ning Ning didn't seem to care if this speech was so bad that it would make Xiao Yu lose face. After all, she didn't make peace with Xiao Yu in the first place. If...... He can't hang it on his face, so he can't hang it!

But Xiao Yu's reaction was not quite the same as Ning Ning thought.

"Not bad!" When he looked into Ning Ning's eyes, the mood in them was also very low, "The Xiao family's decline has appeared, if it can't be solved well, I don't think it can be smoothly transmitted to my grandson." ”

When Ning Ning heard this, she couldn't help but smile: "Then you don't have a lot of pressure, if you can, you'd better have a son now, maybe there are capable sons and grandchildren who can help you!"

Probably because Xiao Yu's verbal attitude didn't make Ning Ning hate it, so she talked to him with a much softer attitude.

"Ning Ning, if you don't object, I want to ...... We can get the certificate now!" Xiao Yu couldn't help but feel nervous when he heard Ning Ning make fun of himself like this, he knew Ning Ning very well, if she really let her see him as a friend, it would really be a good friend forever!

He didn't want to be friends with Ning Ning, he could have been a partner, so why should he be friends?!

"You're quite persistent!" Although Xiao Yu didn't say a lot, his eyes were too capable of expressing emotions, so without him saying it, Ning Ning could interpret what he wanted to say from the bottom of his eyes!

"It's not easy to marry a daughter-in-law now, if I don't detach, wouldn't it be stupid?!"

Xiao Yu said it as a matter of course, Ning Ning suddenly found that he didn't seem to have anything to say?

"What your parents told me, I can tell my parents clearly, do you think you will see a good face when you see them now?"

Although Xiao Yu was prepared for this, listening to Ning Ning say this, he could still feel his scalp tight. But now, ...... It can be said that the difficult situation was not created with the help of his good parents? What can he say? He can only go on the hard head! If she retreats now, she will look down on herself! Moreover, listening to Ning Ning's meaning, maybe she is better able to solve it.

"Ning Ning, can you ...... Tell me that if I cooperate with you, how much might you reconcile with me?"

"What if it's impossible to reconcile?" Ning Ning looked at him and said, "Can you just treat this as a visit between ordinary friends?"

"Ning Ning, I asked this, not to consider whether I should try hard to chase you, but to see if I was looking for you to get back together, and it would be good to chase you again!"